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Sexual Health Why can some random douche make me orgasm and my own bf can't?
Anonymous
I've been with my bf for over 2 years. I love him very much, but for some reason he has never been able to give me an orgasm. He's really nice, for me and does his very best to please me, but it never happened and it makes me go crazy. I really need that, because I masturbate behind his back but it doesn't really satisfy me, and he would feel terrible if he found out. Same situation with my first bf. My bf was out of the country for a week and we kind of had a fight right before he left, which kinda sucks. A couple days ago, I went to a party with some friends, got drunk, met this guy, a real macho that even though I told him I had a bf kept hitting on me and in less than an hour, he was at my place fucking me stupid. I've never been done so hard and came 3 times!!! Even without him trying to please me with foreplay. It was the craziest session I could have ever imagined. Afterwards of course, I felt terrible since I cheated on my bf even though we had a fight, I let this douche who didn't have the least bit of respect for me, plow my pussy to dump his load in me, and later I even gave the guy my number so "he could booty call me sometime". Everyone at my place (rented a flat with some of my friends) of course heard the whole thing loud and clearly and just laghed it off. They thought it was funny since they know that guy as well and aparently he does a lot of one night stands with girls while just using them as sex objects, and it's always the pretty girls that fall for him. I don't understand how he did it. Now my bf is back, we cleared up our fight and I thought I'd just forget about the whole mistake, he won't find out and we would just continue where we left off. Then I had sex with my bf who was trying very hard, now I felt even more disapointed after that other guy, again couldn't come, and to top it off this guy sends me a booty call text while I'm desperately trying to get an orgasm while riding my bf. So how com I can't get satisfied with my own bf?
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I'd like to point out: the guy asked my number and said "it'd be nice to booty call you sometime" and laughed. I was drunk an gave him my number, not realizing yet how bad it was. Of course I blocked his number and haven't seen him again.
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What Girls & Guys Said
22 43Break up with your boyfriend. You're not satisfied with him, and he deserves someone who actually respects him enough to be loyal.
Sexual incompatibility. Anyway you should dump your boyfriend not only because he can't turn you on, but because he deserves so much better than a lying cheat.
All I really want to say right now is "you suck." Anyway, I am just disappointed where your priorities lie and your actions.
Meeting a D-bag with experience at your horny & tipsy moment vs. a boyfriend with no experience.
Cheating might add spice to the sex, of course. Why do you think some couples are into swinging?
PS Tell your boyfriend to go down on you. (or to take you on the kitchen table)
The latter is more likely. The sex she liked had no foreplay, where i suspect her bf goes down on her constantly trying to please her.
He simply doesn't satisfy you and doesn't seem to be able to get you going the same way as someone treating you like a sex object, you need someone to fuck you better.
Plus, you cheated on him anyways so it's time to own it and break up for someone better in bed.
woah lmao girl
Your a slut, it turns you on to be used like a slut, probably even turns you on to cheat on nice guys. You need to examine your self and what exited you and what you really want out of life because you can't have it all nor do you deserve it.
If you want to be sexually satisfied you need some one who is going to use u like a slut at least that's how it sounds hear. So if sexual satisfaction means that much to you embrace your inner slut.
Maybe you need to find you a guy into swinging, and cuckolding
But not a guy that wants to love you in the classic relationship form
I think it's definitely something she needs to figure out - can she be happy in a monogamous relationship with a guy who fucks her -like- a slut, or does she need the thrill of cheating or does she need a guy who -really- doesn't care about her at all? Her odds of 'normal' happiness are much higher if the first is true. if its the second, an open might work, and if its the third, i think she should really examine her feelings and see if she can grow out of them, because that's a real happiness dead end.
Your disgusting. Break up with your bf now he deserves much better than your sorry ass. No sympathy for cheaters. Don't care how many I'm sorry's and how many tears. No tolerance. There are no excuses. SRS
This is why we need religion.
You're a real Shakespeare. Classy.
You should confess to your Boyfriend what you did, and I don't feel bad for you, because you should have realized it was wrong, and you really need to see a Therapist on why you have these sexual issues.
You're just a cunt
You're as bitchy as my ex-girlfriend. Don't you think cheating is bad?
Of course I do.
The excitement of being with a stranger makes it funnier duh!
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whore. whore. whore.
Damn that dude is a master playa. He can probably pick out the easy prey.
Some guys really know how to work it and some don't.
Do you think it's just that? Like only physically
You know what's funny about this situation? Your boyfriend is the classic nice guy and you fucked the classic alpha male. Hope that worked out for you. Because... when your boyfriend leaves your sorry ass, he'll move on to someone much better. Always happens for the nice guys.
You came 3 times!!! Well I'm glad you feel bad about cheating...