Which one (s) would make you want to no longer pursue the person?
DizzyDesiiEditor
Would the things on the poll cause you to find them unattractive or boring? I dont see those things as unattractive or boring but then again im biased in this situation 😂 I started to add “more tits than ass” on the poll but im pretty sure i already know how most feel about that 🤣 Im expecting to see some “so what does this person do for fun?”... kinda sad and immature if people think smoking/drinking/partying are the only ways to have fun #FeelFreeToList
I would not like that they werent into smoking anything (weed, cigarettes, hookah, etc)
Vote A
I would not like that they werent into partying at all
Vote B
I would not like that they werent into drinking alcohol
Vote C
I would not like having to date for 6 months without sex
Vote D
I would not like that they prefer to spend more time indoors/at home
Vote E
I would not like that they’re more book smart than street smart
Vote F
I actually would still pursue them regardless of these
Vote G
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Updates:
+1 y
I expected the withholding sex until i felt “in love” to be a dealbreaker but im shocked a lot of smokers/drinkers dont want a partner who won't do the same 🤷♀️
+1 y
People please read 🤦♀️ I said i DO NOT smoke/drink/party... option G is for those who agree with my stance on A-F 🤦♀️
As long as they do not have negative impact on my life am chill with anything ( just leaving drugs and cheating )
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
You do or dont do drugs/cheat?
farhaan7
+1 y
Nope I don't do drugs and never have done , for cheating Even if I do I say it on face what I did ( nope have nt cheated ) I don't do it on the person s back even if I am getting off track I tell the person honestly what I am feeling or what I have done , sexted once that's max ( but that time I wasn't in a relationship ) never been in a relationship ever where I could say the other person was my girlfriend.
farhaan7
+1 y
And nope I haven't ever been in any relationship till now
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farhaan7
+1 y
Once I felt something for a girl she was giving me signs I went crazy improved my running speed , opened meme page , started sketching for her ( cuz I needed something to protect her in future cuz I wanted to industrial design er ) but later on I came to know she was cross dating and she alrdy had boyfriend. I had shifted mid of the yr , the girl gave me her number after I shifted , 1 fucking yr I was in a dilemma she liked me or her boyfriend , at the end she went for her boyfriend made me breakdown later on I got angry kudos to her 1 did not have any relationship till 20 ( cuz that freaking dumbass cheater had kept fast for me )
farhaan7
+1 y
Yup I did sext someone 1 month before that's the max I have gone that too when it's almost 2 years and I haven't got any response from her or being completely feel like a shit.
farhaan7
+1 y
I mean I did sext for first time this Feb
farhaan7
+1 y
If I tell u the whole story it would be pretty long and depressing
farhaan7
+1 y
It's ok to withhold sex
farhaan7
+1 y
For me something that will make me persue them longer is their ability to hold my aggression 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅I never have any but my parents and my friends say a lot I get pretty aggressive even when I think I was not being aggressive. if I am wrong I do apologize I do accept my mistakes but before that I do a pretty huge damage ( as per my parents )
msc545Master
+1 y
Waiting 6 months before having sex probably means they are having sex with someone else. No thanks.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Not for me. For me i have to be in love in order to have sex and i won't be in love in less than 6 months so 🤷♀️
msc545
+1 y
Whatever works for you is just fine really...
DizzyDesii
+1 y
Im just trying to explain that not everyone wanting to wait is having sex on the side
Deku2009Yoda
+1 y
I would still pursue them regardless of them
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Ok good
Mystery_WorldXper 6
+1 y
I'd go with book smart.. one need to know how to trick people into something.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Lmao i can still persuade... dont get it twisted 😂
SynikalXper 6
+1 y
The no sex thing will have me bent. Idc about bot listening as when I first met most people, I literally tune everything out in little snippets. I'm generally watching their mannerisms, features, style. If all checks out I tune in.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Thats just a song... only focus on the polls
Synikal
+1 y
Yea I know it is a song. You're kinda late. I listen to alessia cara too.
DizzyDesii
+1 y
Okay so then you should know what she means in the song... she's saying that to people who she's not interested in...
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Synikal
+1 y
I was replying to the initial question for the poll... not the song..
DizzyDesii
+1 y
What in the poll mentions not listening?
Synikal
+1 y
I'm leaving this discussion here. There is a communication issue here.
