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Why Can't I Make Him Cum?

Sometimes We Have Sex For Hours And Still He Won't Cum. I End Up Giving Up Because I Start To Take It Personally Like Somethings Wrong With Me . I Am In My Twenties , Never Had Kids , Already Know About The Squeeze Technique , Where You Contract Your Muscles , Only Been With Like Eight Guys Ever . He Is Average In Size . Also Masturbates A lot . I'm Worried That I Feel To Loose Inside There . But It Just Doesn't Make Sense Why I Would Be . Is There Anything I Can Do . I Use To Be Able To Make Previous Boyfriend Cum Way Quick .
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Do You Feel Like You Have To Work Harder To Achieve An Orgasm If The Girl Is Not Tight ? Won't That Kinda Make You Not Look Forward To It As Much As You Would If It Was Teen Age Tight ?
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  • I have no idea what could be wrong with this guy. He must be masturbating a lot in his personal time or having too much sex. Give the sex a little break and then make him work for getting in your pants. Tease him quite a bit and then give it to him after he has been aroused for awhile. I would say more foreplay before sex would do it.

  • maybe its because he masturbates too much.

  • I looked a bit more and this link could help you understand: retarded ejaculation link

    • You'll have a lot to read there - but delving deeper in the site it turns out to be commercial :-P and I CAN'T CONDONE THAT!! Take the information provided but don't pay!!

  • could he be taking some medicine (or drug?)

    • If you look around among the questions here, you'll discover that it happens to others too. He can have been afraid of coming to early or to ejaculate in you (or his ex!) -having sex without proper birth control and counting on retracting in time- and develloped a reflex blocking his own orgasm (about the inverse of a premature ejaculation) He has a problem there but in any case you're not at fault.

    • A solution (not a cure) is to masturbate him or let him masturbate after your orgasm. There is a joke about it: "he's like Santa Claus, he only comes once a year" Read this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coitus_reservatus a long article but you (and your boyfriend )might want to read it. Google for "carezza"

    • He might be doing this (without being aware of it): https://www.sex-lexis.com/Sex-Dictionary/carezza

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  • idk my I've never came b4. never heard of a guy not cumming tho=[

    is he turned on?

  • Mix it up a little. Try some different positions, talk dirty to him, etc. Ask him what he likes, what he'd like to try, etc.

  • maby he's circumcised like me I don it like 3 hours and still not cummed .. I feel like a freaking virgin !

    • Circumcision doesn't change it that much. Only by a few minutes SOMETIMES, so that's obviously not it.

    • Oh I beg differ you loose so much sensation according to a guy friend of mine but here's the things. he's probably using to climaxing to jerking off so you just need to get him used to sleeping with you instead and drinking and drugs can also take the wind out of his sails. blowjobs and no condoms are the typical things guys ask for but be safe.

  • Sorry but you're loose. This happened with an ex-girlfriend of mine. The only reason I had sex with her was as a courtesy, and I did not enjoy it. For a solution you might try some Kegel exercises. What are they? Simple: next time you pee, stop it. Then start it. Then stop it. Do this every time nature calls and in a short while it will feel like you've only had sex with six guys, still quite a few but hey you're on the way there! If you were a guy we'd probably call you 'Quagmeyer' and not want to drink after you.

    • Huh?" not want to drink after me?" uh..what does that mean?.

    • I'm shocked guys are saying that 6 or 8 is a high number. I knew guys in high school who slept with more girls than that before they turned 18.

    • I am shocked as well.

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  • i jack off a lot and then I can't keep it up during sex soo I made her jerk it off for me... uhhmm but usually I'm high or drunk idk

  • He might not be that into it or he might not be able to cum

  • When me and my boyfriend first started having sex he couldn't come either, I was his first and first he found it a little bit painful but eventually it turned out to be psychological, so it might be a mindset of your man.

  • It might be because you awkwardly capitalize the first letter in EVERY word.

  • Because you have horrible typing skills, that's why.

    • Oh yeah? well if your gonna talk $hIt , at least have the balls to say who you are.

    • Seriously that's so mature, she's just asking a question. If you don't have an answer or the balls to say it without being anonymous don't respond

  • has he turned gay?

  • some guys just last a long time. first time I ever had sex I lasted 2 hours (and I didn't masturbate much) and my girlfriend was almost gonna cry cause she thought I wasn't attracted to her. we were both virgins at the time and I guess she had heard from her friends that girls last longer than guys and that it will probably only last 20 min or less. some guys can just last and its not you fault. just ask him what he likes, but also try and get him to masturbate less often.

    all I can do is suggest you try doing other things before you actually have sex, make out for a while, then kiss him all over his neck to start, rub his crotch while your kissing him, as soon as he gets hard reach into his pants and start giving him a hand job, after a while start taking off your own cloths, after each piece comes off go back to the handjob for a little while just to keep him erect, when ur naked rub yourself as you give him a hand job (this will really turn him on) at this point he will probably be trying to take off his cloths...let him, but keep your hand on his crotch and keep it going. when your both naked go down on him use you hand and mouth, focusing your mouth on the head and moving your hand nice and quick, then after a while start having sex. shouldn't take him to long after that.

    • Alright I want to pull the bull card no man last 2 hours there first time.

    • I guess I'm just not normal

  • he may have delayed ejaculation, which is an actual medical condition. and the really there is no set cure for it... but one thing you could do (its not pretty but it may work) is have him masturbate with you there and then when he is about to come you start working on him.

    (you may have to work on the timing, but eventually it may work)

  • If a girl is not tight , it makes it harder for me to come , and sex is not as much fun...

    I can make my Girlfriend come 3 times in 20 mins and I love to do it - but it really upsets her that she cannot make me come quickly and could be going at it a while..

    Hey ... it's blunt but honest

    Stal

  • try to make him stop masturbating and try to change things up with him like role playing.

  • Do more foreplay, and try different positions.

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