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Sexual Health Why do guys think they have a say on abortion?
JaneFryer_1998 Xper 7
Our bodies, our choices. Thats that.
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For those saying abortion is murder, we live in a society where we aren't charged with murder if we get one. Thinking it is murder is your views and not a fact or law. Also thats not what this is even about. Never debated abortion itself, rather than that of men having a say. The main reason I asked this is because of laws that were made in 2019 on abortion, all the lawmakers where white men.
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What Girls & Guys Said
26 147No objections, but at the same time, if you decide to keep a child he isn't interested in fathering, then you assume all the risk and hardships that follow.
You see that swors has two edges that cut. You remove the others say, you assume sole responsability.
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When woman just want to annoy men they say this. When in reality, not having to pay child support and deal with an annoying psycho such as yourself is a blessing for men.
If the child is born and somehow u got divorced, then the guy has to pay the child support, so if we are equally responsible for the birth of that kid, then we too should have our say innit. Decision should be mutual plus abortion is simply murder and cruel (given, you don't have any valid reason for that)
Watch dark mirror season 2 ep 4 ig (White Christmas), u'll have a bit insight on what is it like for a man in that situation.
I'll tell you what I said in the last choice. While it is the woman's body and we should respect their decision to do what they want with their body, at the same time the baby is also ours as much as it is the woman's. We should at least have some input and the woman should hear the man out and take what he says into consideration especially if they are together. Though ultimately the decision still will be left up to the woman.
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@insecuregirl1760 you'rewelcome though I don't know what you're thanking me for.
And what if the decision turns out not as you want it? Imagine if she baby trapped you. The argument of a woman having more say is ridiculous as we are supposed to take care of the child if we are or aren't ready. So we are forced to do it despite not wanting to. If the woman wants to have a child, then that's fine. There should be a legal system that allows the father to make his decision to be in the child's life or not if the woman chooses to keep it.
Yes exactly, I'd make her sign a legal agreement stating the I would no longer be responsible for the care of the child. It's not unheard of for these type of agreements.
Sounds good to me
They can but the woman should have the final choice
scary stuff and you can't take it back
Ummmmmm because it's the guy's baby too. Just because you walk around with it for 9 months doesn't mean that the guy doesn't have a say. It takes 2 to make the kid. Are you trolling?
are you kidding "just 9 months" its not just walking around being pregnant it changes your body and for some it can be extremely painful, not including childbirth
Alright, maybe I was a bit harsh with how I worded that, even though I didn't say "just". Either way, after the baby is born, both the lives of the potential dad and mom changes completely, so both should have a say.
well im talking about before the baby is born, and you did say "just" at the start of the 2nd sentence lol
Well reality exists after the baby is born too, based on decisions made before the baby is born. I think the guy and girl should come to an agreement. The guy'll have to pay child support if the baby is born, so his opinion shouldn't be void in my opinion.
It might be your body, but you don't get to decide whether you want to keep the baby or not. The baby isn't your possesion, without a man, there is no baby. WOmen and men have a say in it, it's not just only women. Men and women need each other to get a baby.
My body, my choice
IF IF IF IF you believe that abortion is equivalent to killing a baby then why would a man not want to protect his baby?
Oh, so we don't have a choice? Fine. Then you don't get my cum.
Exactly. Why do guys care that their baby is being killed?
The guys who disliked your comment didn't pick up on the sarcasm lol
@TruthBringer I am sure they didn't
@TruthBringer but look how many guys upvoted this question
Lol link your question here do they will understand your sarcasm 🤣🤣🤣
I'm a woman, I understand the sarcasm and I up-voted this. Lol.
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the baby isn’t your body. That’s that.
No clue. The only thing i can think of is if they are tge father but even then they dont have the go through the 9 months of pregnancy and then give birth to it and then feed it. So they really don't have much have a say about it unless she wanted to keep it and wanted his financial support
exactly!!
Pretty simple really lol
Is their sperm your sperm. Or is their sperm their sperm? If their sperm is their sperm then how come their sperm becomes your sperm when their sperm joins with your egg?
i have nothing against them , but you will never know if your child will bring miracle to your life on future
https://www.mirror.co.uk/sport/football/news/cristiano-ronaldos-mother-admits-considered-6770095
If there is mutual consent that the baby shall be aborted, so be it. Both parents are emotionally attached to the foetus.
Well some guys think they have a say in everything.
My sperm my DNA my baby my choice that's that.