Why are most men voyeurs?

So, my bathroom has a ventilating window that is blurred and only allows a passerby to see your silhouette, all apartments are the similar way.

I am usually showering early in the morning and late night and I have never worried about being seen by someone. Even if they see you, they can just see your silhouette of your upper body.

Today I took a shower in the afternoon and as I was showering, some passerby - probably someone going to the neighboring apartment- stood right in front of my window and was looking at my silhouette obviously, as I was seeing his silhouette too…

Now I think I have a pretty good silhouette and I am not too worried about that, but what’s wrong with men not passing any opportunity to have a glance of a woman body?

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  • I mean I’m trying to be fair. If you don’t want to be social in certain ways then it’s really best to take extra steps to make sure your woman cave: your home, is the private and quiet place you want and would expect it to be.

    If we change the question to:

    why do guys use their eyes? lol or why do guys stare?

    It seems a bit silly. Like their physiological eyes cannot actually harm us. Some of us just don’t like it or like everyone doing that because of our own preferences and wanting to share that/ those intimate moments with our special boo and not the whole town.

    At the same time guys expect women just to take this kind of behavior with grains of salt, and to be honest constant staring can annoy anyone. Pesky kids staring while we eat can annoy us, celebrities getting scoped by paparazzi can annoy us as humans…

    and

    most living things actually DONT like to be stared at. Those who do can have some narcissistic tendencies, can have faced some type of neglect or for them personally an attention deficit and not just deficit but needs met with their parents/siblings so they will potentially develop a “need” and associate attention with closure/ or needs being met, and possibly leading to them getting any needs/desires met and HANDED by others to them other than them being independent and affording to cover for their own needs or developing friendships/ genuine companionships/relationships that help them to thrive, grow, and feel a sense of fulfillment.

    When I say MOST (ly all) creatures do not like being stared at is because this is a survival instinct. To be stared at by anything is associated with stalking or being hunted..

    Predator and Prey do not like this. In wolf packs, and lion prides, eye contact is possible and this can be a threat and challenge to rank and possibly safety as well, so when this is occurring and prolonged, those two animals will fight for dominance or until death. Etc.

    Both females and males in predatory groups face this amongst themselves. Usually it’s challenges and dominance but let’s look at the word here. What are they dominating? It’s like they’re the humans of their environment. The different countries and the different aspects they “rule” over is for their survival. If a male lion doesn’t dominate his pride land he loses hunting game privileges and the chance to prolong his own kind.

    Dominance is basically synonymous for access. Access to resources that cultivate survival and wellbeing. So if another animal stares AT THEM. They have to fight for what is theirs. Their survival is under threats.

    For prey… anything staring at them is actually looking to kill them lol whether an animal or poacher. They’re at the bottom there and such. They can’t differentiate between “good humans” and poachers/ cruel humans/ and their known predators.

    So… us also having a part in the food chain. Introverted or not, we do nottttt like being stared at.

    If someone is overly sexual and lacks morals or preference in how that’s done (a mate/ partner/ spouse) they will not MIND being stared at by others in a sexual context MOSTLY.

    Any time any of us is in a simple atmosphere and someone is just staring at us at their own table- we’ll get annoyed most likely and be ready to fight or confront them. We’d think: “oi bub, what’s the loose eye for? You wanna go?” 🥊

    😂

    We allll get defensive if someone stares at us- no smile- and it’s over a longggg time.

    So everyone has to understand that while some women invite and welcome the sexual staring, many do not prefer this and naturally will not welcome staring at all.

    No all have experienced neglect/ identity issues/ high sex drive/ and narcissism. Some are and do become socially confident and don’t mind being a role model. A leader, but even the most confident people may have some type of battle within- about wanting the attention and not wanting to be stared at. The most confident may not like publicity or being the life of the party, and some of them may have began a path of wanting attention and associating it with something else, so as confident and well equipped they are for the public eye or being the center of their meetings and parties, the wanting to be seen… stemmed from something long ago. They just live and coexist with it in a healthy way.

    This is my insight and overview, my thought process and recollection of what I’ve read about from other real guys, from facts pertaining to the animals and, real world views from other females as well. I think staring for sex is alright or being curious, waking with your eyes open lol, observing or admiring, but the simplest thing is if someone asked not to or is in a private place they want for themselves, then other people: men and women, really ought to respect that.

