Why do guys like virgins so much?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

For me, there is nothing attractive or unattractive about virginity. I place zero value in it. The whole concept is stupid. But it wouldn't turn me off if a girl who liked me a lot and whom I liked a lot was a virgin, as long as she wasn't saving it for marriage or something.

If she didn't want sex, I wouldn't stick around for too long because being in a relationship means trust, dedication, and giving yourself completely with a goal of making the relationship work and hopefully become permanent. Unrestrained, voracious infatuation is one of the best experiences ever.

Relationships don't always work out, but neither do marriages. So expecting a state of virginity to guarantee a successful marriage is naive. There is much more to creating a successful relationship/partnership.

In the end, virginity is unimportant. At least to me.

summiter · Accepted Answer

It is an honor to someone's first and to make the experience enjoyable and memorable.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

They like the idea that she hasn't been with other guys, which makes her more special, and just for him.

She's inexperienced, pure, innocent, and he will be the one introducing her to everything for the first time. It's a way to be reminded of the novelty of first experiences. Once you know things, you can't unknow them. But you can experience them again, sort of, through someone else's eyes who hasn't.

At its worst it can also be possessive, that the guy competes with other guys. Or it can tap into the twisted mind of a pedophiliac.

Sarahplus2 · Accepted Answer

Most times it bothers them to know there might have been a dozen guys before them.

laurieluvsit · Answer

One of two reasons. 1. They are ready for marriage and want a virgin girl, or; 2. They like the challenge of being the first one to pop her cherry.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

We don’t

Red_Arrow · Answer

Maybe because the are tight.

Sour-rose · Answer

Easy to manipulate, bang now, then again... then later if he can control them. And if there's a baby? do it again without the baby to another virgin

Berethor · Answer

Because virgin girls are the opposite of hos, and guys don't want to raise other guy's offspring.

normalice · Answer

Men are easily intimidated by what they don't know about each other. A girl who has boned other men knows something about them that future men won't, which could frighten those future men. Guys usually grow out of this in their late 20s, though..

Rania05 · Answer

The joy of being the first in something? 😳

mrmonogamous · Answer

I’ve only ever had one virgin. I took her virginity at the same time she took mine. Even if I was young and single, I don’t think that would be something I would look for n a woman. There’s something to say about experience!

JessicaEarl · Answer

So they can sacrifice them to dragons

hyperben · Answer

tightness, inexperience - you could be terrible and they wouldn't know any different. virgins aren't that great really, i mean everyone was one once but its not that great!