But what really sucks is there are a lot of people in prison men and women because they accidentally killed their girlfriend boyfriend so on so on because of the way that they choked you cannot choke somebody straight on you have to do it from the site all it takes is that not even a half a pound of pressure to kill somebody I mean could you imagine you're in bed fucking having the best time ever and you reach up and grab their throat and next thing you know they're dead you have to go from the side if you are going to choke somebody there's a way to do it
Will I find is very weird very strange is that nowadays when you ask a girl how she likes to get laid every single one of them says rough hard and I will ask him if he has anybody ever made love to you and they say yeah that's what you do to me what I want it rough and this is been going on for years I hate guys have it all figured out to where they can have their cake and eat it too guys just want to get off as quickly as possible that's what they do so they found Away by doing it rough to get it done and over with and the girl thinks that she got something good out of it too it's still there two minute routine I think that sucks for the last pass chin 15 years I have always ask a girl how she likes it in the moment I hear rough I just shake my head okay and I make it a point to go the complete opposite way because this is what happens they will bitch bark and bite for the first 5 minutes to 10
minutes
And I really don't care what they say I keep going slow motion and deep the way that I wanted to do it I want her to feel something and probably within 12 to 15 minutes I could pick up Rhythm and speed and start to pound her they will grab a hold of you until you no stop go slow please go slow because they've never ever felt that before they never had love made to them before they think that's what it's all about is hard fast deep and rough because that's all they know because that's all the guys know anymore I just want to get there quick nut off and be done with it they figured out a way to do it I've never been into choking never will be probably if I'm going to be rough with the girls a whole different way it's not choking throwing her around I still like doing it at Marathon fashion can for me I have my own style but I make it all about the girl because I want to please her I mean even though I like to make love I also do love to give a good pounding and that usually happens but first things first
A lot comes down to that trust thing.
even though that trust is there, she always has that fear kicking off.
The following is a quote from an article.
The other night, he choked me. At first I felt quite smug, knowing he might be trying to scare me but would never get me close to passing out (see his admonitions on the subject here). After a few minutes of restricted air, I started to panic. And somehow, he knew just when to let go... he felt that time when I was really getting panicked, digging my nails into him and squirming like a hellion, but before I passed out. It was a wonderful feeling. Once I gasped for breath, my body was flooded with the most wonderful, peaceful relaxation. It was like taking a dose of a wonderful drug that only lasted for about 10 seconds, but felt great when it did. It has those fear endorphins kicking Off, then there is the entire oxygen starvation.
it is I might add very dangerous, it is not something to do with out having done a full PRICK.
https://lovingbdsm.net/2018/05/02/ssc-rack-prick/
with the right partner it can be good.
Some like this some do not,
it’s very important that Informed Consent is fully understood first and foremost.
Here is some more information on it, links to kinks.
medium.com/.../how-to-properly-choke-your-partner-during-sex-a730bf49a27e
www.psychologytoday.com/.../the-psychology-behind-breath-play
www.kinkly.com/definition/6629/choking-bdsm
Safety really can’t be emphasised enough, you can cause death, brain damage, cardiac arrest etc.
I knew you'd give a decent answer lol
@shatteredmasterpeace thank you, pre lockdown etc, we would run workshops on various kinks, the main bit of each one was always safety, this ranges from bondage and cutting ropes, to knife play and how to deal with knife wounds, to chocking and more extreme stuff.
Good question... My ex was very big on it. He loved it, he was very quick to hold my neck even when I had never done it. And I couldn't get him to slow down with it.
He couldn't have sex unless it was quite rough and on the BDSM spectrum of things.
And I guess he... I wouldn't say forced but maybe... Groomed me into it?
(yes, it was an unhealthy relationship).
Something happens when the blood flow gets turned off from choking, and... You could almost get high on it if done right.
Sorry for you, that is a really shit and abusive way to be introduced to things. That high is sub space
@ChrisMaster69 thank you, yeah, it wasn't the best. And the more I researched after, the more I realized how awful it all was. But I'm out and hopefully healing. And yeah, I learned that it was later on. Also about sub drop and how important aftercare was.
Pink Anon , good pleased you learned, stay safe, stay happy
Sexual choking is not the same as normal choking. The goal is to cut off blood flow not airflow. You should always be able to breathe while being choked. Hand in v shape, squeeze sides never put pressure on the front. Basically because it cuts off bloodflow it makes you feel high, weightless and then super focused as everything goes back to normal. It's hard to explain but that's why I like it.
We always said in martial arts class you can get someone unconscious in 8 seconds with the blood thing though. In fact, I saw it with my own eyes.
@Levin yeah that's kinda the point of it. It's a rush
Ahh ok, I can kinda understand
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I like choking the guy when im riding. It doesn't really turn me on but its an excuse to get payback from all the times he made me mad. So its quite the joy
And when i got choked, my asthma kicked in. I was like stahp, i can't breathe
Yeah I've heard this already lol smh
I am never dating you lol 😂
um for me i like it bc it makes me hornier feeling that he’s down on me an choking me.. like i like the feeling of being submissive to him right then an there. it makes me cum faster an i enjoy it more when i’m being choked and he asks if he’s doing it too hard to make sure i’m not uncomfortable it’s always at the right level tightness never too hard bc then that’s a red flag for me.
no and never will,
Not me!