    AND lastly as well as furthermore, we can’t rely on everyone to respect us personally, so taking measures to put healthy boundaries between us and others is always a GOOD thing. Not everyone gets the whole:

    personal space/ personal bubble/ personal preference ordeal. To some, that can be confusing. We can either explain it, or take action for ourselves, or do both? 🤷‍♀️

    • Sorry you had that happen @lafemmefatale_1 consider it a learning experience! I recommend and echo what two other guys said about a curtain and tinted film. That would be a good solution for this which you consider a problem against your natural preference (possibly). I only must say if the disrespect escalates: of course of course involve authorities: law enforcement, and any trusted males you know like relatives/ friends. Even a cluster of female friends. Recall any safety training you learned in your time, and take actionary measures that will prevent any crossed boundaries that endanger your happiness or physics (well) being. A lot of the guys also gave good points about why they do it. It’s not all in bad intention but if you want to save yourself for a special boo in future reference then their behavior unbeknownst to some of them, is a problem and is a threat. Stay calm and happy. Continue to improve yourself and maintain your inner peace, and I wish you the best in finding a reliable and healthy/ supportive companion, if that’s on the list at all.

    • Hey it's not our fault we do it often, it's preprogramming from the womb , Also it's an uncontrollable primal urge to . . . . You know look and fap if possible. No man is an exception it's by default a program installed by the gods on the male species, At my apartment 5th floor perfect view of the busy city streets I delight in some intense fapping to random strangers , but since I suffer from ED the only close I get to reaching my end goal is when school is out I'm ashamed by this behavior but it will probably happen today as well till I fix my image, finances, and life, I miss my ex from 2yrs back , she made it her duty to drain my cock every weekend but now I'm ol by myself again

    • Is that all you have to say on the subject?🤯

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  • Just a few men and they make it so obvious so it seems like it is most men.

    Hate the pigs who do these things and I'd put a window tint on your bathroom window. So no one can see in any!

    Though on the other side there are a few women who just adore being seen for the wrong reasons encouraging these pigs.

    • @chris_987 never been on a farm lol fits so well

    • @chris_987 na just a term you associate that way.

    • Well prove me wrong, what do you hate about guys?

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  • HAHAHAHHAHA! Most people would be creeped out by shit like this. Except for weirdos. He was probably FAT! And UGLY! Probably can’t get no girls.


    Many men probably are minding their own business. Many are in relationships. Not all men are perverts and not all women are fucked in the head line you.



    I’m glad you enjoy giving basement dwellers and old fat bastards who are probably on the registry someoem to look at. Let him in next time. Maybe his neckbeard can tickle you while he eats you out. Or maybe you can feel his big fat belly rubbing up against you and the old man can have a heart attack while he’s on you

    • Forgive me padre, for that I’ve been a freak.

    • Are you a priest or what?

    • You need to pray to God

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  • Guys might be more pronounced about it, but women are voyeurs too. For instance, the wife and I went away for a weekend and heard moaning noises. I thought it was the TV upstairs and she said “nope, that’s next door.” We went out on our balcony and sure enough, the people next to us had their sliding door open and at the time, were doing a 69. My wife, who is usually shy about things like that, was just as curious to watch as I was. She scolded me when I was going to take a picture, but that was because she thought I would get caught. So, men and women do it, men are just more obvious.

    • Whether women and men are or aren’t is somewhat irrelevant. Their preferences are fine, but the privacy and respect of others should always be valued. Some just aren’t interested and some have their tired days and some rather have some peace and quiet and personal space 🤷‍♀️ That couple you and your wife previewed seemed like they didn’t care so I don’t see a problem. If they’re not locking things up or shutting things down for the night or a day in the love tunnel lol then I suppose it’s not that much of a priority or big deal to them, but others who do take measures should have that respected. At the same time I feel like if someone really wanted privacy they’d make sure to, but on the other hand some people just expect boundaries to be there regardless of iron windows and all lol like it’s crazy what lengths some individuals have to go just to ensure they have that quiet time and quiet place for themselves.

    • I admit I do stare. I find it embarrassing when I do. But it happens

    • @Unicornrose I think it is human nature. We’re all curious about things to a degree.

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  • That is just one other good reason that I am a naturalist and I don't care who sees me naked.

  • Your perception doesn't apply to all men, but it is true that voyeuristic tendencies is typically more pronounced in men. For some, the thrill of engaging in a taboo or risky behaviour can be a driving force behind voyeurism. The excitement deriving from the possibility of getting caught can be a significant factor. Also, another interesting fact is the constant bombardment of sexualized images in advertising and media may have desensitized many individuals, leading them to seek more explicit or forbidden forms of sexual stimulation.

