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Sexual Health Why do guys never want to use condoms?
ladywiththequestions Xper 4
I'm (partially) serious asking this question... does in GENUINELY feel better? Aren't guys afraid of getting a woman pregnant? or getting a disease? As a lady person, I can honestly say that I can't really feel all that big of a difference with or without a condom.
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12 48luckily for me-i don't plan on having sex til i'm married.
I never do it without one myself nevet
You can get thin condoms not as strong but feel better
Cuz they suck, I can barely feel anything through them
If she's on the pill it should be fine. There's always other things you can do too.
As long as you're both clean then disease isn't a problem
I'm not opposed to not using a condom with someone I trust... but I've heard that people lie about their status all the time. And asking people to show me some valid tests can be daunting. I'm on birth control because I dont like having periods... but the whole disease thing is alarming to me. I guess you shouldn't be having sex with someone you suspect to be dirty anyways lmao
I think it feels better
It feels get without condoms... both gets pleasure...
To me there's 3 draw backs to condoms I've had
1. They take away some of the feeling
2. They sometimes suffocate my cock if there not magnum or large condoms
3. They dry out
And bonus a cum in a vagina looks better than cum in a condom
Ooooooh kay... Noted!
Lol why the long oh
It like wearing rubber gloves when you hold hands or sticking Saran Wrap on your face before you kiss.
I can feel the difference
When my partner and I started dating we always used condoms. Everyone should at first. To prevent STDs. When the relationship become serious and long-term, i started taking the pill, because we both didn't like the feel of condoms. Plus, when you're horny, it kills the mood having to stop to put a condom on lol
It does feel better. My girlfriend and I were both virgins so there was no risk (still isn't with hw) of STDs. Also since I got a vascetomy she also can't get pregnant. So we don't use a condom at all.
Feels much better without
I lose interest in sex when putting on a condom, I don't sleep with someone that I would mind if we accidentally had a kid
Then you loose interest in STD and unwanted pregnancy. Act responsible and have a condom with you.
No I don't sleep with gross woman or sluts. I'm fine.
Yes, it feels a lot different.
Unless there's another birth control, I would worry.
Disease, depends on the partner and how stable we are together.
True in one way or another. Still I would always do a STD checkup to make sure she can feel safe, when the condom breaks or when we avoid it.
So when I first started having sex without condoms I would always say I couldn't feel the different and recently I hookup with an ex who we never really ever used condoms and during it there wasn't that much of a difference but after I felt different. Like I felt too clean lol i know that is weird but it just felt like i went through the motions and feels of sex but not the after feeling of enjoying the "dirtiness" that just happened. Lol
It feels better for men and women but unless both people have had labs and they aren't sleeping with anyone else (and they don't fear a pregnancy) that's about the only time no condoms should be a thing.
No idea, all I know is that I refuse to have sex with a man that won’t wear a condom
At the first time is okay to ask for a condom but later, in a LTR and he is tested? Na, I would certainly miss that kind of intimate trust being inside her pussy "raw".
I’m not risking getting pregnant for that.
You won't get THAT quickly pregnant, you can wash your pussy together with your boyfriend out. It worked with my then-girlfriend very well. We made love with no condom 4-5 times per day in our hot phase and she was still not pregnant. And I'm (again) tested negative on all common STD.
I don’t care. I’m not taking that risk.
And you still can get pregnant if you wash your genitals after, please educate yourself 🤦🏻♀️ www.plannedparenthood.org/.../after-sex-without-a-condom-if-the-female-washes-out-her-vagina-with-hot-water-and-soap-can-she-still-get-pregnant
It is not just washing, but deep flushing with a shower, but move on. I'm not interested in you anyway.
Again, that doesn’t work and that will literally disrupt the natural vaginal bacteria and cause infections bro what the hell I beg you do at least do some online research. ‘I’m not interested in you anyway’ thank the good lord above 😂
https://www.womenshealth.gov/a-z-topics/douching
Honestly please do read up on some of those articles to educate yourself a little on women’s health because it’s clear you have no idea how harmful what you’re suggesting is. I’m not saying that to be petty or rude I’m just saying that the fact you thought that it was okay to do that is disturbing.
Then I wonder what other "miracle" has made her not pregnant but when she was here, she got pregnant on the very first day (s) of her arrival here, even before our marriage?
I know for the fact about douching a pussy/vagina isn't good for her PH value (~3.5-4.8 is healthy). But it fixes itself after some time and we were not flushing it every hour with a tons of water.
Like I said, you can still get pregnant and it can still cause infections. Infections don’t ‘fix themselves’ either, they require medical attention. It literally tells you in that article that it does not decrease the chances of getting pregnant. Honestly man, it doesn’t matter if you’re not flushing it out every hour, doing it ONCE is enough to cause damage, please for the sake of my sanity. EDUCATE YOURSELF.
I am not putting myself at risk of pregnancy and infections because he doesn’t want to wear a condom. No condom, no sex. Simple as. If he doesn’t like that then he can go be with someone else. Because I am NOT screwing up my health and well-being all because some guy can’t wrap it up.
And good for you, but just because she doesn’t get pregnant doesn’t mean she won’t in the future. And honestly the fact that you’re willing to let her put herself at risk of infections says a lot about you.
I never said that, that you should. Read my initial comment: >At the first time is okay to ask for a condom but later, in a LTR and he is tested? Na, I would certainly miss that kind of intimate trust being inside her pussy "raw".< And I know infections don't go easily away by themselves. I am sex-educated and as I already showed you, I even know your PH value: 3.5-4.8. But how about bathing or swimming? Won't water come in your vagina (and in swimming halls with added chlorine)?
I'm not crazy to forcibly push tons of water in her pussy, no! That can hurt a lot. And I'm not putting her willing at risk. I explain all in advance what I know about sex, then it is still her choice. Still, after some time, I want no condom because I want to feel her pussy directly on my penis. It is so intimate to do.
Na, for me "she" of course. I'm straight.
And you suggested douching after sex with out a condom. Just because you know the balance doesn’t mean you are educated because I literally just had to explain to you why it’s not good... and no water does not get inside the vagina when swimming or showering unless you force it there purposely.