Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health As we know, it takes men A LOT of courage and confidence to approach women. This is not an easy thing for men to do, and it scares the crap out of us.
Over the years, I always heard women say things like, "I wish guys would approach me and talk to me."
Well... yesterday... my best friend and I mustard up the courage to approach women at a lounge last night. We are not bad looking guys, pretty fit and we looked great last night. As we were walking the streets people kept complimenting us on our outfit and our cologne and a couple of older women said I looked amazing. Anyway... back to the story.
The lounge is fairly big and it was fairly crowded and has 2 floors. Every time my friend and I approach a woman, she was extremely rude and short with us. For example... here is how I approached last night and a convo with a girl I was talking to:
Me: "Hi there! My name is "First and Last" name. How are you are you?"
Her: "Hi. Great. Nice to meet you."
Me: "Glad to hear it. Where are you from?"
Her: "Here. Ok. It was nice to meet you."
Me: "That's cool. I'm also from here." (Note... this is a joke I tell women, because they can blatantly tell I am not from the area based on my accent).
Her: "Oh ok. It was nice meeting you."
We approached other women all night... but a lot of them were rude (not all, but a lot).
Why do women expect to be approached and then get angry when men actually approach them? I didn't mention sex, I kept things really casual, etc.
Why are women so rude when you approach them?
Anonymous
Updates:
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Some of you are saying shit like "approaching is creepy" or "they don't like talking to strangers". How the fuck do you expect to meet anyone then if you're afraid to take action?
+1 y
Must be a young girl thing... because when I approach women in their 30s... they fuckin' love me and don't mind. Lol
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What Girls & Guys Said
14 17You don't approche women like this that's creepy
And accept that not everyone is a valuable or looking for someone they just met on the fucking street
it depends it seems kinda friendly and nice to me.
@foreverloved14 well every woman is different
very true and he just needs to find the more understanding and friendly ones. Because you guys are right it's scary to go up to someone you think is attractive and talk to them. I have done it many of times and have failed many of times. So I understand why it's so hard for guys.
OP you said: "You don't approche women like this that's creepy And accept that not everyone is a valuable or looking for someone they just met on the fucking street" So, when you go to a party by yourself or a club by yourself, you don't talk to anyone, huh? You just stand alone in the corner like a creeper? Nothing is creepy about approaching a woman, especially if you do it in a respectful manner. How do you expect to make friends or get a girlfriend? Do you expect people to come up and talk to you? I used to expect it, and I didn't have friends or a girlfriend for a while. I'm in control of my own life and I approach people I am interested in. Whether it's for dating or friendship. I was at a party last night, and this guy approached me, started talking to me and now we're friends. Loosen up!!!
Isn't avaliable * sorry typos lol
And I said in the streets and that's not the way to approche women at least it's not always succeful
in regards to your first paragraph, speak for yourself... i look at women as human beings just like me, im not afraid to approach them at all
Well I put the blame on you. It seems are just playboy and nobody will accept you.
You have to be a man and stop being immature. Is this all your hang out was about? Only to flirt with random ladies? What a shame!
what exactly did you want them to say to you? she wasn't interested. she wasn't rude. she acknowledged you, responded to you in a respectful manner (nice to meet you). a guy approached me and called me beautiful. i thanked him. then i walked away because he just stood there staring. what was i supposed to say? if we tell you we're not into dating, you think we're beating about the bush or being indirect. if we tell you we're not interested, we're rude. so what exactly do you want us to say?
It's not your approach, you just need to play the numbers, they are not all single or even looking at the moment so you just need to keep trying if you want to approach that way and learn the clues fast when they are not interested. Also no need to tell them you're full name, you sound like you're are trying to sell them something, lol
I agree it's really weird. And yet some guy who walks up and just talks about sex, oh yeah sure, they'll have pornstar like sex with?
I don't get why they disrespect respectful guys and treat good guys bad?
I have a question actually, maybe you can help?
If u can please, I don't get their behaviour? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2141337-who-would-a-sweet-fun-girl-flirt-be-with-have-dirty-sex-with-based