Why do guys invite you to their house and are low key about wanting to have sex with you?

Why do some guys just invite you to their house, pretending they just want a convo with u? but at the same time they say they want you and, how you can go to their bedroom. (which it obvious they want sex) why can't they just straight up admit it. Do they expect girls to go there thinking they will agree to have sex all of a sudden?
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  • Because if they did you won't come

  • Yes. Yes they do. And they're asking themselves the same question about women who don't tell you what's wrong or what they want for your birthday.

  • not that lucky. not me in anyway

  • Yo, wanna have sex? .. does not sound too romantic.

  • Because the same girl who will have sex with you if she's at your house will say no if asked directly. Cause y'all hate truth

  • I honestly don't know. I'm always honest with every girl I am with, because I know that a lot of girls think like you do. Society tries to paint a picture that girls don't think about sex, when quite often, girls even think about it more than men. This is probably why men are "subtle" about it. They probably think they can get you into bed, if you don't expect it and have to make a decision on the spot. I think it's a really lame move, but some girls prefer it that way. Those girls wouldn't like me. XD

  • Some girls are easy like that 😉

    • How are they easy like that tho? They clearly might think it's innocent of a guy inviting them over sometimes.

    • Ok sorry

    • I'm not having a go, I'm just saying 😂

  • I think it is a code who both of them understand. Imagine this, a girl say to her friend: Would you like to have sex at my house? Strange, right? Imagine the same question from a guy. I think the problem is the taboo about sex that most of girls have. I have no problem if a girl invites me to have sex with her (obviously I will choose if I want or not)

    • Change who for that, say for says, and I don't know if I have more mistakes at my text.

  • We dont want to be too creepy about it.

  • because if the come out and ask most women will call them perverts and slap them.

  • I think it happens on both ends, but overall is a combination of insecurity and being ashamed to just be honest and upfront... To bad it takes most people until they are older to realize most people want the same thing and you should just be upfront and honest of your interest and intentions in the first place...

  • They have no game. Put yourself in a womans shoes. And I don't mean what society says girls want. Ask yourself what would you need to have sex with you if you were the girl in question.

  • I don't know but that’s what it seems like, all guys mostly want sex just like women do but we also want a connection

  • Yes there is mutual agreement... But no one admit 😅

  • Cause its like being on a hunt first you gotta lure the prey into ur trap

  • They try not to be obvious hoping she don't notice the bedroom and it be like a achievement to say: "I got a girl into my house" or it could be there parents house.

  • sometimes we just do not want to come out straight with it. especially if it is in a friendship situation. i would not want to ruin the friendship so i will feel the air first.

  • I don't remember which searcher said that but he proved that when a person talk to somebody of the other gender, he always think about the possibility to sleep with this other person.
    Eitherway, males and females are so different, many people think they can't be just friends with the other gender.
    More about that, men don't wanna show they're juste here for sex, they wanna have a cool attitude, this kind of thing, that they're so strong, they got so much, and they did so much... well. This is a layout that I see often. Males try to prove they are good to keep the women with them, and so the females are in adulation to them.

  • I don't know but that’s what it seems like, all guys mostly want sex just like women do but we also want a connection

  • Most cases to hangout a bit and talk you into to having sex

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