It is their choice to have as many partners, some girls like gangebang, so no problem
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JouthExplorer
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slut
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Mahmoud_MadyanXper 5
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Just because who wants sex without relationship is a bitch!!
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Katya98
+1 y
What difference does it make to you how other people live?
Mahmoud_Madyan
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I don't care about how the other live, I will not insult her in front of her , bother her, or sexual harassment her... but if you asked me about my opinion about who have sex just because they are horny, I will tell you that they are bitches... It's my opinion and I am free!!
Katya98
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What's bad about it? Does anyone suffer from this? I don't understand your negativity.
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crossdressingrihno
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@Katya98 No one really gets hurt (unless STDs and certain kinds of cancer are involved) But it does burn some bridges Im not endorsing anyone in this statement just giving some info
Mahmoud_Madyan
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So, can you explain for me what's mean "whore/bitch"? In your opinion?
crossdressingrihno
+1 y
Who are you talking to?
Canada2Xper 5
+1 y
Who knows. Why don’t you ask those people. My guess is - you have to remember there are some very close minded people out there. Hey do you want you want and what makes you feel good. Just make sure you can also handle the views people may have on you. But in the end. You they shouldn’t matter. When I am on my death bed I don’t wanna think man I should have had more fun. I do me you do you.
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Slim57Master
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I insult anyone who sleeps with a lot of people man or woman, damn uncontrollable wild animals
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GagsUgliestMember
+1 y
But how many times have you masturbated to porn? Jus cos you fuck your hands instead of a real person doesn't make you any better, you still have the urges... Jus more antisocial
GagsUgliestMember
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Why are you still following this rule book guys wrote in the 50s. "If a girl has sex more than 3 times she's a slut" What's the point of this rule book? it's stupid, throw it out
GagsUgliestMember
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Dude jus look at the billions of views porn vids get, it's obviously human nature to be this way, retaining/ suppressing it doesn't make you a better person, we all gone die anyway and everything will eventually turn to black like does. it. matter
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Slim57
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Stds, unwanted pregnancies, parentless children, all due to sex crazed individuals who can't control themselves and have no care for anyone else but themselves, masturbation doesn't affect anyone else, not sure how that ties in there, but as for porn that's just as bad because you're supporting that disgusting behavior, I've never been into that, I don't care what human nature is take a look at society and how fucked it is, it's not because of the ones who can control themselves I'll tell you that much
altdbobXper 5
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Hey, as long as you are not bringing anything with you (sexually transmitted diseases) I really would not care. Maybe you could teach me something new.
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ShaotovXper 1
+1 y
My sisters has group sex friends. İt is normal
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Anonymous
+1 y
I don’t criticise them. But I would never date a girl like that.
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Anonymous
+1 y
Because its gross. You can’t just say it’s not their business, because what I’m attracted to or grossed out by is my business. If you’ve lied, cheated, stolen, killed, etc in the past then that’s relevant to how I’m going to react you. If you’ve been going through life thinking that the past has no contact with or relevance to the present then you’re in for a rude awakening.
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Anonymous
+1 y
Because we don't like women doing that. It's frankly just nasty and it leaves us with little or no options if we want to get married. I don't want to marry a pig and no respectable girl wants to either. Tell me one guy of good and moral character who aspired to being the husband of a hooker or being her cuck boy. No man of worth wants it, period. Lots of guys actually aren't pigs.
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Anonymous
+1 y
what if we get you pregnant?
YOU WOMEN ARE A BAD BET
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Anonymous
+1 y
Because it's a male dominated society
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Anonymous
+1 y
Because females who are human trampolines have zero value. The insults are made to try and smarten the sluts up before they hit the 30 wall and become desperate over used piles of trash that “just want a real man”
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Anonymous
+1 y
I don't insult them just turned off by them. They can be disgusting and cheat with dirty strangers outside of relationships all they want but I'll never see them as being able to keep a relationship and some stds are forever. I'll barely question someone who tried weed but if they get high all the time or do worse drugs then I'm staying far away
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Anonymous
+1 y
I don't in fact I'm kinda turned on by it
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Anonymous
+1 y
Sluts are those who cheat on their partners and infect them with stds, and it is obvouos that they are publicly stigmatized by guys.
Girls are keen to insult other girls, to have less competition. So, if a girl tells me her friend is a slut, I understand they are both interested in me.
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Anonymous
+1 y
I don't shame women with high body counts, but I won't date them. You can sleep around as much as you want but don't expect most guys to want a relationship with you. You're more of just a "hook up" girl.
