Why do guys hold girls heads or hair when they're given a blowjob?

Just curious. Never really thought about it too much until someone pointed it out. I thought it was a natural thing to hold someone's head.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sometimes they do it for dominance and it comes out naturaly, sometimes because hairs enter the mouth and it's not a great experience when givving blowjobs and sometimes because girls look hot when they give bjs so they keep away the hair to see them.

  • It's about stimulation and for some of us, dominance.

Most Helpful Girls

  • so they can control our movements and they feel dominant when they hold our head and push cock deep. like face fuck

  • Dominant boys love control and that is one form of it.

    Why do guys hold girls heads or hair when they're given a blowjob?

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  • I dunno but the good 'ol Head Push is my signature move

  • Dominance.

    • I don't like it.

  • Its a commom mistake guys make

    • No mistake. 😈

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  • it gives us more control keeping their head still and it allows us to slide our d**ks deeper down the chick's throat. I usually instruct chicks to put their hands behind their back

  • Because he would look stupid with his hands just hanging down there.

  • I feel like it depends on the woman and at the moment how things are flowing. As the man we have to lead and be able to adjust based on situations. I say the man have to know when and with who.. some women at certain moments might want a man to grab her hair and fuck her mouth.. other women may just want you to rub your fingers through her hair and just caress her.. maybe even touching her face showing appreciation and being loving. So we have to know when to adjust at what moment in my opinion.

  • I mean, aside from a control thing, where else is he gonna put his hands lmao

  • stability

  • Balance and guidance... Just like I love when she does the same to me...

  • I wouldn't be holding her head down... but sometimes to hold their hair back so I get a visual treat too...

  • Usually it's one of two things, to be able to see her face while she's doing it or to push her head down as far as she can go, or a combination of both 🙂

  • It makes it easier to control speed of girl

  • What else are we going to do with our hands

  • It depends.

    If she's experienced, she might have asked him to show her what rhythm he likes. If it's a rhythm thing usually it doesn't involve the hair. Or perhaps it's a loving gesture, she likes to know she's appreciated.

    In porn, they do more hair grabbing for different reasons like fetishes. People who are afflicted with a strong gag reflex or inexperienced sometimes don't like it.

  • Most of the guys I've fucked, just like that. They can control the depth of the stroke. And I do feel like they love the power of dominating.

  • Cause of porn.