Why am I aroused by sexually degrading women?


Why am I aroused by sexually degrading women?

I was talking about this with someone and I figured I'd just ask GAG and maybe get some other answers. It's kind of weird to me. I have a lot of empathy for women in general. I have MUCH more empathy towards women in comparison to men. I just genuinely like women a lot. Even the things that would normally turn off most guys about women turn me on beyond belief. I'll hear conversations along the lines of...

"I can't stand how my wife gets moody when x, y, or z happens."
"My girlfriend gets annoying when she's on her period"

^ I actually love all of that stuff. Femininity, in general, drives me fucking nuts. Now, this isn't to say that I place women on a pedestal by any means. I'm just telling you that I have an extreme attraction towards femininity.

It doesn't logically add up. It's not that I have a deep-rooted hatred for women either. I mean, women have always shown their best sides to me anyways... why would I ever hate women? They make me feel great, they treat me like royalty sometimes, and have always given me great sex. Why would I want to hurt someone who does all of the above?

You'd think that I'd practically make passionate love to women all the time with how well they treat me and how much I like women, but it's the opposite in a sexual context. Yeah, I get pissed off in relationships, but I still want to degrade a woman sexually a lot of the times when I'm not even pissed off.

The way I like to fuck or is by no means common practice to other people. What was brought to my attention is that I only go full throttle with girls who actually want it and have an internal desire to be fucked like that. I'm turned off by the idea of doing that to a woman who doesn't internally crave that kind of sex.

I don't know if I just have a lot of aggression in me or if there's just a biological desire for me to fuck the way I do. Thoughts? What about you guys?
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  • Some say fetish. Other might say it a natural primal action

  • You have a fetish.

    • Is it really just a fetish though? It's literally the only way I really get off. I'd look at that as being a part of who I am rather than just something that I'm into.

  • Because you're a guy and that's how it works

  • Oh, it's you...

  • I hate women, but I don’t degrade them either. Kind of like spiders, I hate those fuckers but I don’t kill em I put them outside.

  • Maybe you were degraded by some ex girlfriend in the past, so you are trying to get back at her, by degrading other women.

    • Was never degraded by another woman.

    • Like I said, women have always treated me pretty damn well.

    • Oh, I see, okay, then it's probably a fetish. My boyfriend is quite the opposite of you, he likes to be degraded.

  • I don't think it's weird Iv tried for years and years to get my boyfriend to fuck me like this and he thinks I'm fucked up because of it but once you get fucked like that once it's hard to go back it's been over 4 years since I've been degraded and treated like a whore in the bedroom and I still think about it everyday and miss it

  • like what... every guy's aroused by porn

  • Sometimes I think that's just a natural primal desire. I doubt you're the only one! Some of the best sex I've had was after a big fight!

  • It's just a fetish, so what... I like sexually degrading guys, nothing weird about that ;)

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    • yeah but most women just dont do it I don't know why its so arousing