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Katya98
+1 y
Okay, i don't mind that point of view. I'm just outraged that some people publicly discuss girls. Nobody says that about guys 🙃
Opinion Owner
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You can also ask women if they want to date a guy that sleeps around with a high body count "aka man whores". Most would say no. I think people the sleep around can do what they want, but people that want relationships don't want those kind of people, guys or girls. Guys and girls that sleep around don't have any pair bonding experience, and don't know how to have a long term relationship.
Katya98
+1 y
And what's wrong when there are a lot of sexual partners? Does this make a person worse? I think you have a very stereotypical mindset.
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Opinion Owner
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You can have a ton of sexual partners, it just means you don't know how to have a long term relationship.
Anonymous
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For women I think it's mostly jealousy, because they think it's not fair that those girls aren't bound by the same rules that they are.
Guys are just strange. They go out looking for sex, and when they get it, they hate the person that gave them what they wanted. I'll never understand that.
Maybe it goes back to the famous Groucho Marx line.
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Opinion Owner
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@Shamalien And the crazy assholes that go along with it.
MrOracle
+1 y
(Most) men don't hate the women that give them easy sex - but we also don't intend to be in a serious relationship with them either. Girls like that are "just for fun" and have disqualified themselves as relationship partners. Men aren't here to tell women how to live, but when those women complain about the consequences of their decisions and behavior, men are going to tell them like it is.
Opinion Owner
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@MrOracle Are men who do the same thing also disqualified from anything serious?
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MrOracle
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That's up to women to decide. But you need to accept that men and women want and prioritize VERY DIFFERENT THINGS from each other. You cannot project your desires or your boundaries onto men, because we don't share them. Studies have shown that most (not all!) women PREFER men who are more sexually experienced than they are, while most men prefer women who are less sexually experienced. On an individual level, you can set any standards you like, but on a more general level, if you expect literal equality, that's going to fail every time, because women don't pick men for the same reasons that men pick women, and vice versa. Example: for women, a man's job/career, his education, his resources, etc. are all important. For men, a woman's education, career, degree, resources, etc. mean NOTHING. NADA. ZIP. But lots of women think that men value their resume, and love to talk about their degrees and their careers, and wonder why men roll their eyes or get bored - we simply don't care about the same things you care about, and that's never going to change.
Opinion Owner
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@MrOracle Slut shamers should just stay away from sluts. And they shouldn't cry about being a 40 year old virgin on this site.
MrOracle
+1 y
And for that reason, YOU might disqualify men who have slept around, but for the vast majority of women (whether they realize it or not), ALL of the most desired men - the ones they want the very most - will be men who have slept around at a professional level. And the fact that those guys may have been with literally thousands of women doesn't slow them down a bit. So don't expect other women to line up with you - they might give you some lip service, but their actual behavior isn't going to change. Obviously, there are, and always have been, women who DO care, and reject men who have had hundreds of partners, but they're the exception, not the rule.
Opinion Owner
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@MrOracle Why do many still insult girls who have had many sexual partners?
MrOracle
+1 y
Well, some guys are just assholes. Unfortunately, a lot of women find such assholes very attractive. But let's not forget that most slut-shaming actually comes from other women (not all women or even most - maybe only 15-20%) - mostly because those women don't want to have to deal with competition. I certainly don't slut-shame women - I have much better things to do and don't care about what they do for the most part - but I *do* disqualify them from serious relationships, as lots of men do. We just don't talk about it, because there's not much point - most guys aren't interested in gossip.
GagsUgliestMember
+1 y
Not all guys but there is a lot of weird guys with that slut shaming mentality, there's a few sane guys like me who love sluts
GagsUgliestMember
+1 y
As rare as it is us non judgmental friendly guys are out there
MrOracle
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@GagsUgliestMember But do you "love sluts" to be in a committed relationship with? Plenty of guys "love sluts" for casual sex, but that's not what we're talking about. here.
GagsUgliestMember
+1 y
@MrOracle I don't know but I never wanted a relationship and probably ever will, but I love sex so I love sluts lol
GagsUgliestMember
+1 y
If I got into a relationship with a slut tho I don't think I'd be bothered if she's fucking other guys, not because I'm a cuckold.. I jus don't care about much of anything, I'm a nihilist and don't have the energy to care about that sorta stuff... I feel like it's much better n easier life to jus feel blank about everything, so I would get in a relationship with a slut too
Opinion Owner
+1 y
You brought up a good point about caring. Why do people even care enough to shame sluts? What does that have to do with them? How does that affect them? And most of all, why would you seek out something you hate? This question has absolutely nothing to do with relationships and marriage. It's about insulting people because they do something you don't like.
MrOracle
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That's fine, but unless you clarify that, you are misleading women, because women ALWAYS think about men and sex in the context of a committed relationship unless they specify differently. When talking to women, you must always assume that they are thinking "relationship" and not "casual sex" and adjust your words accordingly.
