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I was appalled to see a post by a female on this site who was asking for some example pictures of something that had to do with girls tops, or something, but then said..."don't post any pictures of girls with big boobs because that is lewd!"
OMG!! ... how could anyone say such a thing? ... isn't that a put down of every girl that has big boobs? ... like they are suppose to hide themselves and feel ashamed because of the size of their breasts?
This made me so upset that I am still upset now thinking about it.
Even if a girl has larger than average boobs, why would that position her for ridicule? ... she was born that way for God's sake! ... why should she be told to go hide herself?
I know some girls wish theirs were smaller and some wish theirs were bigger, but no one should be ashamed of their breasts no matter how big or how small they are... am I wrong to feel that way?
What is the world coming to when we have to hide ourselves now and are told that we are disgusting and need to hide our boobs?
Please share your feelings and/or experiences with this... PLEASE?
What Girls & Guys Said
35 76I think it depends on the choice of clothes but also how you view them
If you are trying to get attention and pay for implants this is what you get
I think that might be consider lewd
Now coming from the other end, women with big breasts that want to be modest
They don't use what they have to get attention per say... So it's that balance. Especially with the women that are trying to be modest they might see things more critical rather than loosely...
So it's trying to balance being the young teenager in the fancy restaurant trying to show off her boobs while the family tries to correct her/hide them vs being too plain Jane that you don't look attractive
I'm trying to think of proper words...
Sexually mature or sexually cultured 🤔 something like that
Bat boobs and I have no tits 😂😂😂😂😂 thank you I loved those pics 😊
The bigger the better if you ask me! I see no problem at all!! I love breasts big or small!
my last girlfriend was very large breast size, GG HH if i recall correctly, and guys would hate on her cos she wouldn't let them have their way, or reject them...
and once rejected they would start calling her a slut, slag, whore, fat, and variety of other insults... well i was walking alongside a canal boat dock when we started dating and a group of guys started throwing insults about her until i stopped and said "that's it, they are going to learn to swim!"
oddly enough we were mere metres away from the local police station and cops were busy around there...
i turned to them and asked if they wanted lessons on how not to drown or if they wanted me to just throw them in anyway
funnily enough i never seen them again
That's not something I ever need to worry about 😂
Only by insecure and self conscious people, I suppose.
Last i checked lewd was a good thing... Is this one of these dumb things were people who don't watch anime take the word in a bad way?
Laurie I completely agree with you that this stereotype is extremely unfair and wrong. The size of a woman's breasts doesn't tell you anything about her character and worth as a human being. Breasts are simply another body part where there is wide (and normal) variation in size and shape. To either explicitly or implicitly associate larger size breasts with lewdness is cruel and stupid. And from an early age in adolescence women who have larger breasts have had to deal with one form or another of this mindset.
Another Gold Star opinion!
Sounds like jealousy to me , most guys love a girl with bigger boobs so that girl that said it was lewd was just jealous that she wasn’t blessed with bigger boobs , she probably has ant hills lol
Girl who have heavier side of racks are often shamed and sometimes people judge her character for that. It's generally women who tear down other women.
Holy Batman BBQ Kittens!!! Those are huge boobs!!!
Girl with a hot body and huge boobs is actually an ice queen? What a waste. Give her boobs to a lewd girl and leave her with flat iron steak boobs.
Yeah, I have. It sucks
Mine aren’t that big, but A and B are both accurate
I have big breasts and have to hide them more bc my cleavage is so big
It is easy to get self conscience with large breasts more, yes and having to deal with more staring.
I've never heard of that. It's stupid. It's not as if size is something you have control of
The only comments are usually from other jelous women, and not to my face. Of course you're going to get your fair share of gawking looks from men, but i mean i paid for mine. Im fine by that. If i want to show them off, ill show them off, if i want to cover up, ill cover up. Im not worried about anyones opinions but my own
I don't believe that. I love boobs and make no judgments about a woman based on that.
Well unfortunately we have such people living among us n i really wish i could get people to understand n accept each other
I used to have small tits n got ridiculed a lot for it n since i have them big now mostly its been fine but a few times some women have been harsh about it like they were "hey you hide away your big tits nobody wants to see them" n i was in grocery store at the time n few other similar instances
I have known several well-endowed women who hated the fact that everything they wore became "sexy" because of their boobs. Generally these women had huge chests. I always thought women were making these criticisms up in their heads, but then I heard other women talking trash for dressing so scantily.
I don’t think this is the problem.
The problem is that MOST but not all women with massive tits tend to wear articles of clothing that reveal a lot more.
Aka their entire boob crack.
And obviously given the size of their tits, naturally the image and the perception of others will be all about sex
Do you think that opinion holds true in Scandinavian countries? I've never heard anyone speak of them lewdly. They sometimes cause immature boys to get silly and start cat calling but these days it seems as if any particular group of people. with anything in common will use it to hate another group of people without that characteristic so wouldn't be surprised