Guys, Why are blow jobs so important to guys / why do they like them so much?

[Anonymous]

I know they must feel good but it seems like there's more to it than just that. I mean vaginal and anal sex also feel good to men so there's gotta be more to wanting a blow job than just that.

Also, please don't misunderstand my intent for asking... This isn't a complaint what so ever! I actually love giving them to a man who is special to me. For me, what I enjoy is when I give him one I feel like I'm fulfilling a fantasy for him, when I look up in his eyes and see he is enjoying them, and he sees I'm enjoying giving him that pleasure. It also feels like a way to show him love and appreciation for being a man, as there is no other body part that symbolizes his manhood more than his penis and testicles. Honestly whenever we start to get hot and heavy *I* get the urge to take my mouth down south, at least as part of foreplay. If I love and adore that penis, I want to feel it in my mouth. Point being - this isn't a "I'm complaining about blow jobs, why do I have to do them post"! I simply want to understand why most men love getting them so much.

So guys, what's the appeal? Why do y'all love and fantasize about a woman blowing you? Also I'm wondering if it matters whether or not the sex act ends also with the blow job. Like, if she's giving you head as part of foreplay but then it ends with you two having intercourse, does that fulfill the desire to receive head, or not? Personally for me and my boyfriend sometimes I give him a complete blow job, that ends with him cumming inside my mouth / throat, and sometimes the oral sex is part of the foreplay, and he ends up cumming in my vagina. I kind of always figured all women gave their guys oral sex at least as part of foreplay, is this not always the case?

[Anonymous]

I love filling a girls mouth with my sperm.

[Anonymous]

For some reason seeing my dick in her mouth is a yuuuge turn on

[Anonymous]

Because we're getting pleasure AND quiet ;)