Opinion Owner
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You're reading way too much into this. You have to focus on the actual question. Why do people insult women who are promiscuous. I think girls are jealous and and I have no clue why guys do this.
MrOracle
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I think, of the men who do this, some are just disappointed that girls they thought would be good partners turned out to behave this way. It's like a girl learning that a guy she likes is a drug addict, or criminal, or hasn't had a job in 3 years - it disqualifies them as a partner, even if other parts of them seem good, and it's a let-down. The other guys who do this - the majority of this group - are just assholes.
Opinion Owner
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So these guys you're talking about that just feel disappointed, are then given the right to insult these girls?
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9 74It is their choice to have as many partners, some girls like gangebang, so no problem
slut
Just because who wants sex without relationship is a bitch!!
What difference does it make to you how other people live?
I don't care about how the other live, I will not insult her in front of her , bother her, or sexual harassment her... but if you asked me about my opinion about who have sex just because they are horny, I will tell you that they are bitches... It's my opinion and I am free!!
What's bad about it? Does anyone suffer from this? I don't understand your negativity.
@Katya98 No one really gets hurt (unless STDs and certain kinds of cancer are involved) But it does burn some bridges Im not endorsing anyone in this statement just giving some info
So, can you explain for me what's mean "whore/bitch"? In your opinion?
Who are you talking to?
Who knows. Why don’t you ask those people. My guess is - you have to remember there are some very close minded people out there. Hey do you want you want and what makes you feel good. Just make sure you can also handle the views people may have on you. But in the end. You they shouldn’t matter. When I am on my death bed I don’t wanna think man I should have had more fun. I do me you do you.
I insult anyone who sleeps with a lot of people man or woman, damn uncontrollable wild animals
But how many times have you masturbated to porn? Jus cos you fuck your hands instead of a real person doesn't make you any better, you still have the urges... Jus more antisocial
Why are you still following this rule book guys wrote in the 50s. "If a girl has sex more than 3 times she's a slut" What's the point of this rule book? it's stupid, throw it out
Dude jus look at the billions of views porn vids get, it's obviously human nature to be this way, retaining/ suppressing it doesn't make you a better person, we all gone die anyway and everything will eventually turn to black like does. it. matter
Stds, unwanted pregnancies, parentless children, all due to sex crazed individuals who can't control themselves and have no care for anyone else but themselves, masturbation doesn't affect anyone else, not sure how that ties in there, but as for porn that's just as bad because you're supporting that disgusting behavior, I've never been into that, I don't care what human nature is take a look at society and how fucked it is, it's not because of the ones who can control themselves I'll tell you that much
Hey, as long as you are not bringing anything with you (sexually transmitted diseases) I really would not care. Maybe you could teach me something new.
My sisters has group sex friends. İt is normal
I don’t criticise them. But I would never date a girl like that.
Because its gross. You can’t just say it’s not their business, because what I’m attracted to or grossed out by is my business. If you’ve lied, cheated, stolen, killed, etc in the past then that’s relevant to how I’m going to react you. If you’ve been going through life thinking that the past has no contact with or relevance to the present then you’re in for a rude awakening.
Because we don't like women doing that. It's frankly just nasty and it leaves us with little or no options if we want to get married. I don't want to marry a pig and no respectable girl wants to either. Tell me one guy of good and moral character who aspired to being the husband of a hooker or being her cuck boy. No man of worth wants it, period. Lots of guys actually aren't pigs.
what if we get you pregnant?
YOU WOMEN ARE A BAD BET
Because it's a male dominated society
Because females who are human trampolines have zero value. The insults are made to try and smarten the sluts up before they hit the 30 wall and become desperate over used piles of trash that “just want a real man”
I don't insult them just turned off by them. They can be disgusting and cheat with dirty strangers outside of relationships all they want but I'll never see them as being able to keep a relationship and some stds are forever. I'll barely question someone who tried weed but if they get high all the time or do worse drugs then I'm staying far away
I don't in fact I'm kinda turned on by it
Sluts are those who cheat on their partners and infect them with stds, and it is obvouos that they are publicly stigmatized by guys.
Girls are keen to insult other girls, to have less competition. So, if a girl tells me her friend is a slut, I understand they are both interested in me.
I don't shame women with high body counts, but I won't date them. You can sleep around as much as you want but don't expect most guys to want a relationship with you. You're more of just a "hook up" girl.
Okay, i don't mind that point of view. I'm just outraged that some people publicly discuss girls. Nobody says that about guys 🙃
You can also ask women if they want to date a guy that sleeps around with a high body count "aka man whores". Most would say no. I think people the sleep around can do what they want, but people that want relationships don't want those kind of people, guys or girls. Guys and girls that sleep around don't have any pair bonding experience, and don't know how to have a long term relationship.
