Why do people get mad if your sexual preference is circumcised penises?

[Anonymous]

People keep saying " oh it's a preference for mutilated penuses" and the thing is most guys in my age group are circumcised. Shit I didn't even know there was a such thing as an uncirmcumcused penis until last year and I searched up what was wrong with it cause I thought the guy had an extra growth on his penis ( searched it up and now I know that's the way guys are born) but I'm honestly just so much more attracted to circumcised ones, uncut isn't a deal breaker but it would take a lottttt of getting used to. Also guys before you say " but it's mutilated" when I was gaining my sexual preferences that's all I had ever seen. That's like if they cut womens nipples off at birth ( I don't agree with either if these things morally, but if your already circumcised I find you more attractive) and you were used to women having no nipples and then you noticed that nipples are kinda ugly. I totally support guys who don't wanna get circumcised and I might not even do it to my child, and I'll wait to ask if he wants it when he's a teen, but I think if your really not attracted to something it's not wrong to dislike it during sex

[RickPen]

Circumcision, for nonreligious reasons, is an American thing mostly, and forced on infants who can't consent. Many are botched, or have adverse outcomes without the owner knowing or admitting it.

Here is where your thinking differs. Your society deemed circumcision (amputation of about as much skin as a person's hand) as normal, then inventing the word "uncorcumcision." The equivalent would be if everyone had an arm removed at birth and we walked around calling those with both "unamputated." This is backwards thinking. There is nothing "extra" on a normal penis. Circumcision is removal.

Why mutilation? Because it removes a normally healthy part of anatomy. Imagine if your clit were exposed and rubbing in your underwear 24/7. Eventually it would desensitze. This is what circumcision does. But there's more. The drying out of the glans penis worsens the sensation loss. Additionally, the prepuce (foreskin) has more nerve endings in it than the glans, and they are touch sensitive types. Imagine if someone cut off the lips of your mouth and said you could kiss better. That's a fraction of what circ removes. A test in 2007 showed that circumcised men lost 70-80% of sensation in the penis compared to normal men.

The real crux is that this started in the US as a way to curb masturbation, or cure other diseases by Kellogg (the cornflakes guy). It was then seen as a sign of "money" and "good breeding" later being pushed for more diseases, and desirable. I'll add that when performed on infants, pain medication is rarely used. Adequate medication can't be used, as it would kill the baby. Supposedly, over 100 babies in US die from circ-caused issues, with bleeding out being the largest. Some lose their penis entirely, or have too much skin taken off. Others are left in chronic pain.

When one says they prefer "cut dicks," the implies that you want your man to have little sensation, possible chronic pain, the need for rougher sex, probable inability to orgasm that worsens with age, and for them to have suffered this as an infant without good pain management. Oh, and then the US mocks those who lost their penis to the operation, or have issues directly from it.

If the tissue is healthy, and then amputated, that is textbook definition of amputation. Given the crippling results, it's functionally worse. Girls are illegal to cut until of age. Boys should have the same choice, but instead are cut, or called some derogatory name because Americans think backward. 70% of the world's men are intact and normal. Circumcision isn't necessary, and prevents nothing other than a good sex life.

If you're for the forced cutting of infants and boys without medical cause, and prefer the look of one with scars on it (and every single cur one has a scar), then yes, it's a mutilation fetish, but oh so popular in America.

[Asker]

Nah I don't agree with the process, so I won't be getting for my son unless he's old enough to ask for it. Grown men already have what their gonna have, it just looks so much better to me. The skin puts my off sexually, can't help it. Also to call it a mutilation fetish wouldn't be cool to the guys who've had the procedure done

[RickPen]

I understand your preference, but won't mince words. It is still an amputation or socially acceptable mutilation fetish. Had you grown up around normal penises, you would probably feel differently, because you already stated it was all you ever knew. I'll also never understand why people ascribe asthetic value to genitals. Not one of them is pretty, or smells good. They aren't designed to be looked at, or interact with our mouths: they're built specifically to function one with the other. Surprisingly, men complain very little about female genitals, regardless of what they see. Imagine if men were accepted in the same regard. My advice is that if it bothers you, turn off the lights, and also look into cognitive therapy. I don't belief the "preference" (fetish) is healthy because it requires the man to be damaged.

[Asker]

How are you supposed to give a blowjob without seeing it. And es all genitals are ugly but done are definitely uglier than others. I've even seen some look nice, like when Dylan Obriens nudes where leaked

[RickPen]

I suppose you should ask a blind person how they perform sex. Eyes aren't necessary when one is touching, rubbing, and exploring the other person's body. I'm assuming you haven't tried that option, otherwise you'd not have asked. If you like the form of a person's genitals, good for you, but they are not, in any way, built to look pleasing. They're built to function in a physically pleasurable wa, but your statement of agreement and then backpedaling with some that looked nice seems counterproductive. Either all are or aren't attractive, which will be aatter of opinion, regardless of their functional intent.

[Asker]

Some circumcised ones look nice * and genitals aren't supposed to be beautiful but their not supposed to be super off-putting either

[JackSmy]

@Rickpen Thanks for your DOGMA, and IDEALS, that are just personal interpretations and Nonsense, I think! "Many botched"? Post the source, a Medical Journal, maybe, and not some Tabloid!! Using the word, "Amputation" to get people upset, and afraid, good tactic, for the ones with no solid point! Smoke and mirrors, and confusing people with words, and lying to them!! Then you add "Mutilation"! Good ploy, and that might get some, maybe, to question, but it is BULLSHIT! Then, comparing the penis foreskin, to the HORRIFIC clitoral mutilations that happen in some nations, though they are NOTHING ALIKE!! More lies, and SMOKE and Mirrors, to the truth!! You use every kind of Manipulation tool, don't you? "Supposedly, over 100 babies in US die from circ-caused issues, with bleeding out being the largest. . ." Post the reference, or this is just lies and BS!!! I have NEVER heard of this, ever!! "Some lose their penis entirely, or have too much skin taken off. Others are left in chronic pain." AGAIN, POST THE SOURCE, A REAL SOURCE, a MEDICAL JOURNAL!! I doubt you can!! I am soooo sorry that you feel so much hate, and are so confused, posting so many lies and mistruths!! I wish you could get help!!

