Who pretends to be asleep more to avoid sex?

[RoseySarah]

[Finchie40]

I would say Girls’ for sure , especially with my experiences with girls’ most girls’ make excuses to not want to be intimate and affectionate, by basically making lame excuses like my head hurts , or I am too tired , I don’t feel well, you didn’t take
The trash out , you don’t care about me blah blah blah , so I am hoping to meet a girl that has the same sexual compatibility that I do , When I am in a relationship with a girl I don’t deny her sex period , unless I am severely sick but other than that I don’t make excuses not to be intimate and affectionate with her , Even if I am not
In the mood , which is very rare lol I still would please her in other ways to show my appreciation and love to her , Most girls’I been with didn't do that for me , it was pretty much her way or no way and sadly that’s part of The reason I am single , If a girl can’t wear my shoes like she expects me to wear hers then our relationship is pretty much going down the wrong path and probably won’t last mainly because the relationship turned one sided , I don’t stay committed to a girl that only thinks of herself and only thinks what is best for her , I can’t stand selfish people , if you want to be selfish stay single is how I look at things

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't know what any other guys do, and my experience with women is in the low double digits. All I can say with certainty is that I have NEVER pretended to be asleep (or done anything else) to avoid having sex.

[Altheavas]

If he doesn’t prioritize his needs above yours, and he respect the words that comes out of your mouth. He should understand what an assertive No only mean that from you!
If he dismisses that or many more conversations and your concerns he is going to dismissing cause you can’t assert yourself to existence.


That still depends on your relationship dynamics, how you guys play those little romantics game.

[RoseySarah]

Very true This is more bad relationship that most guys on here talk about

[mandyfire98]

I'm not sure. Personally I've never pretended to sleep if I wasn't in the mood.

I'm normally the one attacking a partner for sex most of the time.

If I'm not in the mood then I'll just say, no, I'm not in the mood.

[RoseySarah]

The same normally I'm the one waking him back up!

[mandyfire98]

Same

[TallGuy8383]

So you women do exist!!

[mandyfire98]

Women with high sex drives? We exist. It is a thing lol.

[TallGuy8383]

Can you teach my girl a thing or two!!

[RoseySarah]

More torture for us cause mens drives usually drop faster then ours too! Even higher ones

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Speak for yourself, Rosie!🤣

[RoseySarah]

@MiddleAgedClimbee usually not always

[DizzyDesii]

If we want it, we’re gonna wake eachother. Fck playing around sleep. But i do think girls fake sleep more. I remember with one ex, i didn't wanna have sex (we were so young and a number of other reasons). So i told him my period was still on (weeks later) 😂

[Jasmin01]

I've done it before, but very, very rarely. Was when I was mad at my guy.

[MicroViewer]

Oh it's definitely option 4, usually you'll wake up with a flashlight in your eyes when your husband is already tied up. @butthurttroll will make you remember that it's better to pretend to be awake when you're actually asleep.

[RoseySarah]

Where is the report button That is flat out rape!

[MicroViewer]

I saw you joke about incest.

[purplepoppy]

About as effective as playing dead in front of a starving bear.

[RoseySarah]

Sometimes just eat you all up any ways

[petitedollbabee]

I never have.. if you can’t just tell your partner “no” and have them respect your choice, then why are you with someone like that? You shouldn’t have to pretend to be unconscious in order to avoid sex.

[scentoflavender]

That doesn't sound very healthy.

[Wallythewalrus]

I dated a nympho for a very short period of time. I went from 220 lbs to about 150 lbs in a couple months. I wouldn't pretend I was asleep, I would pretend I was dead!

[RobT312]

I hate that trick. I never have but had some former girlfriends who did

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have never pretended to be asleep. I even gave my then-partner a consent, to wake me up any time…

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Since love and sex for me are deeply interwoven, I feel loved through sex. How can I decline being loved.

[RoseySarah]

So sweet sometimes I feel that way. But my man respects my sleep to much. He will play with me to wake me.

[Joshydavid25]

"Since love and sex for me are deeply interwoven, I feel loved through sex." So sweet and pure..

[Anemone978]

I don't know.. I have never rejected my partner for sex, but he has rejected me plenty of times so..

[RoseySarah]

How did he say no?

[Anemone978]

He used to say very often he is tired, and roll over.. So I would ask in the day do you want to go up stairs and he would say "why?" I tell him then he says "Nah I am watching something".. I would try to be sexy or flirt with him and he would laugh and tease me.. Now he just says he isn't interested.. I suppose since I left him for a year. So I don't bother anymore..

[RoseySarah]

Ouch I'm sorry sounds awful 😔. Good you left hoping you find someone special soon your so special and wonderful 😊

[TonyMetal___86]

@anemone978 no man who loves his woman would reject unless he have some really good excuse for it and it doesn't happens always, for example you can't refuse it everytime cause that's kind of weird and not right! A husband and wife are always ready to make love with each other and do not need any consent to each other because they are simply married unless one of them is suffering from something and have a good excuse to say no and for sure will make it up later for his/her other half, that's what i believe in...

[RoseySarah]

@TonyMetal___86 we can tell he is single never married lmao 🤣

[TonyMetal___86]

@roseysarah what do you mean? Are your words addressed to me?

[RoseySarah]

That is for her to know and you to probably never find out

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't know what do you mean by your words, if you're mocking of me, if you're saying it in bad intentions or no intentions at all, anyways i'll leave it like this... By the way, i have been married for 9 years, don't make assumptions about people without knowing them or asking then 1st...

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

In my experience, it has been the ladies :-)

[D_Bone_Steak]

I voted "never have," but "I usually wake them for sex!" was a close choice until I realized I usually just start having sex with them until they wake up or until I'm finished.

I don't know who had sex with you in the middle of the night last night.

[Apple1996]

Why would anyone do that?

[Dinklex3]

Wow.

Didn’t even know that was a thing, lmao.

If we don’t want sex, we usually just say it.

[NathanDavis]

lmao... I wouldn't even know how to do that...

[AviatorTom]

Guys rarely avoid sex so it must be girls.

[Christsdisciple15]

I never have bc I haven’t been in a relationship yet but I don’t understand why you need to pretend if you’re in a safe loving relationship; why can’t you just say you don’t feel like it

[glennos89]

Why pretend to be asleep? I would just tell her straight up that I'm not in the mood🤷🏻‍♂️

[RavVid]

You don't actually need to wake them for sex

[RoseySarah]

O I'd wake up Most girls are light sleepers

[RavVid]

I'm quite nefarious though :)

[JacobJordan]

girls for sure. men would have to be dead anything else they still down. it could be in the middle of a fire fight and if they can get the covering fire they going to go for it. it could be the literal end of the world and they still going to go for it.