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Sexual Health What’s the reason?
esp. when we aren’t in a relationship
Why do men want to know when you were last intimate especially when we aren’t in a relationship?
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5 40Great question, I can't think of a reason. Perhaps since they feel comfortable enough to ask that question they are hoping it'll spark something that leads back to the bedroom?
Male ego is why. It is none of their business.
I have never asked a woman this question.
He possibly wants to know the time line incase you do become intimate and you turn up pregnant.
It’s a turn on for me if your ex was way bigger
For the same reason women would want to know
I wouldn’t. Unless something funny happened. Did you fart?
Body count matters no offence intended
It shouldn’t if you’re not looking for a relationship and if you’re just looking for sex….
Maybe because they are a virgin and they want to know if you are also a virgin before they commit themselves to the relationship?
Because you're so hot for him...
Guys like talking about sex with women. It’s a way to start the conversation about sex.
Shouldn’t be discussed on a first date
Yeah I agree with you.
Why was he bold enough to ask it.
I’m not sure why. Maybe he just doesn’t know any better?
He does… he really does. I think he tried to sabotage the date… in context … I think he believes that I’m sex deprived bc I ask him (out of anxiousness) if he’s only looking for sex… even though he didn’t mention it at All during our texting stage/text… I really had my guard up… I’m surprised he asked me that and then when I said a year and a half he joked about me having a “collection”…(dildo) …
Well knowing that now, I would assume he was just horny and hoping for sex sooner than later.
Do u mean guys u meet irl or here?
he's probably horny.
Former man whore here. I always asked because I wanted to ensure that I wasn't going to be eaten out a girl who had a guy recently cum in her. It was a respect thing for myself.
We want to know how "used" you are.
They're nosey. Women are very manipulative and always want to know your triggers. Always give a women just enough. Never let her in your kitchen.
Most men want purity in a woman. And when women have such ease of access to so many options, men want to see that they have the self control and morals to not act on them. It’s just how it is for us… it might seem controlling or whatever, but we want to see that you’re committed too, value us, and are serious about the time you spend with us (as men).
You can not (or may not) like it, but that’s just the facts. And a lot of men really aren’t as promiscuous as a lot of women think. Just because the top 10% of guys are out there playing the field doesn’t mean it’s fair to project their behavior onto every other man and think it’s ok for women to do the same and play the field…
You can obviously do whatever you want, but people have to live with the consequences of their choices and actions.
For later. "Whose the daddy?"
Because once women lose their virginity they are always in a state of having sex with someone.
They will have one nite stands, friends with benefits, bar drag offs, hook ups, etc.
As a man, we know that she is giving some dude sex and need to know if she is worth putting effort into or not.
Maybe to know if they will be getting sex anytime soon or if it’s been too long, then it may take you longer to get back into it, also trying to find out if you’ve had many partners
That’s so lame. Especially when I can just lie… why does it even matter.
Yeah that’s true if you knew why he was asking
If I asked you that question or any woman that question in person, it is such a cringe topic that I would only have to be silent watch and listen to your body language, facial expression and your actual answer and know if you are lying or telling the truth.