Why am I so sexually permiscuious?

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Ok I'm a F 23 and ever since I've started having sex at almost 20 years old I've been sexually promiscuous.. I grew up homeschooled in a religious family and didn't get my first job till I was 19. I've been with 8 people since then but i sext every day with guys, I usually go for older guys. I've cheated twice on my husband. and when I do have sex I only like rough like nothing is to rough I've been choked out etc.. I even fuck at work somtimes in the bathroom at work and I work at a factory.. it turns me on being watched so I go on omegle and play with myself.. all I think about is sex... and honestly I used to love that but now I see most people aren't like me and it weighs on me that I'm just nothing.. do I need to fix myself and how?

N192K001 · Accepted Answer

It seems  you've lost control . A cycle has formed: The prolonged increase of sexual-activity in your life has raised your body's testosterone-levels, which increases your tendency toward sexual-acts, which raises your testosterone-levels further, which… If you want to re-get a grip on life , you'll have to  do the difficult thing of fighting your hormones and stopping everything until your hormone-levels drop back to manageable levels . You can  get help from your fellow-peers in NoFap  who are also doing the same thing in 1 way or another & to different extents.  (official website)  (official forum)  (official subReddit) Here's the women's section of the forum: There are also subRedits:  (official — under construction)  (open, but I’m not sure about its trustworthiness, since it’s unofficial) If you're still religious (to some extent), there are Christian & Muslim subReddits, too: While we have people peers across the globe, we have so far only a Spanish-language section in the forum (in the forum-homepage's 'Communities'/'International Discussions'/'Español') & subReddit: There's also a 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' discussion in the 'Sexual Health' section of the forum.

ThomasTKay · Accepted Answer

You have a very healthy drive which means you are most likely very physically healthy too. I understand you very much because I have a high drive too. Sex to me is beautiful and relaxing. It's also healthy. I'm genuinely and respectfully fascinated with the act and how the body of both genders react and function during the various stages of arousal, from starting to feel hot all the way to orgasm, and then the relaxing and euphoric resolution phase where both bodies are winding down and feeling the post effects of the contractions and after twitching, all covered in a beautiful mess. It's almost like playing doctor in such a naughty way that feels amazing and educational all at the same time. Studying each other's body and then pushing the buttons is fun and exciting. Whether in person or over a private cam. It can be positive and relaxing. Hearing it, seeing it, and so on.

I think you should go easy on yourself and don't beat yourself up. People need to not mistake someone like you and I where we have a high drive and admiration/respect for such a beautiful act, vs someone who is vile about it and uses it more as a mockery or to abuse/objectify another person.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

If you got a divorce and lived fully in this promiscuous lifestyle, would that solve your problem, make you happy?

If not, go to a therapist and explore why you feel this need. You're trying to fill a void somewhere. Sex addicts are like other addicts - you're looking for endless dopamine hits, but it won't end until you get to the root.

Breanna_nonbinary · Accepted Answer

You sound like a typical human female to me👍. The difference is that you don’t deny that you are a sexual being whereas most woman have been taught to pretend not to be sexual. So don’t feel guilty for your natural human feelings, embrace them. Just maybe don’t tell everyone. 😊

laurieluvsit · Answer

It is just the guilt associated with your religious upbringing that is doing this to you.

There is nothing wrong with anything you are doing if you are enjoying it at the time and it is fulfilling a need that you have.

I have a girlfriend who's father is a pastor and she has sex with her boyfriend in the church after everyone is gone. It is a big turn on for both of them and there is no guilt associated with it. They are not harming anyone and enjoy the eroticism.

Shed the unwarranted guilt. Nudity and sex are normal and natural and never to be ashamed of Ms Beth.

WadeDanielSmith2 · Answer

You need a real relationship with God and you need to repent for real. "Religion" is useless, what you need is "relationship" to God.

ohshee · Answer

If you ever have some free time please message me I have a friend that was turned me way love to tell u the story about her

TruthBringer · Answer

It's called being a low-value woman. The cheating is the cherry on top of the cake. No high quality man is going to invest in you. All you are is simply a hole for fuckboys to put their dicks in. Why? Because you allowed yourself to be that person. I suggest you do some self development on how to be a high quality woman (and not the feminist bullshit).

Kaneki05 · Answer

It's probably due to be repressed by religious shit. so now you've grown to a new craving which wasn't a big thing and because of that stunt to what you should of been aware of you didn't develop like most. And this is a knock on effect. Quite hot tho but not great for long term stuff.

Miristheiss · Answer

Low character.  If you have a husband all of your sexuality should be shared with him.  Cheating, sex cam shows for strangers.  He'd be good to divorce you and get someone else.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Prove it.

teachsex2girls · Answer

U discovered that you like sex, you have a highsex drive, you think and fantasize a lot, not permiscuious, justhorny sexually turned on get wet being lightly touched, I lost my virginity at 11y and I'm very experienced, so can my permiscuious self , phelp you get more permiscuious, teach u how anything can cumm good

Citizenkirk · Answer

Because you're totally AWESOME!!!

Reaperbot666 · Answer

your into taboo, fetish and bondage stuff it seems.

whyareboysDouchebag · Answer

Is this a joke?

Makeushiver · Answer

Don't know but I wish you lived nearby

billytrash · Answer

Well I’m not married to you so I like it send me your dirty panties and I’ll tell your future with astonishing clarity! Sometimes I even amaze myself!

_SOARER · Answer

You have 0 impulse control. Control yourself. You know its wrong, but enjoy it, thats wicked. repent and seek help.

Iron_Man · Answer

Seek out professional help

Wise4myage · Answer

I think you're a nymphomaniac, and you can get therapy for it.

oncpl · Answer

Incidentally same is my life. I became active sexually when I was barely 15. It was due to one of my women relatives who was not satisfied with her husband (as told me later). And then there was no return. I have had relations with three girls at the same time, having sex with them. I tried to refrain from it, but can't rid of fantasizing.

crmoore · Answer

I mean, aside from the cheating, I don't think there's anything worth fixing.

Gedaria · Answer

It would seem you enjoy sex. More than others is no gauge of how much you should do.. I find your exploits very arousing, never gone at it like that.  But if you are happy, why change...

COMMODOREII · Answer

You cheated on your husband? Wow

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