Who has more often thought you were attractive? The opposite sex, or your own gender?

[ManOnFire]

Have you been told that you're good-looking more from the opposite sex? Or your own gender? I've often had other guys think I'm not that good-looking and even joke about it, while it's more often been females to think I'm attractive.

Has it been this way for you? Or the opposite where more of your own gender thinks you're good-looking but less so from the other sex?

[Kurαȷ]

I mean, the only person who openly said that they are attracted to me PHYSICALLY was a gay man.

So, statistically...

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Both

[AudreyB88]

The opposite gender. I often get called ugly by other women.

[ManOnFire]

They're probably jealous.

[kimmieomally]

I find men are more attracted to me than women.

[SydneySentinel]

Women haven't really said directly that I'm attractive... they've complimented my hair or clothing, etc but not necessarily my looks. So by default, men.

[Ally247]

hard to say

[nella965]

The saddest thing is when some folks think you're good looking / average looking but you see nothing but unattractiveness in the mirror.

Some people have called me gorgeous, beautiful, pretty but I have literally never seen it. Meanwhile I've heard others call me average looking. But all I see is unattractiveness in the mirror. so im kinda confused about what to think.

[ManOnFire]

It must be your own self-perception. If multiple people are saying you're attractive then you probably are.

[arabgoddess]

I always had guys tell me.. Why don't females tell me? That's why I feel I am not

[YellLow]

Heard it from guys and grown women so I don't know what to tell you

[CubsterShura]

My own gender, d u h. To the opposite gender I'ma furniture. Not even that because at least people like to sit on furniture 😂

[ManOnFire]

But you're beautiful. I don't understand how no guys wouldn't think so.

[CubsterShura]

Well let's just say I'm definitely not the prettiest 😂

[BlondeGoneWild]

I’d say men because they’re much more likely to approach me and flirt

[ImagineSketchy]

I think it's about even. The homosexual males tend to find me attractive even if they don't say anything because I can feel their eyes on me and I can see the looks they give me... Looks of thirst.
The females that compliment my looks are probably as old as my mother or older, so they aren't my peers and probably far more confident.

[Mamaganja]

I would say men and women equally have approached me about my looks.

[ShadowofRegret]

Usually both seem to compliment me around the same.

[MeanderingTrex]

Fucking nobody thinks I'm good looking lol, I don't even like me.

[Boredoftrivialshiiit]

I don't know. Pretty even, but mostly my mom since moms always think their kids are attractive

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

Women. But there has been a fair amount of the same sex as well, making untoward suggestions. *shudders*

[SnowMoon]

Women weirdly enough :) I get hit on by women too... maybe I’m supposed to be a lesbian 😂

[GayLoner]

nah you're just hot enough for men and women to take a risk

[SnowMoon]

What does that mean 😂

[GayLoner]

As in me being gay and still wanting to make your toes curl. lol

[ManOnFire]

@SnowMoon that is really, really weird lol.

[ariadneR]

Of course you're attractive. Duh..
I could go have a sex change and give you the same answer 😂

Usually when girls tell me I'm attractive, its usually my mum or friends lol. So it's just the opposite sex

[ManOnFire]

Lmfao!!! You could have a sex change and give me the same answer😂😂

[MannySimms]

When young I was very skinny and attracted men like a turd attracts flies. Gave in once and got the best blowjob of my life. Wasn't my thing then so that's as far as it went.
Just the way it was. Good times...

My body looked like this when I was 25: