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  • I have never struggled but I do often hear story's. Honestly it's simply because men don't inherently have boobs so they need not know how to manage a bra from youth. That being said men should educate themselves at least a bit on how to take a bra off I mean it's not hard it's just a few clasps that hook In literally a diagram would be just as easy to learn from. I can see where men may struggle with larger Brest sizes though due to the weight increase if done one or two at a time on the individual clasp but that's typically why those are either unclasped all at the same time or a minimum of two at a time so it's just either one fluid motion or two motions and done. Also knowing the one handed snap trick is nice but can take time to hone. Yes there is some practice needed. I guess to really answer your question it really comes down to sexual experience and simply being around women enough. If you see a guy struggling teach him some stuff so that way you can have things done easier if you really have issue with the struggle. Well that's my two cents about it.

  • For whatever reason, they lack motivation.

    Me? I was always VERY motivated, so I quickly learned to get them off with ease - to the point that it was a running joke with several girlfriends about how I could get them undone by "magic" (i. e., without her even realizing I was doing it).

    • What was your secret?

    • @BillieJean1070 Mostly I could give her a hug and pop the hooks through her clothes while I did so without her realizing it. Then when I let go, suddenly her boobs were loose... :)

    • I used to do that too! A quick hug and... boing!

Most Helpful Girls

  • They don't, though. Not all, at least. My boyfriend had a bit of an issue with removing my bra in our first few weeks together. Now he can get it off without much trouble using just one hand.
    Practice makes perfect. ;)

  • Some of them are harder to remove.

    Bras for large-busted women have a lot of hooks on them, over half a dozen in some cases.

  • Because they don't have to deal with bras every day.

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  • Sometimes they try to do it in awkward positions that can make it more difficult and you have to remember that they don't wear bra's..

    so it's understandable that they might not get it always.

  • Because they don't wear them?

  • They haven't perfected the one hand take off.

  • They should take lessons from my boyfriend. Lol one hand reach around and snap, gone. Lol I struggle with thinking about the practice he got.

    • Have you ever tried to trip him up by wearing a bra with a front closure?

    • @BillieJean1070 yup. Lol. While they DJ require both his hands, He actually prefers them. Says something about instant gratification.

    • *do not DJ

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  • they are a pain in the ass to get unhooked. esp when your young and inexperienced. If you didn't wear one every day, never touched a bra, then had to take it off someone, while you have an erection, while hormones are raging and while your nervous as hell because things are headed where you want but didn't think they would... I think you might have an issue also...
    the front clasps are worse...

  • Probably because they don't wear one themselves.

  • Because they don't need to taking off a girl's bra to have sex and because it's better for girl to not wear bra in the first place, bra in not healthy. :)

    https://www.brafree.org/

    • I mean "is not healthy".

  • We normally don't do it to often and a guy might be nervous or very excited which can make our hand shake.

  • They don't know what they are doing.

  • More practice needed ;)

  • depends how rough we're being.

    if we're really into it, I'll rip her fucking clothes right off her.

  • Lol I assume it's because guys don't wear bras so the only practice we'd get is in the moment and that leads to struggling.

  • Because we don't wear them every day. In fact, we don't wear them ever.

  • They're just inexperienced. I used to really fumble around doing that but I've gotten much better. Guys have to learn about those hooks.

  • there are sever reasons. one we only get to practice when we are under pressure. to also no 2 clasps seem to be the same, example: are there 2 or 3 clasps, is one clasp slightly bent and unhooks harder than the rest. also when it does unhook i dont want it to slip and snap you. on ya one other thing if i happen to have cold hands i try not to shock you with them on your back

  • That's good! It means they aren't experienced enough to know how to yet. Lol.

  • Because I've never strapped a bra on myself and so I wouldn't naturally know how to take it off.

  • It's not like we've been fastening and unfastening one several times a day practically every day since adolescence, duh.

    If you're so skilled, why do girls have to put them on backwards to do them up, before twisting them around and pulling them up?

    • Not all girls put them on backwards to put them on and from childhood we practice to put them on I can put mine on using one hand. all guy need us some help/practice then they won't struggle my boyfriend struggled a bit but I helped him and I never got iritated and he can undo the fasps we easily now

  • I just bite it off like a high test brah

  • They're playing dumb. All men secretly have a bra they practice with on themselves.

    • The angle is different for taking your own off vs someone else taking it off.

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