Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Most women especially attractive women do not engage in hookup culture. Men go online and look at videos of specific locations to prove their confirmation bias but in reality it's not true. Almost all the women I've met want long standing relationships but men only seem to want casual hookups or to keep their options open so they reject those men and then men complain women’s standards are too high. Hookup culture only helps men but men claim women want it, why?
Why do men assume most women participate in hookup culture and demean them for it when that isn't true and they're the ones pushing for it?
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6 29Survivorship bias. A lot if not most of those women seeking a long term relation relationships are in a relationship while men seeking a mate are mostly going for single women which includes all the women not seeking a committed relationship.
Fuckboys/players are not popular with women because they want a relationship.
Women created and perpetuate hookup culture and most women do get run through on a regular basis. A quick scroll through any social media site shows how promiscuous modern women are.
I guess if most women are extremely promiscuous and you are not quite as promiscuous, you can convince yourself you are "good".
Social media isn’t a reflection of all women just like I could say how men online all hate women and don’t have morals for themselves only women they do not know. I want you to genuinely think how hookup culture and sleeping around benefits women when men are offering them nothing in return and many times not even pleasure. If you think women are dumb enough to take a shit deal like that you don’t know many women. Women on average have more traditional values statistically and that’s easily observable.
Asker... women control access to sex, full stop. If women are being hoes, that's a CHOICE women are making. The average college girl has 12 different sexual partners in just four years alone. Women created and perpetuate hookup/hoe culture... OWN THIS AND BE ACCOUNTABLE.
If some very minor amount of women are sleeping around and being hypersexual don’t say it’s all women. I’m not accountable for 20/100 women being sluts. If you look up the actual average number of sexual partners for a college girl it’s 3-4, takes a simple google search. 3 in 4 years isn’t that unreasonable if each relationship is lasting slightly over a year
Asker.. It's not 20/100 it's more like 95/100. Women are NOTORIOUS for lying about their sexual behavior and body count. I know women who think: -Anal sex doesn't count. -Sex with a condom doesn't count. -Sex where he doesn't cum inside her doesn't count. -Sex with a rando only one time doesn't count. -Sex while on a girls trip, out of the country,. or business trip, doesn't count. -Blow jobs don't count. After you factor in the bullshit women will convince themselves the actual "hoe" percentage is easily 90+%.
As a college age girl I’m a virgin most my friends are virgins. There’s a small portion of girls who sleep around like that and they’re known for it because it’s uncommon and people judge them for it. You can’t just make up a number of how many women sleep sound and with how many men because it’s how you feel. You actually hate women if you believe most people think ts about sex not being sex no one says that. You are projecting your choice to surround yourself with dumb bitches on normal women. Maybe choose better company.
Asker... absolutely bullshit. I don't believe you are a virgin and that most of your friends are virgins. Complete and total bullshit.
Asker... only if you aren't western would I entertain this.
I’m anon literally be so real rn why would i lie to you i don’t give af about ur anti woman bs. Sorry not every girl sleeps around. People of both genders can be virgins, shocker! I was born and raised in america in just a black women from a loving family. Do you really think women just wake up and decide to gets trains ran on them all day and lie about it. Do you feel the same way about your female family member, female coworkers, the women who taught you growing up, your female friends?
First off, I am a man and I don’t assume anything about women. Second, why does hookup apps work so well? It is because both men and women like to hookup.
I am not into the hookup thing but if I were then I would play the odds. Assume every woman does and ask all of them. This way you don’t miss any of the ones that do hookup. That increases your odds of hooking up every time you go out.
You may piss if those that don’t hookup but you hookup with everyone that does that way.
Men are blaming women for this (they are very good at it in general) yet they've been the stinky pants since the beginning of time. A man on TikTok summed it up very well. I'm quoting him. "These girls are ran through according to them and what are these dudes fucking flat tires? Their meat is a radioactive STD rod. These men will never take accountability for being a bunch of dick brain monkeys."
Who's "they"? Every man and woman is different. Besides, many women also hate and demean men who participate in "hookup" culture.
