Why Do Men (Even Strangers) Want Me To Cum For Them?

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Follow Up: 💭 Do Men Actually Enjoy Making A Girl Cum? Does it bring you pleasure knowing that a girl orgasmed because of you? "I was just curious, because I noticed that not only on social media but in my real life, guys seemed to be programmed to want to bring me to orgasm. I usually deny myself orgasms because I don't think I deserve them (I don't know why I feel this way, I just do 🤷‍♀️), but when I am being teased my arousal levels become almost unbearable to the point that I lose control and accidentally cum. It's really embarrassing. So don't be judgmental, I just want to know your thoughts on this topic" Help Me Or Go Away...

Theabcking · Accepted Answer

the most irritating lie today is that a man has erectile dysfunction if he can't get it up in the bedroom for any woman that he gets naked with. That he should go to a doctor and take a pill so that he can get excited by any woman because after all a man just needs a hole right no especially with the attitude of a lot of women today. That might actually answer why we need pills to get it up for women. There's a whole subconscious issue there, but i'm not going to go into that. The insult to men is that we're supposed to be excited and get excited for any woman. As though we have no needs or desires by which we get excited, no need for a specific type of stimulation on her end Either how good she is or whether she's even compatible with us not anything. Please women, please women, please women. You can't find her g-spot. You can't make her hit the heights that she deserves to hit you failed. You've failed Try better you're not doing it right. He's supposed to take care of her needs, but he's also supposed to take care of his own needs in the bedroom and he just can't. Not all of them.

Men objectified too.

Aqueeld · Accepted Answer

I would love to make you cum...

It makes me super excited to know that i am giving u pleasure 💕💕

Best feeling i can get is knowing that ur sexually satisfied... I feel happy seeing u being satisfied and i feel responsible and desperate to satisfy you... I would just feel soo happy seeing u cum 🙈🙈

Giving girls best pleasure is crazy crazy crazy turn on for me..😚😚😚

Watching u cum and knowing that i am responsible for it and watching ur expressions and moments in ur body while ur cumming 🥵🥵🥵
All of that is sooo fucking hot 🤪🤪🤪🙈🙈

CarolineW · Accepted Answer

If you have sex with a guy, I think that's the general idea... of course they want you to cum. Don't you want THEM to cum? I do, otherwise, what's the point? Might as well go and do some baking, or something.

jennyjenjen98 · Accepted Answer

I'll flip the question around and ask if you get pleasure making a man orgasm? I know I do. I would hope men getting satisfaction giving orgasms too

Losalt · Answer

Sometimes.
But honestly most of the time I prefer denying a girl.
Not just not letti6her cum right away (orgasm control) but not that session/day at all (orgasm denial).

Ps. You still haven't accepted or denied my follow request.

Bboyawall91 · Answer

I honestly feel like I can't cum until I make my women cum, now I honestly have never found it all that difficult to give them so I just let it stay attached to my ego.

nonratracereality · Answer

This is a question that can have numerous answers in which those that cannot answer truthfully realistically within themselves answer with an answer that is not final. So the end result whether sad or not is that they dont have the integrity, maturity or experience to completely understand why they like what they like and it's ok. When you meet real people they will make you feel like you never left home.

SamIam96 · Answer

First... You DESERVE to cum. Why shouldn't you feel good?

I think most guys derive pleasure from helping their woman orgasm. Think about other experiences that give you pleasure. Like, helping an old person to cross the street or a waiter/ress serving an amazing meal in a high end restaurant. People get pleasure from giving others pleasure. Why would sex be any different?

PeteBy · Answer

For me personally it's a shared experience. She makes me cum and I feel it only fair I try at least to make her orgasm. I'm not the type of guy who ejaculates then rolls over and goes asleep. It's a very intimate moment between two people and sharing that moment is important.
Not to mention seeing a woman writhe in pleasure and moan is a distinct turn on.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

Of course we want to provide yo with an orgasm! If I were having sex with you, you couldn’t, possibly, expect me to be satisfied if you didn’t reach climax. That’s the whole point of the exercise! I would be left feeling depressed and inadequate afterwards—and I would not be able to experience full satisfaction during sex.

