Why are guys so insecure if a girl prefers a larger penis?

Why are guys so insecure about girls preferences for dick size?
Like guys have all sorts of preferences. Big boobs, small boobs, skinny, thick, athletic, petite etc etc etc.

But then if I say I prefer the feel of a bigger dick around the 7-8in size they go all weird and insecure.
Why?
Some guys like small boobs and some like big boobs.
Some girls like big penises and some prefer smaller or medium sizes.

I'm sorry for the vent.
I've been talking to a guy on a dating app that seemed cool. He asked me the question, I gave him an honest, polite answer and he abused me. I didn't even know what he looked like naked at this point.
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  • Not here. I have a little one so I fully expect for a woman to enjoy a bigger one. It is a matter of preference and that is all. I really only need one woman to be okay with mine.

    • Exactly. That's the way you should look at it. It's the same thing with guys who get upset over height

    • @Cherry234 Are you calling me short? Lol.

    • @keithlane no lol

  • Well that's on him then.
    Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer.

    I would say guys are the same as girls.
    Girls are insecure over body shape (as are guys) when they see someone they think are better proportioned or if they know their boyfriend likes a DD cup and they have an A cup and a DD walks by, they may feel insecure- just like penis size for a guy.

    A lot of guys don't care... you get what you get and that's it. Seems like he was hoping you would stroke his ego but instead you were honest

  • It's something we can't control, so we would feel inferior 😅
    But of course you have the right to prefer bigger penis.

  • Same reasons why girls are insecure by any standards men have.

  • So us Guys are not allowed to be insecure?

    • We are all insecure about something. I hate my legs Just don't get angry at others about it

    • But when us Guys are insecure we are considered unattractive to most Females.

  • Because most guys have average sized penises and are insecure about it. This is why they're called average-sized is instead of small or large

  • I don’t care what a woman’s preference is

  • Just like how women are insecure and weird if their breast and ass size is on the small end. He reacted as anyone with insecurities will.

  • Guys feel ashamed of their sizes if they don't meet the girl's requirement

  • I’m fine with my dick.

  • fragile egos probably 😂

  • who doesn't have become insecure.

  • Because most guys are below 8 inches

  • no problem, each woman has a preference

  • Because most guys do what they can and they are born with smaller dicks or average size ones and we can’t change that. But he thought he had a shot but when you said you like bigger dicks he thought maybe he had no chance now

  • I hate girls who say they like big dicks because once they get one all I hear is:
    Slow down
    Go slow
    That shit hurt
    🙄

  • Hahaha it's okay people get conscious about few things like this ignore and move on.

  • Makes me insecure nope. But does it make you look shallow? Yes. I don't care what size her boobs or butt are. Most importantly is her as a whole, personality and all.

  • The same reason why girls are so insecure if a guy prefers bigger breasts.

  • For the same reason girls are insecure when guys prefer not fat girls, big tits, nice asses, etc.

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