Why are straight men so bad at oral sex?

I love my boyfriend, but when he goes down on me let's just say it's not great
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  • Lots of guys never bothered to learn how to do it right.

    • How do they learn?

    • @midnightmoon05 Lots of practice and some feedback.

    • Like most everything else.

  • Because no one tells us what feels good. Most women are appallingly bad at communicating anything sexual.

  • Some guys become bored with it very quickly.

    • And some don't get bored!😁

    • @Guardian45 That is why I said "some."

    • Gotcha!😄😆😂

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  • Your boyfriend is not representative of the entire straight male population.

    Also, have you tried telling and showing him what you like?

  • imagine that: everyone doesn't like the same shit. so he might have been perfect for the last 10 girls he had but not for you.

    also: why don't you just teach him instead complaining about the state of things?

    besides. one man being bad at it doesn't mean "men are bad at it".

  • I experience the same, but sometimes I guide my partner for better experience

  • I have heard so many say this. The only way you can get at giving her oral sex, is if she tells the guy what she likes being done to her. Some women are stimulated more quickly and others. Practice makes perfect lol

  • Men spent enough time in trenches during the war.

  • I m straight and my ex enjoyed very much when i go down on her.

  • Do you feel like they can’t be taught?
    Also why straight men in particular?

  • They were never forced to tie a cherry stem into a double knot with their tongues.

  • Well us men are bad because we don't have a pussy I think a girl can do better than a man because they have and know how it works. Honestly a pussy is a little more complicated than a penis. I was lucky enough for a older woman to teach me how to pleasure a girl orally. Also he just might need a little more practice and try to tell or guide on what feels good and what you like.

  • I have found girls are the best at oral

  • I wouldn’t say all of them…. It has more to do with the guy’s personality, level of curiosity and desire to want to pleasure their SO / make them feel awesome.

  • Apparently I used to be good. Had a few that would push my head down. I'm way out of practice now. Certain spots to look for that makes her squirm. I look for her reactions.

  • So teach him. I’ve had girls b pretty awful at stuff when I met em but they were pros in no time with my teachings

  • Username checks out.

  • Imagine outing your partner online like that...

  • Why is your profile picture essentially, a nude

  • Nice butt

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