And what's wrong when there are a lot of sexual partners? Does this make a person worse? I think you have a very stereotypical mindset.
You can have a ton of sexual partners, it just means you don't know how to have a long term relationship.
For women I think it's mostly jealousy, because they think it's not fair that those girls aren't bound by the same rules that they are.
Guys are just strange. They go out looking for sex, and when they get it, they hate the person that gave them what they wanted. I'll never understand that.
Maybe it goes back to the famous Groucho Marx line.
@Shamalien And the crazy assholes that go along with it.
(Most) men don't hate the women that give them easy sex - but we also don't intend to be in a serious relationship with them either. Girls like that are "just for fun" and have disqualified themselves as relationship partners. Men aren't here to tell women how to live, but when those women complain about the consequences of their decisions and behavior, men are going to tell them like it is.
@MrOracle Are men who do the same thing also disqualified from anything serious?
That's up to women to decide. But you need to accept that men and women want and prioritize VERY DIFFERENT THINGS from each other. You cannot project your desires or your boundaries onto men, because we don't share them. Studies have shown that most (not all!) women PREFER men who are more sexually experienced than they are, while most men prefer women who are less sexually experienced. On an individual level, you can set any standards you like, but on a more general level, if you expect literal equality, that's going to fail every time, because women don't pick men for the same reasons that men pick women, and vice versa. Example: for women, a man's job/career, his education, his resources, etc. are all important. For men, a woman's education, career, degree, resources, etc. mean NOTHING. NADA. ZIP. But lots of women think that men value their resume, and love to talk about their degrees and their careers, and wonder why men roll their eyes or get bored - we simply don't care about the same things you care about, and that's never going to change.
@MrOracle Slut shamers should just stay away from sluts. And they shouldn't cry about being a 40 year old virgin on this site.
And for that reason, YOU might disqualify men who have slept around, but for the vast majority of women (whether they realize it or not), ALL of the most desired men - the ones they want the very most - will be men who have slept around at a professional level. And the fact that those guys may have been with literally thousands of women doesn't slow them down a bit. So don't expect other women to line up with you - they might give you some lip service, but their actual behavior isn't going to change. Obviously, there are, and always have been, women who DO care, and reject men who have had hundreds of partners, but they're the exception, not the rule.
@MrOracle Why do many still insult girls who have had many sexual partners?
Well, some guys are just assholes. Unfortunately, a lot of women find such assholes very attractive. But let's not forget that most slut-shaming actually comes from other women (not all women or even most - maybe only 15-20%) - mostly because those women don't want to have to deal with competition. I certainly don't slut-shame women - I have much better things to do and don't care about what they do for the most part - but I *do* disqualify them from serious relationships, as lots of men do. We just don't talk about it, because there's not much point - most guys aren't interested in gossip.
Not all guys but there is a lot of weird guys with that slut shaming mentality, there's a few sane guys like me who love sluts
As rare as it is us non judgmental friendly guys are out there
@GagsUgliestMember But do you "love sluts" to be in a committed relationship with? Plenty of guys "love sluts" for casual sex, but that's not what we're talking about. here.
@MrOracle I don't know but I never wanted a relationship and probably ever will, but I love sex so I love sluts lol
If I got into a relationship with a slut tho I don't think I'd be bothered if she's fucking other guys, not because I'm a cuckold.. I jus don't care about much of anything, I'm a nihilist and don't have the energy to care about that sorta stuff... I feel like it's much better n easier life to jus feel blank about everything, so I would get in a relationship with a slut too
You brought up a good point about caring. Why do people even care enough to shame sluts? What does that have to do with them? How does that affect them? And most of all, why would you seek out something you hate? This question has absolutely nothing to do with relationships and marriage. It's about insulting people because they do something you don't like.
That's fine, but unless you clarify that, you are misleading women, because women ALWAYS think about men and sex in the context of a committed relationship unless they specify differently. When talking to women, you must always assume that they are thinking "relationship" and not "casual sex" and adjust your words accordingly.
You're reading way too much into this. You have to focus on the actual question. Why do people insult women who are promiscuous. I think girls are jealous and and I have no clue why guys do this.
I think, of the men who do this, some are just disappointed that girls they thought would be good partners turned out to behave this way. It's like a girl learning that a guy she likes is a drug addict, or criminal, or hasn't had a job in 3 years - it disqualifies them as a partner, even if other parts of them seem good, and it's a let-down. The other guys who do this - the majority of this group - are just assholes.
So these guys you're talking about that just feel disappointed, are then given the right to insult these girls?
Because it's gross and unfeminine. Really slutty.