Well with my partner and I, we use the pull out method cause 1. We've tried so many times with a condom and everytime I put it on, he is never able to stay hard long enough for us to have sex. 2. I'm not on birth control and never will be. 3. We both want kids together someday so If I do get pregnant by accident, it won't be a big problem. And I also have the support of my mom. 4. For some reason, he doesn't seem to have any precum so makes it less scary for me to have sex without a condom with him
But, everyone has different reasons for doing the pull out method and I wouldn't recommend it if you seriously aren't ready for kids and you aren't in a long term relationship. Cause if an accident happens... 🤷🏽
I honestly think that some think it might work (if he pulls out quick enough, there's less risk of pregnancy). It's still a high risk. Actually, that might be why some do it: simply BECAUSE of the risk.
I used the pull out method a lot before my girlfriend got on birth control pills. Guys can do it easily because we have something called "the point of no return" which is a few seconds before we ejaculate but nothings going to stop it. So, when we reach the point of no return, pull out and squirt wherever. I used to squirt on her tummy.
Do u have to be experienced to pull out?
No. Every guy who ever had an ogasm knows what the point of no return is. BUT, it takes discipline and enough presence of mind during intercourse to realize that you need to pull out at the point of no return. Since we instinctively have sex to make babies and, well, pussy feels good, we want to stay in (and never want to leave) and squirt. And that's how babies get made! This can be a problem too because many women want us to stay in her during our ejaculation for both instinctive reasons and the sensation of his cumming in her. So, a guy needs discipline. It's not a good method of birth control. It is best if she is on the pill.
Why use the pull-out method? Because condoms suck and fucking feels much much better au naturel.
Wearing a condom, while necessary in some situations, is AWFUL. Try to imagine how much you'd enjoy a nice dinner while wearing a condom on your tongue, and you have a good idea of what having sex is like when wearing one. So, most of the time, it's done to avoid having to wear a condom.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!My husband will often pull out if he is really close and doesn't want to cum. I have a Mirena hormonal IUD so no worries.
Either the guy is very good at seducing or the girl is very stupid.
Occam's razor applies here. If you're doing something you shouldn't that's likely to cause pregnancy, the obvious explanation is that you actually do want the pregnancy.
Maybe even because everyone around you has been warning you for years about how badly it's going to screw up your life. However many years later, here you are terrified of grownup sex, and here you are without a family, while all the education and money and life experiences you were offered instead never seemed to materialize.
The thing is that it's mostly guys unfortunately, that come up with the excuse that a condom reduces the feeling, that it is not the same, that condoms are a sex killer and all those other excuses that are unfounded.
Fact is that the pull out method is the one presenting the least safety to women and should be avoided at all costs.
Even though, guys will tell that they will pull out on time and "don't you worry honey", they cannot control and feel when precum oozes out of the urethra, once the penis is in the firm grip of the vagina muscles.
The likelihood that precum contains live sperm is relatively small but definitely a risk not to underestimate.
Yes, most guys will pull out a second or 2 before they feel the ejaculation coming but that is usually too late because precum has already found its way into your vagina. You don't need a deep penetration and a drop, on the vulva, at the entrance of the vagina is potentially enough to get you pregnant.
There is an estimated 60 million sperms per milliliter of ejaculate. Do the math. In theory, enough sperms to populate an entire country and that for each milliliter of ejaculate. Knowing that the average ejaculation can contain up to 600 million individual sperms, you tell me what the risk is that you are taking with the pull out method.
Because guys seen it in porn and think that's what your supposed to do
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