Like you I'm too much a control freak to EVER entrust my life to someone on a power trip'... But,
medically 'sexual asphyxia' (the lack of necessary oxygen to the point of near unconsciousness) is supposed to heighten the neurological 'intoxication' by depriving the brain's neurons the means to timely oxidize their sugars as they would normally. For some, PERMANENT neural impairment IS a serious risk~
No no no.
for me sex is all about things that are pleasurable. I don’t find pleasure in choking, but If someone else does, then so be it. Everything with sex is personal preference
I’ll never do it. Honestly, as you stated it’s easy for the other person to get carried away. When it does get carried away A LOT of bad things could happen that I’m not willing to risk.
Exactly
Yes.
I don't know why, I guess because I just want to be the hot young guy who pleasures a gorgeous, sweet older women and is basically her living sex toy so it's just fucking hot to me to be able to be that in control to the extent that she wants me to choke her. Like she's still in control but she wants me to choke her while I'm fucking her and she absolutely wants all the pleasure from me she can get to the point that she wants my big hands wrapped around her throat. Knowing she likes me and trusts me that much and just how strong and manly I feel as a result and how feminine she feels with my hand there. My hands are larger than the average man's, I'm 6'8 and pretty ripped so I'm not a small or weak guy and she'd know it but just knowing there's that much trust in me and that great a desire for pleasure out of me. I don't know, it's just an awesome thing.
For the record I'm a virgin waiting for the right girl but I can very easily see myself trying this even during my first time if we trust each other enough.
I don't believe in choking. Not a turn-on at all.
because im ✨suicidal✨
Choking can make orgasms more intense. Also can give the feeling of being high. I absolutely love being choked during sex😍
Sound is hot as usual ☺️👍
Noted lol
Breath play is probably one of my favourites
@harleigh90 really that does surprise me
@ChrisMaster69 I'm a bag of surprises 😏
@harleigh90 how to open the bag, 🔪
I honestly love it, but it depends purely on the guy doing. Only one guy has done that to me and I feel like if the previous men I've been with had done that, I'd hate it. Previous boyfriends have actually tried to touch the front of my neck and I wouldn't let them. It freaked me out.
When I'm choked it's more like a gentle squeeze that slowly gets tighter and tighter. I don't know. It's a turn on to be subdued by someone whose sexy af that you absolutely trust and feel safe with. It's basically like they're commanding you to stay still while they give you continuous pleasure 🤤.
But yeah. Im all for neck grabs and choking during sex and kissing. Just has to be with the right person, with the right vibe and energy.
Exactly, with the right person. ❤️
Females mainly like that it has to do with a head rush from blood rushing back in their brain as they orgasm. Also many of them like the domination and feeling of being overcame probably a left over from the cave man days in the reptile Part of the brain. I’ve counseled people in my life and a crazy but true fact is women who have had the misfortune to be raped are often the most traumatized and guilty because they ask me “ why did I climax I came when that bastard did this I never cum ! “ I’ve heard that so many times I’ve come to believe in the rape fantasy. I didn’t until I started counseling survivors. As I’ve grown older I’ve come to know how twisted many peoples minds are it’s pretty wild.
Wow.
That’s what I thought the first time I heard that from a client I couldn’t say that but my thought were that must be an incredibly traumatic event. I heard to many times for it not to be true.
The euphoria of it lmfao gives you better orgasms too
Hmmm
Virgin, but I don't think I'd be into it.
In theory, I'm submissive and whilst I like the idea of a woman being in control she'd only put her hand around my neck to control and stabalise me, without choking, the latter would be uncomfortable, not what I want.
Eh not my thing, either doing or being done to me. Once I get to being aggressive and I’m already pumping intensely, I can easily forget my own strength so I keep my hands reserved to certain areas of the body to avoid an accident. I’m thinking I’m being sensual and gentle but in reality I could be hurting her. So choking seems like a bad idea 😂
then don’t squeeze. sim girls just like the act of having a dudes hands around her neck it makes her horny an shit.
@sqquizzy44321 or he could just not do it. You like what you like and he likes what he likes. Not everyone wants to do all that extra shit
Yes I know. But this guy is saying he doesn't want to because he think he'll choke too hard I'm saying if he feels that way he could jus easily not put any pressure on her neck and just hold his hand there. He's saying he doesn't choke because of this and I provided him with something for his delima 🙂
It's dominant sex.
The girl gets sexual gratification from being totally submitted.
The guy gets gratification from taking control.
Unless you're with a total psychopath I would think seriously hurting people is not very likely. A lot of it is simulation, for example, she feels a little restriction for a moment, but can still breathe. It's like when a guy takes you in doggy but pulls your arms back submitting you. Isn't that hot? As long as the guy is trustworthy and upstanding in real life, I don't see why he would hurt you in the bedroom. Most people can snap out of lust fairly quickly if they see their partner being hurt. Again, unless you are a psychopath.
Nicely put too
I mean maybe it's because I'm not really submissive 🤷🏾♀️
Never been into it so I couldn't tell you either.
I'm into blood choking because of the fuzzy rush of blood returning to my brain and choking on cock because I like being at the mercy of someone else's lust (with safety and trust in the tap)
Damn!! That's hot! How do you determine when to let go?
*how do you let the guy know when to let go?
With blood choking he can let go any time he wants or until I tap or pass out. Choking on cock, I just tap his leg with my hand to let him know I need air.
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