Why can’t feminists accept that having sex drives and being a slut are not the same thing?

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"Why can’t men accept that women have sex drives too?"
"Whenever a woman posts about how she enjoys sex or wants to have sex with lots of guys (aka openly expressing her sexuality), men immediately shame her for it. Why can’t men accept that women also have sexual needs? And if we want quantity, we want quantity."

This is my opinion
The tile and the content of this take don't correspond. The title mentions that women are shamed for having sex drives but the context tells that women are ashamed for sleeping with many guys.
Guess what? one fun fact having sex drive is not the same as having sex with many guys. Women who have sex with only one man still enjoy sex and still have sex drives.
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  • I agree...

  • You are correct babe, bacause if that you have written now , would be posted by a man all the woman would eat him alive.

    • thanks. Sluts still eat those women who disagree with their lifestyle

    • Yep , and there are many sluts and those numbers are growing in daily bases.

    • because they are like STDs

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  • agree with you.. i guess you have met with a dick head who calls you a hoe or a slut... it's ok for girls to have… [+]

  • Thank you! I agree with you 100%. Promiscuity is undesirable in both men and women, and is NOT the same things as having a high sex drive.

    • Promiscuity Is known as polygamy, I guess. So you think that polygamous women are sluts because they want to fuck anyone not being on 3 on high trees? I met one of those polygamous woman and she was not respecting my wedding ring. She asks me "if I want" and I ignored here and moved on, even when she put a lot effort into seducing me. I'm monogamous, so I don't care. If you think she is a slut, just call her that way, I don't mind. She is just polygamous for me. No blame here, ha?

  • Wrong, I'm a feminist and I know the difference, you are obviously confusing feminists with feminazis.

    • True if you are part of the 1st or 2nd wave, not 3rd wave for obvious reasons. I respect only those who have earned it from me and wanting equality is a good thing.

    • @roland77 Exactly, equality is a good thing, and those who are blaming males for everything are not feminists at all, they are just pretending.

    • Yes, true. I heard about feminists who even fight for male rights and love us. And thank you for distancing feminism from those extreme and false pretends.

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  • Because they’re stupid.

    • yess

  • You are soooo right girl. One is to lust and desire (because its normal and natural) and one is to do so, and even if you do it, why judge. I have slut shaming by the way. But you are right. Its not the same thing

  • Because they're sluts.

    • true lol

  • Well said. Having a sex drive and sleeping around with random guys are not the same thing.

    One is healthy, and the other isn't.

    • true

    • And now they want to make the healthy one look unhealthy and morally wrong.