@minahh. Wrong. A tiny fraction of men (the top 4%) are going through women like a combine through a wheat field. The tik Thot idiot you watch is telling dumb twats what they want to hear.
Welll... this is the most confused untrue anomaly I've come acrossed in a while. The only thing I can adjudicate out of this bias is that today most men aren't really interested in a woman's relations other than a hook up.
Do you really think women who typically as a gender yearn for romance and life long monogamy want a string of sexual partners over 1 loving good man? Women statistically cheat less and are more marriage minded. Why would most women engage in hookup culture? Body count studies are skewed by a loud minority who’s slept with 10 times as many men as the average woman which leads men to think most average women like sleeping around when it simply isn’t true.
If that's what u want to believe, then do so. But that's very untrue.
it’s just statistics man
From where? Those things aren't really accurate and a lot of that sort of stuff now days is lies to provoke agendas.
Doesn't matter how many times a snake she's it's skin , in the end of the day a snake is still a snake
What do you believe is true? Women are fans of open sex culture and prefer unattached sex even if it goes against our biology? I’m not sure of your stance. Also I don’t get what the snake analogy is referring to?
I think a lot of guys really can't stand women especially modern women and as a backlash to feminism they've decided to take advantage of sleep around women and call them nothing but a whore for hook up. Although there's a lot of truth in this , it's also I believe to be a movement to destroy her as collateral damaged and use her just for sex. But isn't that what a large percentage of women already do to men?
Asker... As men we look at what women actually DO rather than what they SAY. Women want both hookups and marriage. So what's the modern females pattern?: Here is what modern women do. Party hard in late teens and through her 20's racking up huge body counts with Chad's, going to college, having hot girl summer's, YOLO, etc. In her very late 20's and early 30's (assuming she hasn't already had a couple of Chadling's) she will look for a Simp to pay for her wild years. She marries Mr. Provider Simp EVEN THOUGH SHE DOESN'T EVEN LIKE HIM (because she isn't the Alpha Chad cock she has grown accustomed to). ... but she wants kids and security. She bangs out a couple of kids while married to Mr. Simp (which may or may not be his biological kids), stays with Mr. Simp and average of 8 years, then DIVORCE RAPES him. She gets the house, kids, alimony, child support, a car, and half+ of all of his hard earned assets. Then she IMMEDIATELY tries to jump back in the Chad cock carousel, but now she has a beta provider paying for her lifestyle as mandated by the force of the government. THIS is what is what modern women want and do, so don't give us your shit about romance and one person (unless he is a top 4% Chad who will never commit to you). Just stop.
@KrakenAttackin ur actually miserable yk none of this shit makes sense people get married everyday and they’re happy. No way you think women just don’t love we are people holy shit
Cope harder.
Men are pushing it?
Women are allowing it. Or are women completely blameless here.
men are pushing it. Women gain nothing from sex outside of a relationship and men have always and will always want sex more then women (partially because they’re bad at pleasing women.) Of course some women will encourage it but not the majority meaning some women allow it. Men take the few and push it onto all women to degrade them for it but only wanting hookups
Ok if women gain nothing from it, why do you say yes? If women are so bothered by hookup culture they should say no. You dont get to blame men here
Does every attractive woman partake in hookup culture? No. Do a lot of attractive women partake in hookup culture? Absolutely. And this just shows that most men really are invisible since you're only paying attention to men that are hyper successful with women
Hook up is high.
That is BS
@Nikki1989 what is BS?
That many women are hooking up. It only happens in the minds of idiots that don't know any better.
@Nikki1989 so you against hook up?
Men are awful. They are horrible. The world would be better without men and their bullshit. They are the same gender as that misogynist Donald Trump. Donald Trump wants to take away abortion, so the loser rapist men can rape women and force the women to give birth to their genetics.
Men are disgusting and need to be replaced.
Tbh men are 50/50 just like a portion of women.
The ones being demeaning are usually more profile and selective. While you also just have the guys who don’t wanna pay for it because the OF phase.
. Then you have the men who love the OF women and will pay thousands, or men like me who wants a slutty woman however I’m a cuck so. I’m out to date more sexually open women and refuse to shame them.
Anon lol