You can’t wait a few years? If someone isn’t willing to wait then…. They aren’t for you. People say stupid stuff like “well he may not be the one” what are you gonna get married in two weeks? You can’t wait a few years?
It’s men and women equally. I know some men and some women only blame the other sex.
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I hope you loose your mod you power tripping loser. Go take down the nude photos that I report and keep getting our back up
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Admit it. Most y’all wanna sleep around. Stop trying to make it into anything else.
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Since the anonymous coward blocked me here you go
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Then again. Sone people kill their children for convenience. They don’t want to deal with the consequences of having sex and they’re too cowardly to face it. Even adoption. A woman who kills her kids and doenst regret it. Must have the worst maternal instincts
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24 46Well, in the west, they aren't raised to have that value, the birth control pill allows women to have sex without pregnancy, the sexual revolution and feminism preach to have all of the sex you want, there are no consequences, it isn't unhealthy, there is nothing to keep unique for the spouse.
Don’t objectify women. But then encourage women to be sex objects. They want their cake and eat it too..: and more cake
Because they have the freewill to choose and not everyone holds traditional beliefs.
They can. I can choose to do a handstand and shit on my own face. Downst mean that’s in my best interests. Just because some people say it’s wrong doenst mean I can’t do it
People can say sex before marriage is wrong but everyone has different views on sex and marriage.
People can say doing a handstand and shitting on your face is wrong. But I have a right to do it
People have different views on poop. Some like scat play. Some like children. Some like animals. Just let people do as they wish right.
People CAN wait, but if they don't want to, for whatever reason, they should not be criticized. It's their life, to live the way they choose.
Says a notorious perv. We all know what you’re doing here Tom.
Give it a rest already. Stop creeping on people.
I don’t know who he is, what did I miss?
@Whitewulf Sticks and stones...
I guess so yes
Because I'm not gonna marry someone without knowing that we have a satisfying sex life. It's just as important as being able to have good conversations, same interests, humour and many other things. If I don't wait for those why should I wait for sex?
The whole no sex before marriage has a religious background. I'm not religious and I don't even know if I wanna get married. I'm living my own life and not whatever other people think I should do. If he doesn't want me because of that it's fine, then we're not meant for each other. I don't need to please all 4 billion men on this planet
The question is why wait?
If it's something religious to you it's ok but don't expect everyone else to do so please
Aah ok personal attacks as always
Stop being lukewarm or go to hell
What is wrong with you? Idiot! You clearly have a very sad and pathetic life! I feel sorry for you. Gave me a good laugh though. Good luck with the whole getting married thing!
@Samantha36 it seems you’re the one whose responding with anger. I am happy. There is plenty of good men and women out there who aren’t just whores. There is a lot of fun things to do that don’t involve sex. Maybe search up fun things to do and when you get the urge to sleep with someone. Go do something
I can not stand people that peach their beliefs on other people. My life is full of fun. Clearly more so than yours as my life is full of sex. 🤷♂️. Its your choice to not have sex but don't put down the people that think differently.
@Samantha36 I can say whatever I want. It seems if you can’t stand a certain kind of person. Maybe you should be less bigoted against Christian’s. Show the love and compassion you preach about.
I couldn’t wait a few months, never mind years. But then again I’m not religious
You have no self control.
Of course I do. I only have sex when I want.
I think it's a matter of values and perspectives rather than self control. Some people see sex as a vital part of a relationship, not just since marriage, and that's fine. Each couple have different perspectives and they can do as they choose to.
The last thing we should do is to judge others on their own lives. I too have sex before marriage, but I don't judge people who do save it afterwards.
@more_than_a_guy it s a vital part of a relationship after marriage. For most people who have casual sex. It’s not that vital. It’s getting their rocks off. Many times the type of people sleep with and who they want to marry are different. But you can’t have it both ways. Because if you cheat on someone you love and want to be with. They will leave you. And having two in one is disgusting
Not all people have casual sex, many couples with strong bond, yet not married, are having sex. Also, some people cheat, unfortunately, but it can be somebody who waited till marriage, or someone who didn't, it's not black or white.
@more_than_a_guy not as bad as a whore. Don’t make it right. You just wanna make excuses. I get it. You people. Stop trying to (pseudo) intellectualize everything. Just admit what you want. You just want to have sex because it feels good.
Firstly, It's one of the reasons, but not just that. Second, who are you to judge what is right or not for others?
There's literally no logical reason to wait, other than religious indoctrinations
So you're just asking why people are not behaving irrationally, really.
