Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why are most women shamed for having sex with multiple guys?
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Why is that? What is wrong with it that woman are shamed for that and I see a lot of woman like that on twitter and tik tok.
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26 105In my opinion, most people are uncomfortable with sexuality because it's taboo. In reality, both men and women should be free of experiencing as much as they want if it's consentual.
I'd say that men are also shamed for it but differently. Women are often called ''sluts'' while men are called ''fuckboys'' when doing the exact same thing.
Nobody should shame others for their sexuality unless it's dangerous or something.
Because its hard to know who is then responsible for her baby, it is also an clue as to her fitness as a wife as a woman's ability to bond with a man has an inverse relationship with the number of men she has slept with.
In general every man beyond the first one makes you less valuable as a wife and mother. Which is to say less valuable to men who want families and a threat to women who want loyal men.
I don't shame people for it I just instinctively find it unattractive.
Women who get into relationships statistically don't seem like good people to settle down with, if you think about it.
Plus I'm a clean freak. I don't want to think about the 100s of other grubby men who have been there. Especially since I love oral sex.
easy
what we want and value in our partners are different things
guys cares about purity and motherliness also male sexual nature is polygynous meaning we only want our genes to be spreaded as much as we can, you having sex with other guys is opposite of what our nature wants from us
Because it's incredibly easy for women to get laid. You can walk outside with a bullhorn and yell "I'm horny, who wants to have sex with me?" And guys will be coming left and right in a nanosecond. You get high on EVERY SINGLE DAY by hundreds of men. So it's easy to get laid. And if a woman has sex with a lot of men, then that means she will let literally ANYBODY between her legs, and that is not appealing whatsoever... unless of course you're just looking for sex. Think of it like this: a key that opens many locks is a master key. But a lock that opens to ANY key is a crappy lock.
Because women have always said they don't do that.
I cheat and like getting cheated on also love getting men to cheat love me hate me but that’s what is real and the more people push the hotter it is and most people just lie to themselves and chase their own tail. I do it to but I know it and embrace it but I’m an individual
@Curiositykilledcat7 You LIKE getting cheated on? I have never heard of this.
You're kidding? Because it crazy and wrong, same goes for guys who do the same thing.
1 Corinthians 6:15 Context
12All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any. 13Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. 14And God hath both raised up the Lord, and will also raise up us by his own power. 15Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. 16What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. 17But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. 18Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
Personally I don't shame people for having sex with multiple people. The way I view it is like the odds of STDs and paying attention during health class learning with that stuff could do. Like I don't care if someone has slept with someone before, unless it's with a lot of people and it's not because of them it's strictly because of the STD's some people will hide. I'm not risking my heath for sum 😾. I have a weakened immune system so I don't feel like getting killed by 😾💀
Because they tend to be homewreckers or gold diggers.
Because they aren't getting married and end up with tons of men. Also, not being in a relationship with the men she does.
Doing shameful acts results in shame
Its a double standard that has been around for a long time but in this modern day and age I haven't met anyone who were going out of their way to shame women for their sex lives.
Mother Nature designed men and women differently. Women, by virtue of their one egg a month, are built to have sex with one man, get pregnant, and raise the child with the man that impregnated her.
Men, on the other hand, by virtue of being able to ejaculate millions of sperm several times a day, are built to impregnate many women.
That's why harems, concubines and multiple-wives have existed.
So, historically, it's not okay for a woman to have sex with multiple partners, while for a man, it is not only okay, it's often expected.
If they do that, they should realize that it is her own fault if she is never able to have a good quality man for an exclusive relationship for the rest of her life. That is the problem. The women that are immoral and ruin their pair bonding ability get upset when no good quality men want them for a relationship even though she is forever low quality herself.
It’s because woman can have sex with who ever whenever while men cannot. We have to truly work at it. And while all of us men want to be on the beneficial end of meeting that girl that decided that night she wants to be gang banged or just can’t show restraint from going home with a guy from the bar we don’t want to date someone that everyone else can have.
quite the opposite for women when they see him with other girls he’s seen as a prize worth catching. His value goes up the more that he’s seen with different girls and a challenge.
we men have come to terms with it , girls can get laid whenever but what really pisses us off is the the girl knows this and puts men down after rejecting them by saying oh poor boy doesn’t have any game. That will get you shamed every time.
It’s normally insecurity that we tend to shame girls when we’re often worse or more pathetic as a whole.
Because they know they are sluts?
I've had sex with many many women, no issues here! ❤️ Have fun!
Because of how easy it is for a woman to get a lot of sexual partners. Even overweight all around not very attractive women have no trouble getting a lot of guys willing to sleep with them. In addition it is far more common for major negative effects to occur to women that sleep around. Men have negative effects as well but they don't show up as quickly
I also would like to add men are shamed far worse by their friends than women ever will be. Guys are notoriously nice to spare a woman's feelings. Oh we may say some potentially hurtful things (slut, whore bimbo etc) but that is nothing compared to the insults guys will drop on other guys for doing the same thing. Had a buddy growing up that was an absolute man-whore. To list a few insults he received from the "boys" we have: man shut up you'd fuck a horse if you wouldn't get in trouble. Or *audible sniff* does it smell like seafood and shitty life choices? Oh hey wants up Mr. Crabs. Or geez man you going to end up with all stds and ED before 40. He did in fact end up with ED at 34 and he picked up 5 different stds. He is still single and currently drinks and does drugs. I offered to get him rehab but he doesn't want help. 2 of our friends wives and my wife know the insults we put him through only my wife doesn't understand it because she still doesn't quite understand how guys can things that "horrible" and still remain friends (doesn't happen in her culture).
Yes if a woman has sex with multiple guys she's called a slut but if a guy does the same.. He's gay!
I laughed so hard at that 💀💀
@wiltingrosepetal Thank you, for letting me know..