    • My lotion is almost done from all the fapping I do at my balcony , I try to ignore staring down at my window but women esp teenage girls walk the city streets with bum shorts exposing butt cheeks, and the working class ladies with similar outfits randomly passing by close to my apartment, I don't even try to control the urges but if I do my day will be f*#$d up as I will have a boner that will persist and lead to undesirable behavior in the streets, park, etc Out of data for tiktok? no problem my balcony is the perfect voyeur site

    • I have a clos4 friend who loves to watch. He admits it. So it's on the person

  • “Most” men? Nice stereotype. Really.

  • they may be without female attention to stop and stare like that. It's in the very first section of the Bible... not long after the earth was made... "He saw her...".

    a curvy silhouette would draw a lot of eyes.

    next time, wear a fake suite and have a baby like this movie... freak em out a bit...

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/MypSQOs4Y84
  • Can't relate so I don't really know what to say except most men are horn dogs with little self control?

    • exactly

    • @Minahh it is sad to hear. Being decent is a nice thing to take pride in. But many don't care.

  • Guys are very very very very very very visual. Big time Visual.

    • I think they’re has to be some minor limit to the eyes as there is with paparazzi Not everyone wants to be stared at all the time and at every place. Home seems like an off limits thing.

  • I don’t condone peeking through a window at a girl at all. But men do looking at beautiful women. We shouldn’t be creepy about it… and what he did is creepy.

  • Because we have a much better chance of watching than getting any pussy ourselves... lol

    • True to some degree, but pussy shouldn't be a priority anymore, women have it just as bad as men but their mental wiring doesn't allow them to admit thirst or deprivation etc they are perfect at acting like they have it all, many women now are even struggling to get passed their virginity, hiding behind the facade that it's easier for them to get layed. . . . . welp hate to disappoint you but this is the silent slayer feminism has let in the door for them, gone are the days indeed

  • definitely a building designed by a man... lol

    • Ahahaha, yes

  • More childish gender wars.

    Grow up.

  • Look at how much artwork, modern an ancient, is devoted to the female form. Not even necessarily nude. Look at all the pieces in my collection we've talked about. A great many of them have women in there somewhere.

    • True but there should be some choice too. All ladies shouldn’t have to be scoped in the ideal privacy and peacefulness of a shower. Like it’d be crazy if the whole world watched you eat and poop. This is why some celebrities don’t like their life on display. If they can get so frustrated with constantly being watch and not everyone likes hugs or hand shakes then women in this case with good reason should simply have the options to always have a place of privacy. If men can have man caves and a time of day to sleep then women should have their safe havens in society and especially within their homes as well.

    • @Rosexøxø agreed I don't disturb women in their private homes / property, plus watching someone shower that's a bit extreme , invasion of privacy , my guilty pleasure is wanking to the ladies that catch my attention from my balcony , I do try my best to be discreet but alas the monkey brain has yet to be tamed, one of my teenage girl neighbor would bend over to hang her laundry before school she eventually kinda noticed I was watching from my window but that didn't stop her from teasing me This made me even bunk school at times Now 40yrs old , deep in the city out of my hometown the legacy continues Fap time lol

  • Are they? Are you an exhibitionist?

    Stop judging people as a group. Men are X, women aren't Z, people are individuals.

  • We are programed that way by nature. The question is why don't women do it? The answer is women are looking for more in a man than they can see with their eyes.

  • What makes you so certain it was a man you were seeing outside?

    Why are most men voyeurs?
  • what kind of question is this?

    let me ask, don't you enjoy looking at a delicious looking food?

    well for guys you ARE the food.

  • Guys are very visual. They will rarely pass up a chance to look at a naked girl or have sex with her. Some guys are different, but most aren’t.

  • Because they find you sexy and want to see you. Too nervous to ask you out directly but still want to be there

  • Men are open about it. Women just hide it more.

  • Most men are very visual when it comes to seeing a beautiful girl with a beautiful body , sometimes we get lost in a trance by her beauty and don’t realize she put a spell on us lol

  • I was waiting for you to turn your back, and I was going to use a quiet drill and put a hole in the glass... and put a flexible periscope through the hole... but you just kept looking!!!

    Oh by the way, you do have a nice silhouette, and I can't wait to get that hole drilled and the periscope through !!!

    Well, to answer your question, I always like to see a nice naked female body. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤔🤔👍👍👌

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