Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health When reading a lot of men’s post on here, most of them talk about raw sex.
Does it ever connect you better with the person that you’re having sex with? Or does it still not matter and it just feels good?
Why do men like raw sex, does it connect you better to that person?
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Raw sex: means without the condom. Do you guys not think about the consequences?
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13 53It feels a lot better. The only downside for me are STDs. You can prevent that by testing
I have a vasectomy for that reason.
I want the feel of skin on skin like nature intended.
For the same reason girls like raw sex.
the fact that it's feeling 'better' does increase the connection, it just means it feels better...
It feels much better without a condom. That said there are times a condom is absolutely necessary. When in a committed relationship where there is no risk of disease and there is birth control measures in place then raw is the much preferred method and to me it adds to the intimacy.
It just feels better like touching silk wearing gloves doesn’t feel good to the skin no gloves feels better
Yes we do think about it but in the moment we tend to forget about what’s right
It feels better for both people.
for me raw sex makes me feel closer to her
It has nothing to do with Connection
@justneedtokno
guess its more natural
guess its ok is she is on pill and both std free
better still if she is deepthroating :D
Sex with out a condom on is more pleasurable. The true feeling of a wet, warm vagina is amazing. Condoms don't allow a male to feel that.
Try this. It may help you understand the different sensations.
Place a finger in your vagina to see how it feels.
Then put a condom on your finger and insert it in your vagina.
You will be amazed at the huge difference in sensation.
Feels better, I get no sensation from a condom
I like it because it is more intimate. Yes, I do think about consequences and always have that conversation before hand so that she is also prepared and wants it raw.
Yes it does and it feels better too. It feels kinda fake and distant with a condom.
yes more intimate and feels better
Feels so much better without a condom and I like cumming inside her, where it belongs
It feels better
As a man, I need that sense of animal release. When my girlfriend and I have sex we are reduced to our most base selves. Shorn of all pretense. I am all that I am and nothing else, giving the most elemental thing a man can give to a woman - my sperm, my seed. My girlfriend is giving herself to me, her naked body for my use and my pleasure and to bear my offspring.
Truthfully, it is very base and very primal and very instinctive. We stop being humans in a way and are just two animals breeding in a field. Doing what nature made us to do and instinct drives us to do. We are all that we are and nothing else, sharing and giving to each other.
Yet here is the funny part. It becomes the most intense intimate love. It is like the whole universe shrinks down to just the two of us. I want her and I need her and when I feel her skin against mine, and when I feel her warmth in my arms and when I feel myself inside her, the sense of connection and intimacy and a sense of sharing and love - and being loved - like I have never known.
It is animal and primal. I feel like a man, raw and bestial, and I feel a sense of physical release. (My girlfriend jokes that I am controlled by my penis.) I also feel warm and safe and love and respected and wanted.
So in a sense it does connect you with the other person. However, as much as anything it is about reducing me - and my - to our animal selves and that is an incredible release.
Hey Johnny Come Lately, this question was asked more than a year ago. 😯
@Daniela1982 So what? I saw it while flipping through some other questions and decided to answer it. Is that a problem?
Unprotected? Condomless?
Well, making love with a condom on is like kissing through a mask :-)
Half the sensation is going...
Also, cumming in a girl is an ultimate form of her accepting you.
I do understand that this can be risky (STDs, pregnancies) especially in short relationships and uncommitted ones.
Even for younger women, if not disease it carries the potential of unwanted pregnancies.
Would you suffocate your grandmother by putting a plastic bag over her head?
Whoa, I don’t think it’s right to equate sex and your grandmother in the same sentence
Is that before you get her to remove her teeth and give you a Gummy? 😂
Your grandmother had sex how do you think you got here. she's probably having sex right now.
@ChrisMaster69 lol you'd like that you filthy bear
I understand that but I respect her enough. Not to do it with her or know or in the house. Lol sir not the gummy lol wow.
Lol that’s me, 😈