Why after orgasm his D still hard?

[WizzardGirl]

So I gave him bj and hj but after cummin he was so hard he put 2 towels hanging on his cock 😂😂 why is that? I thought after orgasm it goes down

[motownplayer2000]

It all depends on how aroused he is. I’ve been with a woman that drive me so crazy and get me sexually hyper I can go two, three rounds without dropping much of an erection. It’s SUPER rare because I haven’t found a woman like that, that can keep me sexually stimulated like and aroused. Most women aren’t good in bed. It’s just the desire of men that hides there inadequacies in bed. Not saying that men are the best in bed either, although I’ve never been with a man. But when most women bring a little bit of beauty and a couple holes to fill and that’s it. It’s hard to stay aroused when they can’t do much more than that, or aren’t willing to learn or put the effort to do much more of anything.

[WizzardGirl]

Why were you crazy about her? what made her so sexually attractive I wanna learn from her lol

[motownplayer2000]

I don't know if you see my other answers on other questions. But for me, I like the three E’s first. Effort, energy and enthusiasm. And I’m talking about genuine in anything I asked her to do. She had limits and lines. But up to that line, she gave it 1000%. That’s the first thing, and that’s easy. But knowing my kinks and fantasies and being about to create an atmosphere where we both brought things out of each other in bed. Man, it was a whole hell of a different experience. She was creative, sensual, knew how to work her body and stimulate me mentally. And we clicked to the point, I did the exact same. She didn’t make excuses and fully communicated what she wanted. Didn’t beat around the bush. She wanted it in public, she took it. I loved it. She was wild, but not overtly crazy.

[WizzardGirl]

How creative, what she did How she stimulated you How to be creative in bed Why you left her? I did an anon question... can you read and give me your opinion? Ill send a link

[Anonymous]

Sometimes it is, and no "reason" other than our body doing what it wants to. Usually mine will go down, almost immediately or within a minute I'd say, but sometimes (to my surprise), it'll stay hard a bit longer. I've even (if sex or getting a bj), stayed hard and she's continued. A bonus! lol But this doesn't happen often.

[Anonymous]

Guys are trying to answer you. Your guy is using viagra and is lying to you about it and that's what they're telling you. You don't have a be a bitch about it to them because you're too stupid to realize that.

[WizzardGirl]

He is not using wtf are you talking about You know better than me what he takes? he can't even take it because of heart problems

[notwoke]

up to about age 30 I was like this without drugs. Most unfortunately this superpower goes away with age

[nayans]

Most likely he has used viagra!! Well with that he is putting himself for further health complications in the future.

[WizzardGirl]

He isn't using it

[laurieluvsit]

1. He is multi-orgasmic and is not done yet, or

2. He took some Viagra... lol

[Daniela1982]

Must have been on Viagra.

[WizzardGirl]

... no

[wingattebaby16]

well, if you are lucky, a guy like that can go again and again.

if you don't want him, i will take him! lol

[WizzardGirl]

Hahahah nooo i want him

[kmg9150]

he's intensely turned on still. Take it as a huge compliment. It is doubtful to occur with just anyone he sleeps with. It actual rare thing to happen. Normally short interval is needed, 15 to 30 mins to regain the ability to get hard again. Time varies tho, some need hours... depends how long youve been banging. I lasted 4+ hours and been hard after the load was shot.

[WizzardGirl]

He could handle 2 towels with it lol

[WizzardGirl]

It was funny

[WizzardGirl]

We did have sex i caressed and jerked him off then sucked him

[WizzardGirl]

Maybe it lasted 30 or 40 mins between i put my hands on hom till he came

[WizzardGirl]

So normally dick goes soft right after cummin, the next second?