Slim57Master
+1 y
Waiting 6 months for sex
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Like i said im fine with handjobs from the get go then oral once month 3 hits but sex is 6+
Slim57
+1 y
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, I mean I could do that if you're good at both lol
DizzyDesii
+1 y
LMAO
jastimeXper 2
+1 y
There is more to life than sex drugs and rock-and-roll live a little
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Im not into those things. And i feel very alive without partaking in those
jastime
+1 y
I feel you I used to par take in that life and found it to be very 1 second thrill and then a life time of let down I am very happy sober do my own thing and laugh at my own jokes these day and have a great time doing it
DizzyDesii
+1 y
Same
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jastime
+1 y
Nice
jastime
+1 y
Isn't that a shame
original1366Xper 2
+1 y
Smoking
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Read the updates and the poll. It says i am NOT into smoking
Anonymous
+1 y
I would not pursue a female who smokes, drinks, does drugs, parties, has tattoos, weird piercings/gauges, a slutty past.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Read the poll and update 🤦♀️ I said im NOT into those things
Opinion Owner
+1 y
I never said you were. I was simply answering the question.
DizzyDesii
+1 y
YEa but i was saying which ones on the poll... you rewarded them so i felt targeted 🤷♀️ Anyways i understand now... ig
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 44As long as they do not have negative impact on my life am chill with anything ( just leaving drugs and cheating )
You do or dont do drugs/cheat?
Nope I don't do drugs and never have done , for cheating Even if I do I say it on face what I did ( nope have nt cheated ) I don't do it on the person s back even if I am getting off track I tell the person honestly what I am feeling or what I have done , sexted once that's max ( but that time I wasn't in a relationship ) never been in a relationship ever where I could say the other person was my girlfriend.
And nope I haven't ever been in any relationship till now
Once I felt something for a girl she was giving me signs I went crazy improved my running speed , opened meme page , started sketching for her ( cuz I needed something to protect her in future cuz I wanted to industrial design er ) but later on I came to know she was cross dating and she alrdy had boyfriend. I had shifted mid of the yr , the girl gave me her number after I shifted , 1 fucking yr I was in a dilemma she liked me or her boyfriend , at the end she went for her boyfriend made me breakdown later on I got angry kudos to her 1 did not have any relationship till 20 ( cuz that freaking dumbass cheater had kept fast for me )
Yup I did sext someone 1 month before that's the max I have gone that too when it's almost 2 years and I haven't got any response from her or being completely feel like a shit.
I mean I did sext for first time this Feb
If I tell u the whole story it would be pretty long and depressing
It's ok to withhold sex
For me something that will make me persue them longer is their ability to hold my aggression 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅I never have any but my parents and my friends say a lot I get pretty aggressive even when I think I was not being aggressive. if I am wrong I do apologize I do accept my mistakes but before that I do a pretty huge damage ( as per my parents )
Waiting 6 months before having sex probably means they are having sex with someone else. No thanks.
Not for me. For me i have to be in love in order to have sex and i won't be in love in less than 6 months so 🤷♀️
Whatever works for you is just fine really...
Im just trying to explain that not everyone wanting to wait is having sex on the side
I would still pursue them regardless of them
Ok good
I'd go with book smart.. one need to know how to trick people into something.
Lmao i can still persuade... dont get it twisted 😂
The no sex thing will have me bent. Idc about bot listening as when I first met most people, I literally tune everything out in little snippets. I'm generally watching their mannerisms, features, style. If all checks out I tune in.
Thats just a song... only focus on the polls
Yea I know it is a song. You're kinda late. I listen to alessia cara too.
Okay so then you should know what she means in the song... she's saying that to people who she's not interested in...
I was replying to the initial question for the poll... not the song..
What in the poll mentions not listening?
I'm leaving this discussion here. There is a communication issue here.
Waiting 6 months for sex
Like i said im fine with handjobs from the get go then oral once month 3 hits but sex is 6+
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, I mean I could do that if you're good at both lol
LMAO
There is more to life than sex drugs and rock-and-roll live a little
Im not into those things. And i feel very alive without partaking in those
I feel you I used to par take in that life and found it to be very 1 second thrill and then a life time of let down I am very happy sober do my own thing and laugh at my own jokes these day and have a great time doing it
Same
Nice
Isn't that a shame
Smoking
Read the updates and the poll. It says i am NOT into smoking
I would not pursue a female who smokes, drinks, does drugs, parties, has tattoos, weird piercings/gauges, a slutty past.
Read the poll and update 🤦♀️ I said im NOT into those things
I never said you were. I was simply answering the question.
YEa but i was saying which ones on the poll... you rewarded them so i felt targeted 🤷♀️ Anyways i understand now... ig
*reworded