Why am I so embarrassed to admit I like sucking dick?

I have always felt embarrassed to say I like sucking dick and I don’t know why. It’s not something I would do casually but it’s something I enjoy. I am not embarrassed for people to know that I have sucked dick, but I am embarrassed to say that I enjoy it. The only person I have ever told I enjoy it to was the person I gave it to but now I secretly regret that. I have no problem with people knowing that I am comfortable giving someone head but I can never willingly say “I like sucking dick.” It makes me feel so strange and I have no clue why. When people ask me if I like it or hate it, I just say it’s alright. The weird thing about this though, is this is the only sexual thing I’m embarrassed to admit I like doing. Everything else I’m opened about. I also don’t think anything about other girls saying they like it.
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  • just curious why do u like sucking dick? and i think this is pretty common so dont feel weird. most girls will admit they like it in private with their guy. do u only suck bfs?

    • I’m not sure why, it’s just a funny hint to do with a partner and yes, just with a boyfriend.

    • Fun thing*****

    • @Asker do u like when the guy has a big one to suck on lol? thats good tho im sure ur bfs enjoy it. are u single rn?

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  • Don't worry it's okay to be shy.

  • Maybe because it is a statement that relationally speaking gives up power and makes you feel vulnerable.

  • I think you shouldn’t be embarrassed at all. It’s nice and natural. Enjoy! 😊

  • I don't know why but from my POV its incredinly hot when girls admit it!

  • Maybe because you care what people think about you and you think they will think negative thoughts about you

  • hey I think any guy would love to hear that, no one will slut shame you.

  • Is it because you're a dude?

    • No I’m a female

    • I don't know then, but you're not obliged to talk to anyone about it. Just keep doing what you enjoy.

  • Don’t know, but you shouldn’t be!

  • Sucking dick is a normal thing to do and it's great you enjoy it - no reason to be embarrassed. I like eating pussy and rimming, and I am not ashamed to admit that.

  • Dont be. Make your husband so happy.

  • some women treat sucking cock as a job when you enjoy doing it the guy can tell

  • Congratulations.

  • Maybe you feel it is dirty.

  • because of the social stigma behind female sexuality and the fear of being slut shamed.

  • Don't be embarrassed

  • Aye ! You're gonna make some dude really happy !

  • How Was It on your first try?

  • Yea, I totally get you on this. I like sucking dick, like a lot, but not too many people 1) are aware I’m bisexual, 2) know I’ve been with multiple men 3) know that I not just enjoy giving guys head, but that I’m also really good at it.

    Only a handful of people, mostly old friends, and those who I’ve honestly hooked up with, know that I’ve sucked dick. But I actually haven’t really told anyone that I used to hook up, mostly anonymously, with random men in all sorts of places. We’d chat briefly online, he’d invite me to wherever he was, I’d head over shortly, and within an hour or so, whoever he was would have his pants off and I’d be kneeling in front of him with my mouth full of cock. Privately, I’m actually proud of the compliments guys gave me while I sucked them off. But I never really told any friends, certainly not family about how much dick I used to suck.
    It’s not like I was ashamed of myself, but I thought more that it wasn’t really a topic that you just bring up. Whenever a friend asked me about my experiences with guys, I’d tell them, and we’d talk about all sorts of things related to oral.
    But it’s weird that so many of us just don’t admit that we actually really enjoy sucking someone’s dick. I mean, clearly many of us know by now how much a lot of men like getting their dicks sucked. So it makes complete sense that there’s also a substantial number of people who enjoy giving blowjobs. But again, it’s almost stigmatized as something you don’t really talk about…yet people announce when they’re “trying to have kids”, which is a nice way of saying they’re fucking all the time, if they’re a heterosexual couple, he’s regularly cumming inside of her, and people go “oh congrats!” Yet, talk about sucking your partner’s dick in the same way and you’ll likely not get the same reaction.
    Which, I don’t get. I love it when my partner is sucking my dick- it feels and looks so good, and I also loved when I would get a chance to suck some cock- making a guy cum is so rewarding, (not to mention tasty).

    I have a theory that if more people actually 1) sucked cock, or 2) ate pussy, and 3) talked about it with their partner, with friends, etc., it’ll be easier to talk about in general and people will feel more comfortable admitting that “yea, I actually love cocksucking!”

  • Don't know. I'm OK with it. Usually as foreplay or just to pacify my horny gut when I'm on my period.

    • How does that pacify your gut?

    • @DavidFox *guy*. I also dl suck him dry before he goes out with his friends so he's not tempted to cheat

    • Lol ok guy makes more sense. You had me confused that your gut need pacifying when you get horny

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