I got to thinking about this recently. A lot of women out there look down on escorts and men who go to them and they think it's pathetic - and I myself am not a fan of it - but when you really think about it, what is the difference between an escort and an every day woman who really just wants to use guys for their money/resources, or who actually say they want a "sugardaddy"? To me the every day woman who's looking for money is not really a lot different than the escort except that the every day woman is generally slimy and deceitful about it. The escort makes it no secret that she does what she does for money.
But what do you think?
Which is worse: an escort? Or a woman who just gets involved with men for their money?
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24 50depends. in the case for the woman who only cares for the money: does he know this? if he does, it's equal. if he doesn't, the latter is worse.
judging woman is the worst.
Judging anyone is worst. ;-)
Hahah well some of you guys mite be confusing a woman who is looking for a man that is a provider and a woman who only wants your money two different things
Or, those women are often one in the same but use looking for a provider as a cover for wanting just money.
And men like you are broke and hate on women lol... i want a man who can provide for me and my children he don't have to be rich or give me expensive gifts but he has to be able to afford food on the table and have a home and car.
@bellapizza I'm nowhere near broke. I have food, my own place, a job, and a car. What do you have? Cuz I'm not interested in raising no womanchild who simply wants me to provide.
i want to serve my husband and take care of our children if that makes me a child then ok i am child... anyway byee
Sorry, but that is what your initial opinion here does not say. Why don't you be honest and write it here. Now we misunderstand you.
Any bitch that wants to fuck with me better have her own money and her shit together.
I have had issues with women[sex partners] expecting things. They should pay me for the treatment I provided. One woman said* I only do that if I'm on $#@%@$ ... knowing in rx $@^@&@. We call them bag whores
Implying that women who work as escorts are bad people. The most honourable women I've met in my life are escorts, as you point it out. It's always fair play with them. I pay for a service and get exactly what I paid for. The alternative is to waste endless hours of your time and a fortune of your hard earned money on dates and MAYBE get what you really seek. Women who claim to be against escorts are typical hypocrites and virtue signal about morality when they are not much different. In fact they are worse.
Very strong point, especially "The alternative is to waste endless hours of your time and a fortune of your hard earned money on dates and MAYBE get what you really seek." That really is true. Carries impact when you put it that way.
Glad I found mine quickly. Some men seem to waste tons of money for just another failed date (because guess what? Her family "is poor and needs a doctor to be payed" <-- Gold-digger's answer being a tearjerker).
The only honest person here. Everyone else is delusional...
@BrownBratzDoll Your kind of view, not mine. :-) I love my girlfriend to much. And I guess #LinusTorwads is not a name to you. That is okay, but here is what he says: "Software is like sex. It is better when it is free." Yes, my best friend can confirm this, sex is really much better when it is free (read: with girlfriend).
Oh, #LinusTorwalds (L missing).
@roland77 Your girlfriend uses sex to manipulate and you don't even know it. Every woman uses sex as bargaining tool. Don't deny that yours doesn't do that. This will never happen with an escort who gets paid for a service. You say that you love your girlfriend too much. That exactly is the problem. you're wearing love googles and cannot think rationally. Without knowing anything about the relationship I can very well imagine that you're always doing her bidding. No matter what, it's always about her her her her her and what she wants. That is love for a woman. It's what you can do for her. If you stop obeying her she will start throwing temper tantrums and say that you don't love her and you don't do anything for her. Literally every man who has been involved in at least one relationship has been through this. That's why Im done dating. Give me more sexy hookers that bang like pornstars please.
In away they are both the same in the end. either way your paying for it. one is illegal and the other isn't.
Yes, true about legality. Sure the later one is not (yet) illegal but abusive and hurtful. An escort won't deceive you, unless you don't know how red-light districts work. I don't know them, just read a lot about it, both con and pro.
In the end your still paying one way or another. im not talking about legalities here. thats a completely different subject. there 1 thing that varies between them.1 is legal and the other isn't. if you have money you should know that majority of women are after you for your money so your propared for that from the get go. once your money is gone or you stop paying or buying they both leave you.
Greed is the main reason, not women's decision to leave you because of low money. I was and am poor. Still she wants being with me together. Our today's world is ruled by capitalists and they have poisoned our hearts with money. So which one is legal, the other illegal for you, if I may ask? Prostitution is often only "tolerated" by citizens, but not really legalized.
I agree with you. The hooker and client know what's going on, compare to a woman who doesn't love nor care for a man but acts like it to benefit from his resources and financial security he can offers her.
at least the escorts are honest about their intentions
At least with the escort you know how much you pay and what you will get, you are not betrayed or manipulated, you know the deal.
The every day woman is worse. A lot of every day women expect money for sex or just expect money with no sex. I had sex with one woman, she said nothing about money then here boyfriend pimp demaned money for having sex with his girlfriend or so he said he was her boyfriend, who knows maybe he was just her pimp. Then she started wanting money too. She had sex with me just to be with me not her so called job.
prostitution is a lot like dating, except you get what you pay for. Google “men becoming unmarriageable women bread winner”. Think both sides probably equally as bad.
The breadwinner (if seen positive) can feed his family, what is bad on that not to marry him?
@roland77 im saying There really isn't a win or worst option. The third option, she has the $, the the woman is the breadwinner, divorce has a higher rate. I guess the 4th combination would be she’s paying for sex, but even the male escorts i know, women want to talk to someone, not sleep with them. So kinda not valid here in this debate in my opinion as o doubt would come up in a relationship issue.
That doesn't sound very healthy to me. Na, not my thing. I stick with real women, not those gold-digging, desperate women. Mine is not really broken, just poor but can make a life.
@roland77 yeah in both instances hooker or gold digger, the only difference is the contract between you and the state called marriage. stick with someone who actually cares about you. You can even out any income differences with what someone does at home.
Sure prostitution is bad, because it drives love away (money cannot buy love) and only satisfies the sex-wanting part (also women go to prostitutes, fun-fact!)
Definitely the gold digger. At least with the escort, the price is up front and at an agreed limit. The other woman is conniving and devious, trying to get into your pockets as deep as she can. I'd take the high priced hooker any day.
Yep, I would too.
An everyday woman will never tell you upfront she wants your money. She will lie. An escort will not lie. As simple as that.
everyday woman is the same as escort, like an actress who sleeps around in her movies just because they are paying her to act is the same as a prostitute who gets paid for acting as well.
The everyday woman of course, hookers are at least honest about their intentions
I have a lot respect for women in escort. Not gold diggers.
In my opinion we all whore for money. Don't we all get fucked at work? If they're safe and honest it's really not my business
Talking about #capitalism here? :-)
I'd go with the latter.
Women taking advantage of a man's money.