Why do men slut shame so fast?

Question

Is it because you can't have those "sluts"?

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I'm not one of them so I can't tell... but your assessment seems spot on

I read something about one time... it did suggest it is a very insecure way and an attempt to deal with their inadequacy and feel like it was "their choice" to ruin their chances with you... and not that you "rejected" them when they didn't even try a thing

sabotage, at its best

blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

I go back and forth on this. You can do what you want. Not at all judging you on your choices.

However men worry if they can’t trust a girl once they get in a relationship. When you get variety you often crave more variety. That’s the problem.

wolfcat87 · Accepted Answer

That definitely has not been the reason I've ever seen any guy slut shame. They've all been genuinely grossed out and see the woman as a red flag and danger. Men who want sluts generally are nice to them and go for it.

Disha10 · Accepted Answer

Don't get offended if you are a slut just accept the reality and say"i know lol".  And don't let it bother you if you are not a slut just laugh lol

laraWM · Answer

Yes it could be, it's basically sexism

HornyThumper · Answer

Me no understand why humans use big words like "slut shaming" or "fast". Me just know that me want to fuck everything that moves and breathes, regardless of how many dicks it's had in it. Me no care if it's a "slut" or a "prude", as long as it's wet and willing, me ready to pounce! Me think maybe other men just jealous because they can't handle the heat of the "sluts", so they try to shame them and bring them down to their level. Me no care about shame or guilt or any of that crap, me just care about getting my prick deep inside some warm, wet pussy or asshole! Me no care if it's one or ten or a hundred, me just want to unleash my animalistic lust and pound away until me explode in a shower of hot, sticky jizz! Me not ashamed of my desire, me proud to be a horned-up, perverted, dirty-minded freak! So let's all stop the slut shaming and start the slut celebrating! Because me no want just one or two, me want all the sluts in the world!

Chevy1_kb · Answer

A would say iam a slut I don't sleep around with different men I only am a slut with my ex fuck fuck and more fuck I love if he calls me a slut his slut he's a slut to he's sleeping with me and av been told he has 2girlfriends I don't have a boyfriend iam single I was more a bad slut at my ten or early 20 days slept about went to people's houses and never met before am quit a risk taker that way the reason am not scared is because if they did try and fuck about with me or attack me they wouldn't stand a chance at succeding am a tough girl confident also with fighting to that's why am not afraid to be me anything to say then say it but just look out for my assignation sqaud black mamba cerial killer look it's a sign before I knock your block of so yeah a was more of a worse slut as teenager and young 20nts I know iam a slut sleeping with my ex he can call me one if he wants I don't care he is to so fuck it

OlderAndWiser · Answer

What is it that guys do that you classify as "slut shaming?"

EmyyWolf · Answer

Yeah it’s because they feel “ ENTITLED ” to do it. They feel and believe, they have the “ AUTHORITY ” to “ POLICE ” what you do with your body and your existence as a female. Nobody gave them a  title  or  certificate , or  degree  in any study for any man to police and demand you behave a certain way, or restrict yourself from certain men.  It’s a way for these undesirable lemmings to compete with Chads & Brads. To remove some females from the top men

Anemone978 · Answer

No one likes a slut LOL because when has having sluts in society ever been a good thing? Never..

Holsen · Answer

Well tgey like to use sluts and also shaming them makes it more exciting for them and also sluts are more exciting for them and also degrading can be exciting for me too;I know , totally rotten and twisted mans that we have on this world!!

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I don't know... I've seen women shame way faster and more often. I never really thought about it until I saw my wife getting shamed about wanting to not be fat. "Girl, if yo man don't want you da way you is, den he ain't worth shit" and all that. I was like damn, how did this become about me? She just doesn't want the diabetus.

That's how it is though... the women and faggots do the shaming and somehow it becomes us normal dude's fault.

Saiesh30 · Answer

It is because character assassination is the easiest thing to do these days. If you can't achieve something then just downgrade it be it any way.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Probably because if you might be sloppy seconds, and might try to trick them into believing otherwise, and then surprise, they had a right to doubt, then you've conned them.

One of a man's greatest fears is being conned. Especially if baby trapping or STDs are part of the act of fraud.

It's right up there with fear of a bear attack. Or an armed robber.

Berethor · Answer

There was a slut that I turned down, so I really don't want a slut.

AliceM611 · Answer

Do they. I find its usually other women that do the shaming

Miristheiss · Answer

Women do that to each other too.

Probably because many guys would like there to be virtuous girls out there for wife material.

Modern, feminist, sexually empowered women who have already ridden 20 dicks are not wife material so there isn't much left for marriage in the west.

Even worse, 15-20% of western girls are actually sex workers now with Onlyfans and are whores who literally sell themselves to men online.

There is so much slut shaming because there are so many sluts.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I shame when I feel it's necessary to shame.

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

Sluts should be shamed. They're disgusting 🤮

nastyb · Answer

many of these men who "slut shame" are the very same ones who sleep around and visit prostitutes

Nikki1989 · Answer

Sour grapes.

syncheart · Answer

Dictionary Definitions from Oxford Languages slut /slət/ noun 1. OFFENSIVE a woman who has many casual sexual partners. Dictionary Definitions from Oxford Languages slut sham·ing noun the action or fact of stigmatizing a woman for engaging in behavior judged to be promiscuous or sexually provocative. "some of the criticism smacks of slut shaming" I think people just like to be mean and judgmental.

Benjiman19 · Answer

I have never slut shamed someone who hasn't slept with 5 people in 2 weeks time. Now, I might call a girl a slut to her face but only if she's said she wants to be degraded. Or if she's a close friend and she knows I'm messing around.