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Sexual Health Why are 30 and 30+ guys acting like they are teenagers?
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All they want is to have sex and nothing else. Did they forgot to grow up past 15?
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21 91I know this is about me specifically so I’ll try to be more mature in the future.
Culture has changed. My mothers sister got pregnant without being married, a few years after WWII. The shame was so intense that they moved 250 miles away before she started so show. Today, a marriage is not a requirement for children. The shame is mostly gone. Thank Hollywood for that. And at your age the average guy has probably seen his parents or his friends parents get divorced and it was ugly. I am from an older generation and I was not exposed to the divorce trauma. One more thing, I am 67 going on 16.
Why are you suprised?
We take women for sex and companionship.
We have friends for only friends stuff.
They dont have to settle down
We are like this when the girl we are with isn't worth anything more than that.
You're wrong! Guys want much more than that but have allready (through experiance) arrived at the conclusion that sex is all they're ever going to get. In all other matters a relationship means you lose, not gain.
no, as we get older, we REALLY learn what we want and sex is it.
being a man, you only win in life if you die with the most toys.
I think a lot about sex. But I also have self control. Which many do not seem to have. But it's odd Yoh complain about 30 year Olds. Have You not meet 20 year Olds? Plus sex is a feel good sensation. So heck yeah.
Date older men
Whats wrong with wanting sex. If I wanted something else why would I involve a woman. Thats just going to make anything else take longer and be more annoying than doing it by myself.
So the real question ladies is what do you think you can improve in a man's life that he should want something besides sex
That was funny. Thanks.
Sadly more and more men have become simps!
Not child like only.
Look at Tiktok, that’s our humanity.
Not only they want sex they throw themselves at girls and have the worse approach and come across needy and desperate.
They beg girls to sleep with them.
All social media girl’s pictures/ videos are all Simps just on their knees worshiping pu##sy hoping they’ll get lucky.
Men aren’t men anymore. That’s the issue!
Probably struck out as teenagers. So now they try make up.
What's wrong with it
IF he is stll doing the man-child trifecta ( porn, video games , and weed) , help him cancel one of them out of his life, then make yourself more interesting to grab his attention. This helped me get out of my head and into my relationship , i noticed weed all the time wasn't giving me the energy to want to go out with her. Porn was only showing me a unrealistic image of what a women needs to look like. Video games, well i still always play video games, so i dont know how it will help. Studies have shown that doing these three activities frequently can create what the world calls a man-child.
P. S. I do not believe the trifecta is what makes a man-child , i think these are just things some men do in their free time, more importantly single men. THINK AS YOU PLEASE OF THIS! But in no way shape and form are these bad.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME? It is BAD! WOW YOUR MOTHER DID A HORRIBLE JOB AT RAISING YOU. SO don't complain later why you can't find the right woman. You millennial man are all momma's boy. Ridiculous.
@Alwayreckles93 My mother did what... Nevermind that part. Times are changing and so does what we find to be therapeutic, no one is going to apologize for being themselves and doing what makes them feel comfortable or at peace , little one , but you shall know this , mens mental health has always taken a hit and a lot of us do not know how to deal with it. Maybe its not men that need to change , maybe the idea of what a man needs to change. But since you want to be rude, this all might be too much for you to handle , you need to slow down and help the men in your life instead of asking , requesting, and demanding change from them. LOOK INWARD WOMEN, men go through a lot. "US MILLENNIALS" are going to change the world , good luck getting phased out. You out-of-date piece of shit !
oh and I have met and dated women who surpass you in so many ways who have befriended me or we fell in love because of how my mother raised me. hahaha
Because man your age want the useless younger 20 year old woman. What about a 28 year old woman beautiful woman with class and that can actually cook and clean a home. I'm 28 years old but ever gone thinks I'm 20.
Oh your mother is a piece of shit well that explains why you act that way.
You better be dating a girl your own age not a stupid 20 year old
@Alwayreckles93 I don't need a women to cook and clean for me , yes class is a must , but there is more to it. Does she understand the human condition? Does she understand patience and communication create the platform for growth? I am dating someone who is 3 years younger than me and we do fine. we feed off each other , there are no hard days because both of us are each other crutches. I can stand alone , tall at that , she can as well , but for how long , we all need someone. Man and women. Oh and you need to slow down , Mama has a masters in nursing and consults other nurses and has been a manager for an entire wing of a hospital at one point.
@Alwayreckles93 i have a question for you. Do you believe a man should be ready to tackle anything at anytime? In that case why would he need you?
Excuse me yes he needs me. And why in hell are you with a younger woman and not a dating a lady your own age?
The premise of the question in my opinion is incorrect. There are men of different types and there are women of different types who behave as if they are girls. If one thing I agree men want more sex than women usually but it is embedded in us biologically.😂
It is true guys like sex A LOT! But, not all of us think that’s all there is. I want my partner in crime to be my best friend, hang out, go on dates, talk, flirt, and of course sex.
Formula of supply and demand. Less supply = more demand
Maybe he doesn't see anything better in you
Men never grow up but give you a hard time for their childishness.
Lol you have grown up then take care of the childish people 😜
all men act like they are teenagers it seems we have one thing on the brain.