Why did this guy last so long in bed?

Yes this is a weird question. The guy I am dating lasted roughly 2 hours in bed. We hasn’t hard the whole 2 hours and he struggled with keeping it up. We were having a lot of fun and he wasn’t drinking at all (or on any medication). He did wear a condom but had to take it off (because of the hard, not hard, hard variances). He eventually orgasmed after jacking off. Why did he last so long?
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  • Was the room in complete darkness, or were you getting bad eyesight, as when he was hard he was inside you, when he was soft he was using a silicone dildo , and when semi hard he was probably inside you trying to get hard, then he orgasmed, but really I think he was on drugs when having sex, as you can get like that, was he sweating, he wasn't drinking alcohol, but drugs like (speed) cocaine do that to guys, that's why he was hard, then soft, then after 2 hours he came, his mind was drifting away, and he really wanted to make his mind think get hard, as he was really thinks he is horny, and gets frustrated, so his mind switching off then switched on , you shoul ask him x

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  • There could be many reasons.
    1. Well i kinda i doubt that its number 1 because its if you can actually control your orgasm in certain positions, but you said he came while jerking off.
    2. He was way too nervous.
    3. He jerked off before having sex with you, some guys do that to last longer.
    4. I hope its not that. He doesn't find you attractive anymore or in general
    There are plenty more reasons. But hey if you enjoyed it and you came at least 2 times in this whole 2 hours, don't stress it :)

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  • From what you said it didn't seem like it was all that great since he kept losing his erection and had to jackoff to orgasm. So that's why he lasted so long because nothing was stimulating him good enough

    • Yes but that would not necessarily be the ladies fault

    • @triff it would be both of their faults in my book

    • I will accept that then x

  • Oh wow the most I've lasted is like an hour and a half maybe. Sounds like a stressed out sex session 🤭🤭

    • Haha really? The worst part is... I didn’t orgasm. Yeah we need a re-do! Haha

    • Next time, play with your clit while he's banging you and you should cum.

    • Dang girl, no way!

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  • Sounds like a little performance anxiety to me. Just relax and let it happen. Did he satisfy you?

    • No he didn’t (didn’t orgasm). He kept switching positions and I didn’t get to entirely enjoy it but it was still enjoyable if that makes sense

    • That makes sense. Just all that skin coming together is its own reward, boo?

  • You should ask him what he likes what not in bed. He may struggled with something that wasn't stimulating enough for him. He sure finds you attractive because he did had sex with you, but there might have been something that turned him off. That or he was tired.

  • He may have been nervous or maybe he had jacked off earlier. Next time don't rush into the sex. Try more foreplay and get him close to an orgasm with your hand or mouth then have sex. Was he a virgin?

    • No he isn’t a virgin. This was our 4th time having sex. There was a lot of foreplay. I don't know if he jacked off earlier.

    • It may have just been a one time thing. Was it different the other times you had sex with him?

    • He lasted probably 10-15 mins the other times but this time was wild. He did lose his erection a few times during the 2 hours so I don’t know why that happened

  • As some people have early ejectulatin So can some have prolonged Its probably not always wanted and can be quite frustrating Perhaps medication could have been used in the past Not a good idea taking the condom off They ar designed to stretch

  • Well every guy can go different lengths of stamina. 2hrs of masturbation isn't uncommon for me at all and i last much longer. But dunno if that would reflect when it comes to sex. But i hope it does. Either way everyone is different when it comes to it.

  • Clearly he has ED. At your age, any guy with ED has a major porn addiction problem combined with masturbation, but it's the porn that is mostly responsible.

    A guy can frequently masturbate, but imagination has limits. Enter porn... it supercharges the imagination and men go deeper and deeper into kink until nothing really gets him off mentally anymore. It's the brain that controls the excitement, which in turn controls the erections and ability to orgasm.

    • I feel I should also add that type of ED is very fixable. Stop the porn and masturbation, and he will be back to the normal performance standard for his age.

  • Because He watches way to much porn.

    • Sad but true but its not always that

  • many guys are able to last longer. if they release their built up load roughly an hour or so before having sex. because their not nearly as sensitive to it. plus the condom does reduce sensitivity as well. which can make him last longer.

    but can also not feel as pleasurable in the long run.

  • Maybe he was under stress to preform?

  • The longer you go without having sex or knocking yourself off, the longer your stamina can be. Which can mean nervousness too. Once you are in the rhythm of having sex, it becomes harder to just be stale and hard for too long.

  • I don't think it's about stress I have huge issues to cum sometimes it can take easily 1/2hours

  • Maybe he was nervous.

  • good stamina. some guys do

  • He probably injected into the condom in between, which is why it wasn't hard in the meantime.🤷‍♂️

  • Wow there could be lots of things going on.
    Stress, lack of feeling in his member ,
    Your pussy to loose, ( not saying it is ) prostate issues,
    Nervous, not feeling it that day,
    Nerve damage in his penis.
    Mental control ,
    Not knowing his method of jacking off I'm not sure what his way of simulation of the nerve endings to excite him to explode. Was he half hard when he ejaculated?

    • He was jerking off so I don’t know if he was hard, but I think he was

    • Yeah true lots of variables in that. I can cum jacking off half hard but it has to be done right and at a fast pace.

    • Might ask what he was thinking about while jacking off. That make a difference too.

  • He had sex one night before so his prostate muscles couldn't contract easily

  • Wish I had that problem

    • Really? It was so nice if I’m being completely honest with you. I’m just worried that he might have a health issue or something

  • Is your P ok after playing two hours

  • I don't know

  • You are lucky. I got discharged even after kissing.

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