[kmg9150]

Just depends, hormones, emotions, mental awareness, physical attributes all play in factor to this situation. I have had times where I couldnt hard again anywhere from a few minutes to hours, its hard to judge variables because sometimes the initial erection lasted from minutes to 5+hours. Then factor in the woman, where we were at the in the relationship, its healthiness. Biologically speaking, yes I believe its normal for it to want to rest after release, because the sperm needs to "collect" again, so the act without the expected outcum is a waste of energy in the biological sense to how our body knows to operate itself... There is a technique to multiple male orgasms which I have discovered, but it needs to be consecutively induce when the first one begins, if your interested DM me because id be Interested to know if this more so just personal experience... Another thing, if Im really attracted to girl, cumming isn't even on my mind. Im trying to have sex with her as long as I can, If I pump and dump thats like "just getting over with it" , like when your parents wouldn't let you leave the table until you finished food that you didn't like. Hurry up and finish because you didn't like it..

[Lowiu]

Some guys can stay hard after and a few can even go a second round without going soft

[lightbulb27]

can happen, it's the "sphincter" thing that holds the pressure, so just depends. It's mental/physical/chemical.

Just take credit for it and have a happy day!

[WizzardGirl]

Means i turn him on a lot?

[lightbulb27]

yes, at least enough. something did. maybe he had a good workout.

[summiter]

A lot of younger guys can go for round 2 or 3. How old is he?

[WizzardGirl]

44... He doesn't take any viagra

[Adam1978]

It usually does, perhaps he is using drugs. Ie viagra.

[WizzardGirl]

No he is not

[Adam1978]

Well then enjoy it while it last.

[WizzardGirl]

I asked a simple question... WHY IT HAPPENS None of you could give me a normal answer

[Adam1978]

It's the normal process, he get horny and he stays horny. Less relaxing chemicals are created when he orgasm. So his balance isn't the same. It will go away with age and/or when attraction of you dwindle.

[WizzardGirl]

So it depends on how much i turn him on Or on what

[Adam1978]

Yes that affects how hard he becomes while the counter chemicals during orgasm is usually more fixed and isn't affected by the sex as much, since you get it independent of the strength of the orgasm.

[WizzardGirl]

But we didn't have sex i just massages his cock and sucked him

[Adam1978]

That is sex.

[ethanallen]

Viagra and some other drugs can do this. Prolonged erections for an hour or more can be dangerous if you cannot go soft. It is called a priapism and is a medical emergency.

[LiamSawyer]

Lucky you!

[Daniela1982]

Him or her? With this Gender thing it could be either or both.

[hyperben]

depending on the sex it can take a little while to go down

[Fireguy17]

It can take a while.
Some days those things have a mind of their own.
They are there when don't need them, then when you do need it, it is no where to be found, and when it's time to go away there they are, and she is going no way, not again.

[Msputiton]

Maybe he has Priapism

[Phoenix98]

That’s not the case for everyone he just has good stamina and blood flow.

[FilmGuy93]

Most men go soft after finishing, but there are some men who don't have any refactory period.

[Reaper1985]

likely has a high sex drive and/or it takes a bit for him to go soft after release.

[ArtemisSilver]

I can stay hard if I want too, it's just a bit overstimulating to continue after for a few minutes.

[WizzardGirl]

I asked why... really?

[ArtemisSilver]

You lost me...

[WizzardGirl]

Oh well

[ArtemisSilver]

¯\_(⊙_ʖ⊙)_/¯

[Trpkjr]

Some guys are like that. My current boyfriend stays hard for several minutes after he cums… get back on it girl and have some more fun!!

[crmoore]

It won't go down immediately, but it will soon.

[WizzardGirl]

Can you hold a towel with your dick?

[crmoore]

I'd imagine, yes. Though I also do kegal exercises so that may help.

[crmoore]

To be clear, you can flex/tense the muscles in your dick, which makes it sturdier.

[Guardian45]

His orgasm and his erection are unrelated. I have cum without being erect, and I have had a raging erection for 8 hours and orgasmed 7 times without cumming probably the last 3 times.

[WizzardGirl]

He once orgasmed with no cum too

[Guardian45]

YUP! Me TOO!

[WizzardGirl]

I was edging him

[Guardian45]

Edging is an EXCELLENT technique that works with BOTH sexes!

[WizzardGirl]

Any ide to improve myself in edging?

[Guardian45]

Better communication and reading of his signs. Agree that he will tell you to slow down or freeze as required.