This question is primarily for guys in regards to their penile hardness, but since I like to keep things gender-neutral, ladies can vote regarding whether (if their nipples get hard) their nipples go soft after orgasm.But men, answer regarding the hardness of your penis. Do you lose your erection after orgasm?
I don't have the experience to answer this question
my 1 ex was weird he never lost it like he would just stay hard
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humanearthMaster
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I would say about 70 to 80% of the time I go soft. But I have a gimmick that keeps it hard without the use of drugs or alcohol. That if I know its going to be one of those nights a head of time.
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Guardian45
+1 y
Interesting. What's your gimmick?
sixndramaXper 1
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I voted “never go soft” in reference to my nipples, or even my clit (since nipples aren’t an accurate correlation for penis). I can remain quite aroused long after sex.
But, most men I’ve encountered go soft after orgasm.
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mistixs
+1 y
Yeah I know, clits are the equivalent to the penis, but most people don't think of clits as getting "hard" despite the fact that they do get engorged when aroused, but I didn't want to confuse people with a biology lesson in the question so I just went with the most obvious and least confusing one :p
sixndrama
+1 y
I understand. I refer to it as my “lady boner”
mistixs
+1 y
Now that I think of it, a better question would have been "after orgasming during sex, do you typically lose your physical arousal (erection if you're male, clitoral engorgement if you're female)?" Oh well
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sixndrama
+1 y
My clit remains excited for a bit, but my nipples will remain “alert” for a lot longer after a sexual encounter.
broken_heart_at_48Xper 7
+1 y
Sometimes but let a breeze come through and he's ready to go again. I'm a twice a night kinda guy been that way for about 25 years. So usually I stay strong.
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ExterminatoreGuru
+1 y
Pretty much always.
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Onlythetruth11Xper 2
+1 y
It definitely depends on the situation, the mood.. how hot and heavy everything is. If we're in a hotel room, candles lit, some good music or something and we're just going at, most likely I'll stay hard or go soft for a minute or two then get hard again for the next round.
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es20490446eMaster
+1 y
Usually, except if I'm too excited and I continue.
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MrZainXper 2
+1 y
Yea I stay hard usually go round 2 if she can take it
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Titanic1912Guru
+1 y
I do but only when I’m masturbating. I’m still a virgin.
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Jamie05rhs
+1 y
This makes no logical sense. If you're still a (male) virgin, how would you ever have an orgasm except through masturbation?
Titanic1912
+1 y
@Jamie05rhs I’m never had sex!
Jamie05rhs
+1 y
Oh, okay. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I was thrown off by the way you worded your answer. ("only")
Riddler1412Yoda
+1 y
Rarely. It usually stays "up".
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terrancemac34Xper 6
+1 y
It depends, if am into her like that as well.
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HydrogenXper 5
+1 y
I usually wrap it around my shoulders for it 15s and then I can keep fawking.
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sexysusan69Xper 4
+1 y
My man will go down unless I have large buttplug on place. He stays up w that in
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Guardian45
+1 y
In you or him?
sexysusan69
+1 y
In him
RobertmeXper 2
+1 y
It is how you how you work your magic because after all and is he was trying to please you
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BobbyC65Guru
+1 y
I always go soft after masturbation.
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Iuse2handsXper 5
+1 y
It remains up for a few hours.
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s2firestarYoda
+1 y
Sometimes. Depends on a lot of factors.
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CaptainLegalYoda
+1 y
I stay hard for while but I go soft after 2 minutes and the erection I have is like 70% hard. I can't penetrate more because it's extra sensitive but most of the time when I cum, I immediately go down on my girlfriend and eat her pussy. After 5 minutes I'm 100% hard again. That's also my secret and I can last more than 2 hours.
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Jamie05rhsMaster
+1 y
Yes. The penis does get soft. But it gets hard again after that.
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moonpie89Master
+1 y
I have no idea if my nipples go soft after. That thought doesn't cross my mind
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10 91my 1 ex was weird he never lost it like he would just stay hard
I would say about 70 to 80% of the time I go soft. But I have a gimmick that keeps it hard without the use of drugs or alcohol. That if I know its going to be one of those nights a head of time.
Interesting. What's your gimmick?
I voted “never go soft” in reference to my nipples, or even my clit (since nipples aren’t an accurate correlation for penis). I can remain quite aroused long after sex.
But, most men I’ve encountered go soft after orgasm.
Yeah I know, clits are the equivalent to the penis, but most people don't think of clits as getting "hard" despite the fact that they do get engorged when aroused, but I didn't want to confuse people with a biology lesson in the question so I just went with the most obvious and least confusing one :p
I understand. I refer to it as my “lady boner”
Now that I think of it, a better question would have been "after orgasming during sex, do you typically lose your physical arousal (erection if you're male, clitoral engorgement if you're female)?" Oh well
My clit remains excited for a bit, but my nipples will remain “alert” for a lot longer after a sexual encounter.
Sometimes but let a breeze come through and he's ready to go again. I'm a twice a night kinda guy been that way for about 25 years. So usually I stay strong.
Pretty much always.
It definitely depends on the situation, the mood.. how hot and heavy everything is. If we're in a hotel room, candles lit, some good music or something and we're just going at, most likely I'll stay hard or go soft for a minute or two then get hard again for the next round.
Usually, except if I'm too excited and I continue.
Yea I stay hard usually go round 2 if she can take it
I do but only when I’m masturbating. I’m still a virgin.
This makes no logical sense. If you're still a (male) virgin, how would you ever have an orgasm except through masturbation?
@Jamie05rhs I’m never had sex!
Oh, okay. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I was thrown off by the way you worded your answer. ("only")
Rarely. It usually stays "up".
It depends, if am into her like that as well.
I usually wrap it around my shoulders for it 15s and then I can keep fawking.
My man will go down unless I have large buttplug on place. He stays up w that in
In you or him?
In him
It is how you how you work your magic because after all and is he was trying to please you
I always go soft after masturbation.
It remains up for a few hours.
Sometimes. Depends on a lot of factors.
I stay hard for while but I go soft after 2 minutes and the erection I have is like 70% hard. I can't penetrate more because it's extra sensitive but most of the time when I cum, I immediately go down on my girlfriend and eat her pussy. After 5 minutes I'm 100% hard again. That's also my secret and I can last more than 2 hours.
Yes. The penis does get soft. But it gets hard again after that.
I have no idea if my nipples go soft after. That thought doesn't cross my mind