Because that's how the game Is set up. I don't really see the problem though... it's fun
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driven159Yoda
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I havr had women initiate sex with me and I am sure more than me have had it too
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msc545Master
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Women refuse to do this unless they get paid for it.
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dolemite89Yoda
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if it’s always u initiating ur with the wrong girl
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Jackson619Xper 5
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I don't I like to please first if there is a connection
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pankyvicXper 1
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Horn ASS TOADS
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Anonymous
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I do not know but it is so boring sometimes we must initiate it
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Anonymous
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We usually give very obvious signals when we want sex. You just think you initiate it.
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Tomcat68
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Some are more subtle but most make it very obvious.
Anonymous
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I think most of the time men are unsure if women want to have sex with them or not so they have to wait for her to initiate. I think this comes from men avoiding sexual assault trouble too. Anyway, it will be nice if men change that dynamic once the relationship has consolidated.
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Anonymous
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That girl has dirty feet, so he probably won't initiate anything.
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OddBeMe
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We like it dirty
Opinion Owner
1 y
eww I keep my feet very clean.
OddBeMe
1 y
Im joking of course. Im actually germophobe
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Guy__
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Her feet are ok...
Anonymous
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You tell us. Why do you, as a woman, make men always do the initiating? Or are you and your partner lesbians?
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Anonymous
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Great opportunity to over share
Well I think it’s them wanting to be submissive in some way. However My girlfriend said it’s because she doesn’t feel comfortable initiating sex so I stopped initiating sex. It’s gotten better but still she hasn’t started with foreplay that’s the next step. Also she thinks she’s quote “I’m to old to jump your bone” Or somehow if she initiates foreplay on me ie. Taking my clothes off, oral, kiss me and rub my manhood etc. she’s somehow submitting to the patriarchy. I gave up a while ago after being rejected constantly, and 2years ago started trying to mend our relationship that was just kinda lost, but if she’s not going to put in some effort I’m not going to continue. I think she needs therapy definitely has anxiety depression.
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13 23Because that's how the game Is set up. I don't really see the problem though... it's fun
I havr had women initiate sex with me and I am sure more than me have had it too
Women refuse to do this unless they get paid for it.
if it’s always u initiating ur with the wrong girl
I don't I like to please first if there is a connection
Horn ASS TOADS
I do not know but it is so boring sometimes we must initiate it
We usually give very obvious signals when we want sex. You just think you initiate it.
Some are more subtle but most make it very obvious.
I think most of the time men are unsure if women want to have sex with them or not so they have to wait for her to initiate. I think this comes from men avoiding sexual assault trouble too. Anyway, it will be nice if men change that dynamic once the relationship has consolidated.
That girl has dirty feet, so he probably won't initiate anything.
We like it dirty
eww I keep my feet very clean.
Im joking of course. Im actually germophobe
Her feet are ok...
You tell us. Why do you, as a woman, make men always do the initiating? Or are you and your partner lesbians?
Great opportunity to over share
Well I think it’s them wanting to be submissive in some way. However My girlfriend said it’s because she doesn’t feel comfortable initiating sex so I stopped initiating sex. It’s gotten better but still she hasn’t started with foreplay that’s the next step.
Also she thinks she’s quote “I’m to old to jump your bone”
Or somehow if she initiates foreplay on me ie. Taking my clothes off, oral, kiss me and rub my manhood etc. she’s somehow submitting to the patriarchy.
I gave up a while ago after being rejected constantly, and 2years ago started trying to mend our relationship that was just kinda lost, but if she’s not going to put in some effort I’m not going to continue.
I think she needs therapy definitely has anxiety depression.