WilliamPamer446 · Answer

well i dont know them individually so i can't really answer but my best guess is eithr 1. they horny  2. they geneuinly wanna make u cum 3. 1 and 2

Ill_made_Knight · Answer

I've never taken the notion to make a stranger cum, so ya got me there.
But someone I'm having sex with, I do VERY much want to give you an orgasm. Or many. I think it's natural to want your pleasure as I might very well hope you'll want to play again and to be sure there is gratification in knowing that I helped you feel good. Hopefully VERY good. There is also something quite primal about causing a girl to wiggle and make those involuntary sounds that happen... It's a joyous thing

Sixgunsound · Answer

Most men want to please women deep down, it’s a relatively small number who are only in it for themselves😆

Barry88 · Answer

Making a girl cum is even more rewarding than cumming myself. The female orgasm is beautiful in all its complexity. The male orgasm is, compared to the female orgasm, quite boring. I feel very lucky if I'm allowed to please a girl and if I can make her cum.

Dargil · Answer

Do Men Actually Enjoy Making A Girl Cum?
*Absolutely yes.

Does it bring you pleasure knowing that a girl orgasmed because of you?
*Again, absolutely yes.

I usually deny myself orgasms because I don't think I deserve them.
*Every girl deserves to experience an orgasm. You need to feel loved.

*You need to find somebody to love and let them feast on you, and you on them. It's seeping out of your pores.

RavVid · Answer

Well we have been educated and told to orgasm the girl and we're a selfish piece of S*t if we don't. We like doing a good job so we do everything we can to orgasm the girl. I am quite proud of my moves.

mstbooblover · Answer

Well, I don't know about other men, but one of the most beautiful things a woman can do for me is masturbating till orgasm in my presence, or letting me finger her till the climax. Really ! Watching a woman having an orgasm, and the more if she's an intimate girlfriend, is an incredibly gorgeous and rewarding event.

By the way, to answer one of your statements, everyone deserves to orgasm as many times as they feel like. Our body is just made that way, whether you're convinced it's Nature or God. So, my advice is to not deny yourself getting at least now and then an orgasm. That's very healthy as well for the mind as the body.

Crafteroon · Answer

Guys don't have to worry about enjoying sex. With an active partner who knows not to do the few obvious things, and a guy will reach orgasm eventually.

So a guy who cares about their partner will focus on the pleasure of their partner. Because an excited partner makes it feel even better for guys.

Depending on the personality, it can be seen as completing a puzzle or a task. The feeling of achievement can be quite nice. Just think of the last time you made a guy cum, the heavy breathing, the smiling, possibly the compliments, feels nice, right? That is the reward we get too when our partner reaches orgasm.

SiberFox · Answer

Do you enjoy making your partner happy and giving him/a moment of ecstatic bliss? Why would it be different for them?

Fireguy17 · Answer

That is one of the best parts of having sex is to bring pleasure to your partner.  Watching her eyes roll back in her head, clawing at nothing, her toes curl, is all part of enjoying sex.

DOGU8585 · Answer

its natural desire no problem, but why is this disturbing you?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I like when a girl cums for me it makes me horny and get a boner.

Kreneman · Answer

When a woman cums, that is usually a confirmation to us men that you're satisfied and a major goal for a women to reach their climax plus that is common and natural when it comes to sex. Like I tell all women, don't ever be ashamed when it comes to achieving an orgasm especially when it comes to us men that loves the woman body, enjoy, attracted, and appreciate the natural beauty of a woman.

Chaser3232 · Answer

Yes, because I feel it’s a disservice to a woman if her male partner does that make our orgasm! In the during, or after sexual intercourse.

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