Yeah. STD’s. Pregnancies outside of marriage lots of reasons
If you're not born yesterday, you'd know that STD's are avoidable and people with half a brain rarely have sex with new people without protection Same with pregnancies, birth control, is actually a century old concept so you're still not making any sense If your logic was sound, Europe wouldn't have a population crisis
If you want to have a lot of sex partners. That’s your choice. But never expect a happy relationship. Also. Birth control fails. The only way to 💯 not get pregnant or get someone pregnant is being castrated…. Even if you did that. You can’t 💯 avoid STD’s
You're from middle school? ''Birth control fails'' Statisticly, it's extremely unlikely There's a chance you can be hit by a lightning under heavy rain too. And your castration argument is just flat out idiotic. And what gives you the idea that people with one sex partners get to have happy relationships? Because they sure as hell don't
I’m by far happier not being a man whore.
There two kinds of virgins. There are people who want sex and can’t get it and people who choose not to be a degenerate
You're not happy, a happy person would never be so pathetic
I am happy. I went bowling not long ago.
Has a great time. Go try it
Boring corporate slave game with no excitement whatsoever, anyone who likes it doesn't get to give advice on anything
You named it:
''People say stupid stuff''
I would not wait for something just because of some brainwash from ''the Man''.
And I claim the right to be my own master.
They really say the most retarded stuff and half the time don’t know what they even mean
If it goes up it must come down.
I’ve never had a serious relationship, so I never had chance tell a guy let’s wait for few years to have sex and marry. I’m 26 and still waiting for a guy to ask me to be his girlfriend for the first time.
You also can’t predict if the guy ur dating will marry u in future. So how u can even plan on getting married in few years? I don’t get it.
I thought it was just have a boyfriend and wait. And no clue what ur future or destiny will be. Just wait and see what happens with that boyfriend.
You can’t wait? Exactly. You don’t know if you’re going to get married. That’s the whole point of waiting. You can’t wait a few years until you find the one?
Wut if I find the one until 10 years? I’m 26 and not married.
Then wait a decade
You should try before you buy. Besides sex is fun.
Some people want to wait till marriage because they want to lose it to the person they marry in hope that person will be their forever.
But some people don't want to wait because they don't believe in it
Some people keep the same boyfriend the same girlfriend until they do get married, and they may choose to be sexually active in their 20s before marriage. That's university for ya lol 😂😆
It’s their life. We wonder why there is such a high percentage of divorce. People don’t look for love
I'd love the money making machine that supposedly is being a divorce lawyer or working in the divorce industry lol 😆 legit 👍
It's all about things being legal
Just because something is legal doenst make it right. California wants to legalize sex with children. In some countries bestiality is illegal. Illegal or not. People still do bad stuff. But just because something is legal doesn’t mean it’s right
You know. It wouldn’t be a bad path to take LOL
Everyone has their own values and beliefs whether it's no sex before marriage or having sex and not married with a partner. People need to respect one another's choices in life🙏
Because that sounds boring as fuck and sex is fun
There’s lots of ways to have fun. Try a amusement park or a vacation. Or just a walk at a park. Maybe to try a new food or something
Sounds like you are frustrated because you don’t have a partner. It you worried about yourself as much as what you think other people are doing you would be in a much better place
Pah! This anonymous question asker thinks he has authority over our sexual business.
You have to make sure you're both completely compatible together. That means inside and outside of the bedroom
That seems dumb, how do you know if you’re even compatible then.
Good question…. You build a strong romantic bond. You share a lot of the same values and interests. The things you can’t agree on you agree to disagree if it’s not something worth breaking up over. You grow as people together. Until you get married. Then you have sex.
But all you seem to care for is sex. So.
Yeah but I wasn’t talking about any of that I was specifically referring to the sex, you don’t know if you’re compatible until after you’re already sealed the deal which seems dumb to me these are important things to explore FIRST and it’s missed opportunities , it can work for some people that got lucky in the compatibility department, but it still all seems kinda dumb to not fully know the person first.
You know religion. Politics. Romance. There is a lot more important things. What if a guy line someone else says. Doesn’t want a woman because she won’t preform oral sex. Does he really love her?
That’s preferences, in some relationships oral sex is a must for the guy, even if he does love her, he won’t stay or it wouldn’t be fair for him to stay and then miss out. They just wouldn’t be compatible. It’s not really a matter if he loves her or not people have needs and fantasias.
Really? If one sex act is so important you leave someone. Guess what? He is a shitty person
Having a strong bond. Then having sex later. That’s a million times better. But people like you use these Low IQ arguments. Just admit you want to fuck around and be a whore.
This is just low IQ arguments
Because you don’t have to be married to have sex.
Don’t have to. But should
Why?
Let me guess. You're some religious fanatic, right?
I am Christian. Absolutely. People who wait until marriage are usally a lot more fulfilled. That’s why you seem so triggered. Is you know your life sucks.
Dude, I have a 160 IQ, AND boyish good looks at 70 (something I daresay YOU'LL never have, bud !!!). Anyone can live or believe as they choose, if they don't force if on anyone or judge others.(Think there's something in the Bible about the latter.) My life doesn't suck, pardner, you're just looking to trigger someone who doesn't share your beliefs.