Why do people care so much about virginity on here?

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As if it was something necessary, why is sex so important? Does it really matter? I think it's pathetic

Anon621 · Accepted Answer

Me personally as a virgin I can understand why some people care about virginity but also I think it's important to understand that getting passionate about an issue can potentially be dangerous depending on how you look at it. In one way, you care about an issue (virginity in this case) so much that you want to share what you feel are minority opinions that many people will have different opinions on or don't care to comment on. On the other hand, when you're passionate about something it can be dangerous because then that's when you can start becoming narrow minded and you refuse to listen to other opinions since you are well aware your opinion is unpopular. For me personally I'm quite surprised many people care about virginity so much on GaG but also I think it's important to have discussions about other issues to that are not related to virginity.

Lazi-boi · Accepted Answer

Its desirable, to men at least, because it shows you have no history, no crazy ex boyfriends in the past, no STDs, no abortions etc.

It also shows your character if you managed to resist the temptation of sensual gratification, just how someone who's fat is going to have character flaws like a lack of self discipline, a virgin woman constantly being hit on by guys but keeping her focus on I'm assuming marriage is very desirable for the right guy.

Obviously, being a virgin is completely undesirable if you just want to slay left and right.

Sincerly_KittyCat · Accepted Answer

I dont know why other people on here care about their virginity, but I care for mine because I believe in soul ties, the intent behind the act of sex is important to me, I just dont want to feel like I've made a mistake by having sex with someone who wasn't worth it and because of my core beliefs.

Rachelspiks · Accepted Answer

Yes, I've noticed that as well, and I've only just joined recently. Where do these people come from? Why do they care so much about something that just doesn't matter? It's mind-boggling.

purplepoppy · Answer

Virginity and it's loss is a experience we all share and so perhaps bonds us.

SunnyFlorida · Answer

In the US, it is easier for a man to keep his virginity than a woman. If you are a person's first; it is a unique experience. Marrying a virgin is desirous because statistically, virgins are the least likely to file for divorce because they have no other points of reference other than their first love.

Bobsyeruncle · Answer

I’ve been with over 120 women in my 50+ years of sexual activity.

Far and away most of them were ‘working girls’ during my time in the Army.

Most of the rest were women willing to have casual, no commitment sex with a tomcat such as I was when I was young.

A very, very few have been women who were special and memorable, in one way or another, to me.

AndyOh · Answer

This is a forum for questions and answer, and a lot of the young ladies and men are still virgin, so the question will come up. It is a big deal too to be a virgin and to lose one's virginity. I know I have answered a few questions from people about their first time.
And sex is important and something we all share in be male or female.
I don't think understand why you think sex is pathetic.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

It's an act that people have been doing for about trillion bagillion gazillion years, it's not that easy to quit. People whom been drinking and smoking for 20 years can't quit their habit and you want a million years habit just to stop? Do you have any idea how impossible this plan is?

slatyb · Answer

It's an old religious taboo that many people accept without much thought. I'm with you. It made sense whom women were married in their teens and there were no effective contraceptives or prophylactics. Those days are long gone and in developed countries few people (about 10%) abstain until marriage.

crispycookie · Answer

I never understood that either. It's disappointing to see so many people especially teenagers feeling insecure about being virgin. There's nothing to be ashamed about being a virgin.

wkozak · Answer

I don't care about what's going on here or why people talk about something, actually i think virginity is so personal thing which i can't judge people because of it.

Blackcupcake · Answer

I sure do NOT care.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

Lotta young people growing up in an 'always sex' culture now who are not always having sex and they think theyre weird for it. Probably think they'll be shamed for it like how the people who had sex during the 'no sex outside marriage' time were shamed for it. Used to be bad to not be a virgin at a younger age well now it's just flipped so they think it's bad to still be a virgin at a young age. Same problem different expression of it. Just kids being insecure from all the bullshit they hear and see.

exitseven · Answer

I don;t know but I wish they would give it a rest.

Anpu23 · Answer

I agree.

DaveToo · Answer

A girl can lose her virginity riding a horse, straddling a pommel horse, or balance beam. The definition of virginity seems to be that patch of flesh that stretches across the vaginal opening. Why doesn't a tampon break that? What if a young girl, say under the age of 12, fingers herself while masturbating, and breaks it?

Losing a girl's virginity actually just means having sexual penetration by a male penis.

animesenpai · Answer

I don't care

DWornock · Answer

Because you shouldn't want 12, 13, and 14-year-old girls to be having sex prior to marriage. For most of human history, those are traditionally the ages that young women got married. Religious scholars believe the Virgin Mary was 13 when she was married, a common age at the time. Shakespeare's Juliet was two weeks shy of 14 when she was to be engaged and, at the time, people didn't think she was too young to marry. However, they would have been opposed to her having sex before she was engaged.

In modern times most people believe girls should be older to get married, but that belief is a short-term aberration of human behavior and beliefs. During, this aberration of human history where only older women marry, it is not illogical that many people have a different view of virginity.

Likes2drive · Answer

Well I’m not going to get one at my age so I don’t think about it , maybe they just want to be first

IncognitoBandito · Answer

I think people just like saying the word virgin

lorenzomichael · Answer

I didn't have it for to long anyways so I don't miss it so I can't care for it.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I am sure most people on this site dont care about virginity

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

What a bunch of noobs

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