Why do men ask for nude pics if they can see models/watch porn?

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[SteveSmith1985]

Because there is still a huge difference between "some girl's naked body" and the "naked body of THAT (specific, particular) girl."

So your question is actually a very good and valid question. That's especially true considering how guys look at porn/models in general.

I guess I won't claim to speak for all guys here. There are those weird dudes who know the name of their favorite porn-star/model and actually give a shit about that sorta thing... But most of the time, naked girls you can see in porn and whatnot are literally interchangeable.

They do not matter as individual people, and one naked girl vs another naked girl makes no difference. They're interchangeable. They are sexually stimulating and appealing insofar as it's a naked girl's body... but a guy couldn't care less WHICH naked girls body that happens to be. Just "some girl" who is just something that exists until you move on to looking at some different random girl naked. It's all almost a blurr. They are interchangeable and meaningless.

There is literally an endless supply of naked women a guy can look at anytime he wants to. More vaginas that any guy COULD ever possibly see... even if he dedicated his life to internet porn.

So, 'naked girls' in the general sense... really are nothing special. They are available in unlimited supply to be viewed with a couple of clicks. Pretty goddamn cheap. Pretty goddamn unremarkable and not in any way special. They aren't people. They're 'things' that you find sexually attractive (naked girls in the general sense).

Ok, so if naked girls are so common and cheap and mundane, then why DO guys seem to really want nudes from the regular everyday girls in their actual lives? Isn't that just one more naked girl to add to the endless supply of naked girls a guy can look at anytime?

No.

Not at all.

This is, in fact, a whole other thing entirely.

That girl you actually know, is NOT just one more naked girl. She's not one more "some girl." She is a real, fully-rounded actual girl. Who... is more than just that sexy body you're looking at. There's an actual person you can associate that body with. An actual personality. It's totally totally different than porn or models or any of that. It's a whole other thing. It's seen totally differently.

I think perhaps what it comes down to on a subconscious (or conscious) level is: There is a reality in which you do actually get to have sex with the girl you're looking at. It's within the realm of possibility anyway. Whereas some girl from wherever the fuck on the internet... might as well not actually even exist as a real person (in terms of the possibility of actually living out the fantasy you conjure up when looking at her naked body).

It's almost like the difference between "a real girl" and a "fake/fantasy girl." The real girl is going to be hotter every time. Because she's... real. She's someone you actually know and talk to and laugh with and whatever.

The girls in porn and whatnot might as well be AI generated (that's actually not a bad way to look at how men see girls in porn/models. At least how I see them). They aren't really people. There is a definite limit to how arousing I'm able to find some random naked girl, that I can easily surpass by seeing a naked girl from my actual real life. Even a girl who is not the model type... I would find her nudes way more of a turn-on than some 10/10 model or pornstar.

That being said, I'm not going around asking for nudes (not that guys my age don't. They do. Too many of them do anyway).

I would also strongly urge you not to send nudes yourself. To anyone. A lot of those endless naked girls available in seconds to men everywhere... were (unfortunately) very real, very regular girls who sent nudes or allowed nudes to be taken by a guy they thought was someone they loved and trusted... who turned out to be an asshole and decided to upload those private pictures to join that endless stream of naked girls available 24/7. There are at least laws against that shit in most places now.

But still, if I were a 15 year old girl (now, there's something I don't think I've ever written before...) I definitely wouldn't send nudes. If I had a daughter I'd hope she wouldn't send nudes. And honestly, even at my age, with female friends... I'm gonna urge them not to send nudes. It's just more potential trouble than it's worth in my opinion.

But real actual girls beat fake integrable internet girls every single time. Easily. It's not even a fair contest.

[Red_Arrow]

A nude picture of a woman you know and talk with is much more personal and arousing than a nude of a stranger. The guys will usually masturbate with them which is more real seeming if you actually know the woman. Some guys would keep them to themselves and never share them and never blackmail you with them. But lots of guys would do those things. At your age is would be very likely that the pictures would get around. You really should not give guys nude pictures until you are older and more aware of how they may be used and you are not a teen.

[Anemone978]

They like to see people they actually know nude it feels more personal and they have an actual connection to you. Plus I am sure all guys would want to see most girls nude if they can lol. Don't do it tho guys your age are very immature and the pics will probably get out...

