Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health WHY do guys insist so much on NUDES and than lose interest?
evelyne10 Xper 3
The internet dating world is so complicated. And sexed up. I'm a woman. So, EVERYTIME I talk to a guy, sex comes up in the conversation pretty fast, without me making any hints about it at all. If I refuse to respond to those hints, they leave the conversation soon and never talk again. And if I respond to sexual hints, it always leads to them asking for NUDESSS and sexually detailed pics. After a few days of headaches and him relentlessly begging for nudes like he's gonna be in great pain without them, I eventually give in and send some nudes. Soon after, 1-2 days, he TOTALLY loses interest, this happens more often. Or the "circus" prelongs some more time cause he wants nudes in all lights and places, he wants shots under the table at restaurants, videos of taking clothes off, etc, and I get really tired of the shit and ignore the guy. Are these guys really looking to date, or they just want to rub one off? if than, why don't they watch porn? Why do they have to do this filth to real women online who actually want a relation? What is in your head, guys? I am trying to understand the thinking behind this nudes thing, and I don't get it. You'll say well why do u send nudes? Well, I'm freakin lonely, some company would be nice, and it seems like I have no other option to have some company than this filth...
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 27Maybe you have ugly nudes
For a while I thought that too, but I don't think that's the problem, not in most cases anyway. Cause these guys saw pics with me with clothes or in bathing suit in my profiles, so how I look naked shouldn't really be a shock.
well I'd stick dating to the real world if I were you because there are a lot of men who are pigs out there and not gentlemen
I never lost interest after getting nudes
Talking online is safe and non committal, you want a relationship to develop passed pictures then meet up and go on a date. otherwise it's just a little online flirting fun
Cause they're the scumbags that give all guys this bad reputation that most of us actually dont have. Why they do it... prolly to show thier friends or just brag that they can. Do they gain anything from it? Fuck no
guys who sext don't really know what they want all that often and usually either whiteknight hoping to get lucky or play the field as much as possible trying to find the One. guys who choose the second option will almost always lose interest unless they fall in love like right the fuck away. this doesn't happen none too often, but good lord they try. i would maybe try mixing up how you meet your guys or just come to terms with the fact that men are generally horny assholes most of the time and are really only good to sext with for a quickie, if they're cool, or if they're local.
They are just some horny bastards that try to get some action. They prolly ask so many girls for nudes at the same time and when a girl says "no" they rotate to the next.
He just wants to jerk it