Why are woman shamed for casual sex and having higher body counts?

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quaranta · Accepted Answer

Traditional sexist values that usually overload women of responsibilities, sometimes even really absurd and abstract like holding the whole honour of the family in their hymen, but take them off the power on the situation (while responsibility should be the same amount of power and viceversa, to have a healthy situation).
But I think there is also some "competition" that goes two ways: some men feeling it unfair because some of them can't have the same amount of casual sex; and some men with extremely fragile ego feeling like there is a chance your exes were better than him in bed.

Regardless, the society can tell you it's wrong but objectively you're having fun and getting great sex as a result so that is not a bad balance I guess. Today people don't go around saying scandals like:"That woman slept with 4 men in her life!!!" like in the medieval ages, you know, you can pretty much function in the society (at least in the West) with no bad reputation spreading around. So having a high body count doesn't exclude you can, only day, have a long term relationship and be faithful/loyal, make a family, have a career, make projects, make new friends, integrate in new communities etc.

As long as your partners consent with your intentions and aren't emotionally/psychologically abused (like exploiting their feelings to get casual sex only then leaving them pending), and you're not manipulated into sex but your consent is also real, then I see no ethical boundaries in your body count. It's a lifestyle you chosen depending on your preferences.
Some people will disagree but that is normal, and it's also their own business only. They can be against but that remains in their own head, no matter how hard they come telling you you "shouldn't", it's anyway their business, as long as it's not hurting anyone.

Breanna_nonbinary · Accepted Answer

Because it’s a male centric world. It’s outdated thinking and it’s a way to keep women in their place. Women have always been subjugated by society and men. If a woman expresses her sexual freedom they label her a slut. We were taught that women need to be prim and chaste. But there is no shame in a high body count and furthermore it’s no one’s business but your own.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

It’s nasty when everyone does it not just women. The lack of respect for Being or proper respect for one’s Soul, Mind, and Body.

Sex is foremost a spiritual transaction and you leave a piece of your mind snd body with each penis that penetrates. You spread yourself around like you have no Value.

Dargil · Accepted Answer

No person should be shamed for any reason, but you can choose to be with them or not. I do not want a woman whose vagina is down to the wear indicators.

OatmealMuffin · Answer

It doesn't make sense.

Berethor · Answer

A man is like a key, a woman is like a lock, and women are the ones who get pregnant.

sheenagwapa · Answer

expectations that women are to submit to men that even these men are cheatinh we are expected to just stay even if your dignity as a woman is beinh wrecked over and over and over and over and over and over ahain

Marked_Man · Answer

Men already have such low expectations for women, the one they actually have for a woman they love to be "his" and only his is not unreasonable. Men are prideful and territorial. No man wants a woman he loves to have been had by other men.

Shamalien · Answer

Because that’s just how a man’s mind works. Whine about it all you want but we don’t respect a woman who gives it up easy. Make us work for it, it makes us better and it makes you better, it really makes the whole world better when men have to work hard to get laid

Guardian45 · Answer

NO idea. HK! If it doesn't bother me, why should it bother you?

wannabecuck-2 · Answer

The same way guys are shamed for flirting with other women.

CeIIestial · Answer

Because that's disgusting for both males and females.

najekim · Answer

Religious dogma comes to mind. IMHO, there is no "high body count." Just means you're sexually adventurous. Some people are scared, or jealous, of that.

riverrat3 · Answer

double standards, sucks, not a level playing field

Anonymous · Answer

Men are insecure and have frail egos. They’re threatened by sexually experienced women, so they lash out and try to slut shame them. Then these same men rationalize that their own number of partners doesn’t matter. The hypocrisy is mind blowing. Run from these kind of guys as fast as you can.