Why do guys try to hide their boners?

why do guys try to hide them so much? How do they feel? Is it awkward? Do they think we're going to laugh?
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So... If they're so awkward, is it embarrassing to have one in front of your gf/wife? Or does she just accept it
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I tend to wear full length coats outside and sit at a desk at work, so the worst that happens usually is I have to stay at my desk a few minutes longer than I would normally. At home I don't care, if my wife sees my boner it just gives her an excuse to have a grope (not that she needs one).

    The only time it's really bad is in the swimming pool. It can happen, especially because their tends to be in shape ladies not wearing very much around. There've been a few times where I've just had to sit at the shallow end and hope nobody is looking at my crotch underwater. Fortunately these days most of the time I'm swimming pretty hard and men don't get boners when they are doing intensive exercise.

    The worst 'inconvenient moment' I had was at a job interview when I was 19, as much as a tried to make it go away I'd hit 'full sail' by the end of the interview when I had to get up and shake the hand of the woman who was interviewing me, it felt so obvious she can't have missed it...

    Got the job though!

  • Totally not awkward at all.
    Why?
    Why would you think so?
    https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BsdToP_IYAAM0AS.jpg

    • Okay yeah, maybe it's awkward

    • At least she doesn't have to wonder if he really likes her...

    • @zagor hahaha, they know it instantly about men lol

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  • They probably feel a bit embarassed about it... gl hiding it though xD

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  • But of course it's awkward! You can't imagine the shame when i have a big boner and the fucking teacher asks me to go write something on the board! It happened to me before and it was a shitty situation oh my god... I kept acting like i was asleep and didn't hear him until the whole class started calling my name.

    • Then what happened? Did you have to do it and did anyone see?

    • Since it was a stressing situation, my sexual arousal faded fast. And when i went up to the board, my dick was hard but not that hard. I bet they saw it but no one laughed or even mentioned it. I'm glad i study with mature people. But it's still shameful.

    • Yeah... I hate when someone immature points something secret out

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  • I've been in this situation before back when I was in middle school. When I was in my art class, a few of my classmates wanted me to show off my cock only for them to see how big it was. I felt shy & I was sweating in my face along with me having the feeling that I was going to wet myself. Thank goodness that did not happen. My boner was a big one during that moment.

  • I like having my print on my pants

    • So some men don't like to hide it?

    • Why would I?

    • Because? I don't know

  • It's pretty embarassing to realise that other people can see that you're aroused!

    • But most of the time it happens for no reason, am I right?

    • Yes lol, a guy can get one randomly mostly. But it can also happen when you're talking to girls, so that's a sure sign that guy finds you attractive lol (dont look to obvious at it)

    • Lol it's kind of funny to be honest

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  • Boners are really embarrassing. It's uncomfortable and awkward to have in public because it's a very intimate thing for a guy.

    • Lol haha why is it so intimate?

  • I guess kinda scared of being labeled a perv or something.

    • But it's natural so it's not perverted

  • Because a number of people call them creepy if they don't.

    • But why It's natural right?

    • It's 100% natural but some people seem to think a guy 'switches on' his boner with a purpose. In fact, a boner shows a guy thinks about sex. But why? Because someone makes him think about it. Few guys will get boner when they see a walrus or a jelly fish or a piece of furniture.

  • Well its kinda embarracing to be walking in the streets with one, I would mind, but other people will not like it.

    • Why would they look there anyway? It's not like it's that obvious

    • It can be painfull too. Depends of cloths...

    • And some old ladies would spank me for disrespect...

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  • Many girls find it rude, especially on first or second date, or random girls. Just imagine it, boss goes to his secretary for some paperwork with a huge boner... Or you have first date with a nice guy and he has a visible boner.. so awkward, and it ruined many good dates to many guys who could not hide it.

  • in front of gf/wife, i don't hide. i wants to run around the home in front of my girl ;-)

  • After you get well into your 20's they don't tend to pop up unexpectedly as much.

    • But what if they do Sometimes? Are you still embarrassed about it?

    • I guess it would suck if I was giving a presentation in front of a bunch of people, but I don't do that in my job anyway. If I get one at my desk I just keep working and it goes away.

  • It's embarrassing at times.
    In a social environment it's awkward.
    As far as laughing, I don't have an answer for that

  • I never have or thought about doing it we all know we get them from time to time..

  • well obviously they'll be embarrassing in front of people that I'm not getting sexual with... with a girl I'm having sex with, she can see my boner all she wants...

  • I swear it's embarrassing & makes me feel awkward. I can't walk with a boner in public places except I have something to cover it

    • How long does it take to go back down?

    • Could be mins could be 10 mins

    • And it can keep happening lol

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  • why you try to hide your boobs? it is the kind of the same.

    • That makes a lot of sense. Now I understand

  • We do it way more than we should like even a few weeks into a good relashionship we feel bad about it and most girls talk shit about them say how small it is and they do Laff the only time they don't is we they r a distance away looking and they don't think anyone sees her doing it but a lot of girls Laff the first time they c it with there boyfriend we have been up down by u girls and don't feel confertable with it

  • I heard girls get offended by it.

  • To me;having it in public is a very very awkward and silly thing! And sure i feeel so shy even if it arouses without my control; i wish it doesn't have a feature like that lol... Sometimes put us in difficult and awful situations...

  • Imagine if you got random wet spots in your pants from arousal, would you be embarrassed and try to hide it?

    The big difference is the guy doesn't need to be sexually aroused to get a boner.. for me riding in a vehicle can give me an erection from the vibrations of the road... and it doesn't want to go away any time soon

    • OMG that would be so embarassing

    • I remember riding the bus to high school and every time I would get an erection the entire drive to the school which was about 30 minutes haha

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