[AmeerX]

I think it feels like she trusts you. But at the same time, that connection feels great. And she doesn't need to give her pics. If she likes a guy the guy likes her back then both should agree on marriage 🙂

[purplepoppy]

Because they then have the ability to control you.
If you send him a topless picture he can then say "send me more I'll send it to your parents or neighbours etc".
Its not uncommon for them to use photos to force girls into committing sex acts

[JamesHarrys]

I was thinking the same as well. I think it is more often a tactic to groom the girl to have sex with them. If a guy asks for nudes, don't send anything. If he moves on to another girl, then good for you. You have to be able to let them go. Stick to your boundaries, it will pay off tenfold later on in life.

[AmeerX]

Yes, I think it is a major possiblity

[Guy13]

Don’t do it. You will regret it.

[rachel776]

he wants to see you naked, not some random girl

[yuviii2012]

True its about feeling to see someone naked you are talking with and imagining real her fucking u... thats different than porn.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Yes. :) (Yes, I do.)

[connemara_crocodile]

I enjoy more pictures of a person I know at least a little bit, than a random person on the internet.

Plus its a bigger turn on to know that picture/video was made only for you.

[SnowedIn]

Because the person they're asking from is more real. Porn and models are distant, unobtainable in a different way than those you'd for nudes from.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Every knee conquest is exhilarating. The first time he saw that hot model or actress of in a movie, he went searching for her nudes. When he found them it was an amazing explosion of excitement. It was a victory. It was a climax. When he met/saw yo, he wanted your nudes. Yours were even harder to get. He had to work harder. When he gets them, it will feel even better.

[OfMiceandMen]

Your analogy is correct, I really don't get it? Seeing stuff onscreen just does not compare, so why ask in the first place?

Besides, the wait to finally see the person you care about nude is part of the fun during the relationship. Asking for nudes kind of spoils that anticipation.

[Bricealan]

They want to see YOUR bare ass, not someone else's

[AviatorTom]

Simple... they want the personal touch of seeing you.

[sheenagwapa]

diversity? 😁

[JamesHarrys]

I have no idea why tbh. I don't even understand the appeal. Maybe they're horny and want something to **** off to you before you get intimate 🤷‍♂️

During adolescence, we tend to be really horny. Like really, really horny, to the point it's embarrassing and clouds our judgement. Our hormones are screaming, and the peer pressure to lose our virginity doesn't help at all.

But a guy that really likes you will rather wait until you're ready to get intimate.

[FilmGuy93]

There's something hotter about seeing a girl you know personally naked.

[soe11]

• Depending on person to person.
• How strong and close relationship.

[AmeerX]

A real girl giving means she trusts him enough. No other reason

[AmeerX]

Oh wait, you are a teenager. Hey, don't give your nudes to anyone. Don't have sex. Wait till marriage. I did it and it's worth it 😊

[SteveSmith1985]

I've done that before. That "oh shit" moment when you look at someone's age after already having posted. It's a pretty intense and complex moment. I've had WAY worse ones than this. This one's not too bad at all. I'd like to say that I've learned to check someone's age before posting... but it keeps happening every blue moon. You got off lucky on this one. Not too bad. Some of mine were BAD. 🙂

[AmeerX]

@SteveSmith1985 thanks, still in general I think girls should ideally remain modest

[SteveSmith1985]

Fair enough dude. I was more reacting to the "Oh wait, you are a teenager" part. That's what we share here. That "Oh wait, you are a teenager" moment... transcends all manner of different views and beliefs. On that part, I feel you.

[AmeerX]

@SteveSmith1985 yeah lol. It does happen more offen then not and I am particularly surprised so many teenage girls here think if they don't show the hoe side they will be left out and be good enough

[KostasKouvalis]

It's not the same as seeing an average everyday girl they talk to

[Christoff92]

Depends if you like them. Because they seen you in person. Pictures and videos coming from porn are just Pictures and videos.

[AimeeKyle]

More fun looking at the real / achievable thing.

[Twalli]

They're more intimate if they're not just found on the internet.

[Pudsmucker]

Lot of times porn and nude models are nothing but fakes. We like to see real women.

[Backwood1988]

Don't you like to look and different sizes penis

[JamesHarrys]

No girl ever likes dick pics lol 😂

[In_Trance]

because they want to see you