Why do bisexual girls always like me?

I’m not homophobic, first of all. But I don’t want to date them because I feel disgusted that they’ve been with women before. I’m not into them, yet I keep attracting girls like that. It’s always a turnoff.

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  • Oh my god, are you me? I don't have any alt-accounts here on GAG, I swear!

    Besides the love of my life, almost every girl who's been into me, has been the pseudo-lesbians you speak of in this post. hey gross me out too, and to me, there's literally no difference between them and "actual" lesbians. They're all gay to me. The ones who pretend to "still like guys" are as big of dykes, as the honest lesbians who admit they don't.

    Also, I think there's an unspoken thing to where if a girl who likes girls, likes you, she's admitting she thinks you're effeminate/girly/beta/a bitch. So the weekend lesbians not only repulse me on one level, but they offend me on another, implying I'm womanly if they take an interest in me.

    I've said it before on GAG, but I was heartbroken when I found out my first would-be girlfriend I thought I was dating, revealed herself to be "bi" (aka, "carpet-munching dyke.") I felt like such a fool for being gaslit and used by a lesbian. I thought she actually took an interest in me and was attracted to me, not gay.

    I have no idea why all you keep attracting are lesbians. All I can say is, I 100% know exactly how you feel and want to have nothing to do with a lesbian either, regardless what she calls herself!

    It's like, if they're gay, just go after women. Why do they gotta use, exploit, and gaslight men like this too? It's so annoying! I have no tolerance left for them.

    "I'm 'bisexual!' Simp to me and give me money or you're 'Homophobic!'"
    "I'm 'bisexual!' Simp to me and give me money or you're 'Homophobic!'"

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  • Sex likes and dislikes are personal, it’s totally fine u don’t like it. I have never dated a bisexual girl but it sounds kinda sexy to me. Have u given it a try? Why do u think they are attracted to u? Are you very open minded and adventurous personality wise?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Sugarcoat anyway you want. You are an insecure homophobe.

    • I’m not insecure. I just can’t look past their history.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Does it matter? Just let them be. They like you. That doesn't obligate you.

  • Maybe not bring it up?

    Sometimes girls try and come across as "bi" as they think it's a "turn on" for guys that she's a "nympho".

  • Your question contradicts itself. You say you're "not homophobic" but then you get "disgusted" by a woman whos' engaged in sex with another woman. Make up your mind. or acknowledge that you ARE hpmophobic.

    • @AviatorTom This is so fucking retarded, man. If a man doesn't have any interest in being with a woman who isn't attracted to men, because she openly states she's queer, then why how TF does that make him "homophobic?" I wouldn't want to date anyone who's queer, either. There's even lots of straight women I wouldn't want to date, including cheaters and sex workers. You're saying people are obligated to date others that they have no interest in, and even grosses them out? Okay, in that case, you need to fuck the next ten men you see in 24 hours or else, you're also homophobic and we can officially Cancel you and get you fired from your job. Since that's what you seem to believe.

  • Bisexuals don't have to date their own gender

  • Bro, pretty much all women are bisexual, except for the random Asexual female.

    • And pretty much all men with self-respect have no interest in being cucked and exploited by a lesbian. ANY man with self-respect would want a woman who's actually attracted to men. So while not all women are lesbians like you implied, many of them are. Like one-quarter to one-third, I'd say. I avoid those gross harpies at all costs!

  • You’re feminine.

  • The fuck is wrong with you dude?
    Is there anything hotter than a bisexual woman?

  • So you'd rather be with a girl whose been with masculine men with big dicks?