Why are men afraid of others getting turned on by their partner and wanting to have sex with them?

It is super insecure but most men are afraid of other men seeing their girl naked or in a sexual way because they get turned on but that. Why are they worried about people getting turned on by their partner

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  • They might be insecure in the relationship because the woman don't give or show him enough love and so he feels that she are not fully committed to him and might go sleep with someone else. OR, just a very jealous man. If other men is in awww of your woman, that is as a compliment. Just keep an eye open on how she responds.

  • I don't have this issue. My wife left on a business trip today. I expect she'll find her way to the hotel hot tub. I encouraged her to take a bikini. She chose a more modest option. I think she's fucking sexy and I have issue with other guys seeing that quality in her too.

  • I don't mind if other guys see my girlfriend naked or get turned on when they see her. First of all, they're guys and she's a girl, so it would be weird if nobody was attracted to her. If they see her naked, then that would probably increase the number of guys who are attracted to her. At the end of the day, she's with me and will do things that they imagine doing with her with me. That's a win for me. Their hand is their proxy for her, while I don't need my hand to proxy for her.

    That's why I would date a girl who did or who is doing OnlyFans, she's not with the guys who are buying her content. So why does it matter? She's getting paid for men to proxy their hand for her, while I am still getting her.

  • Because women are so loose these days, men know monogamy is dead.

  • Probably because guys will fuck anything they can, men know this and lose trust in their partner thinking if I could get her what if they can. You’re right it’s insecure but I’m poly now I had to go through my own learning experience

    • But other men won't fuck your girlfriend if the girlfriend doesn't want to. If the girlfriend wants to do that that is their choice

    • Just as it’s your choice to stay with her after or not.

  • I actually welcome this. I am not afraid of other guys looking at the girl I am with. Hell if I think she is gorgeous why shouldn’t other guys too? She is with me not them. I do not have trust issues. If a guy doesn’t want others guys looking at their girlfriend then they clearly have issues. Trust just being one of them.

  • I think it is inappropriate regardless of fear. If you have a girlfriend, she shouldn't turn others on but you🤔😂🤷🏻‍♂️.

  • The only type of guy who feels this way is a guy who's got that girl specifically as a trophy girl.

  • It is Not just men, women are afraid too!

  • You're a man right?

  • I see it as a compliment

    • Interesting take

  • I'm with @apple1996 it makes me proud

  • It's not necessarily an insecurity, it's just a preference

  • I have never been afraid of it. I love when others check out my girl. It makes me feel proud to be with her.

  • You said it, insecure

  • Because it's a lot easier for a Woman to Cheat.

  • I personally see it as a huge compliment if someone gets hard to the thought of my wife or wants to fk her.
    I see it as I have something of value men want. And to me that’s a compliment

  • Uh... nobody should be seeing your girlfriend naked lol 😂 or else she belongs to the streets same goes for guys.

    But if guys like the girl, it doesn't mean anything. Unless the guy thinks she's leave him, which says a lot about him and the women he choose. Or maybe he's just an insecure loser?

  • It's probably about the annoying factor.

  • Afraid? Nobody is afraid, it's just expected.

    • But why is it expected do you think?

    • Because men know how men are

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