[RickPen]

@JackSmy Perhaps that's your way of showing interest to learn more. Well, you did ask.
The dictionary definition of amputation, from Webster, is
to remove by or as if by cutting
especially : to cut (a part, such as a limb) from the body
Mutilation. Webster says this: : to cut up or alter radically so as to make imperfect
Oxford says this:
Inflict a violent and disfiguring injury on.

https://circumcision.org/studies-on-circumcision/

Information ofcarious studies. It also points that side effects have not been properly studied. As I know of a couple hundred thousand men who are equally as unhappy as I am about a dysfunctional penis due to neuropathy issues directly from circ, I can also say that you haven't bothered looking, and readily guzzle the corporate cum that is for circumcision.
A study was done in 2007 regarding sensitivity. Here are the results, which indicate that the foreskin is more eroginously sensitive than the glans. Cutting it off in a nonconsenting infant would equal mutilation.
http://www.cirp.org/library/anatomy/sorrells_2007/

Did you ever hear of aposthia? Look it up. It's a birth defect.

Did you know that death or loss of penis are two side effects? Have you ever spoken to a urologist about it? They will have seen more of the results from botched circs, which is surprisingly common given roughly 50% of the skin that's removed from the penis. Have you ever had tearing of the skin, a dry flaky glans, meatal stenosis, recurrent UTI? It's even associated with ED due to neuropathy. Chronic pain happens, and I'm living proof of it, because of amputation neuromas (what the urologist told me). Some people are prone to them. It causes chronic pain that feels like being cut into. I wouldn't wish it on anyone save those who like to cut babies. So before you hurl judgment and act the buttface, try having an open mind.

[RickPen]

For those who enjoy longer reads with a full citation list at the bottom. Even doctors claim it's harmful

www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org/.../

[JackSmy]

This question keeps coming up, and it seems that the ones that are against circumcision, and MOSTLY WOMEN, with NO IDEA HOW IT FEELS, are the most judgmental ones!!
Some do it for religious reasons, and others, because it is what they know!
I was, and didn't have a choice, BUT I WOULD NOT REVERSE IT!! I like mine, as it is, and a lot of women are more used to circumcised ones, and they seem to like that, and we love them!! :)
Now, with all the Racial stuff, and people confused with everything, and protesting EVERY FUCKING LITTLE THING, of course, this should come up!
I ask, WHY should a woman have ANY SAY, about a male being circumcised?
If she can control that, then why can't men say that women need to have breast implants, when he thinks they should?
HOW IS IT DIFFERENT?
Women, when it comes to a man's penis, FUCK OFF, and it is not your place to say if he should be circumcised or not!!

[Asker]

We only have any say lol. I never said I would ask somebody to get circumcised. We do have a day in whether we dated uncirmcumcused men tho

[JackSmy]

@ Asker, and I NEVER said you can't have your say, that is your right, but I disagree! If you are having a male child, DEFINITELY, YOU HAVE A SAY, but so does he Father! I also, NEVER said ANYTHING about women dating and loving un-circumsiced men! YOU CHOOSE WHO YOU LOVE!! Did you not read what I wrote, or did you just INTERPRET IT, FROM YOUR PERSPECTIVE and JUDGE?

[Anonymous]

Same reason that I would be displeased with a man who openly had a preference for girls who've had their clitoral hood removed... It would be different if circumcision was something that some men chose to have done on themselves when they were old enough to make an informed decision. Having a preference for something that's the result of a forced amputation to a child's genitalia is beyond heinous

[Asker]

Not really when most of the guys in my area gave had it done

[TonyV]

They didn't have ot done, there parent had it removed right after they were born. Baby males aren't even done crying yet when it's done to them

[supercutebutt]

I like circumcised better, too. It is fine to have that preference. :)

[ohshee]

The best part about G&G I THATS WHY you and me and everyone is here to learn you can like love feel do anything you want we all can with the nipples please bring them back they turn me on. Just like a. Uncut cock turns u on its not a big deal mine is cut I've been told good things a out it and I just say huh? It's a part of me and think about it the only reason I'm answering is ur need to make the choice an out your son when he is a baby if u wait until he can make the choice it's going to be moreeeee pain ful

[integrale77]

Circumcision without a valid medical reason and no consent from the child is technically mutilation.
There are religious reasons also but I don't want to get into those.

Depending where you live in the world will determine how common circumcision is. Correct me if I'm wrong the tendancy in the states untill recent years was to circumcise regardless of need because its seen as more hygienic (which is wrong its just less upkeep for hygiene).

In the UK doctors are less prone to circumcise unless needed.

I'm uncircumcised and never had any complaints over the aesthetics and wouldn't change it for anyone seeing it all works fine. I'm more interested to know if that little extra flap of skin is noticeable to a woman during sex?

[JackSmy]

@integrale77 And I AM circumcised, and wouldn't change it if I could! I have no issues with sex, and sensations, and all of the women I have been with just assumed a circumcised penis!! One even smiled, and said she was glad as a friend of hers was just with a good friend of mine, a guy following Islam, and she was "grossed out' that he wasn't circumcised! It's a personal thing, and CANNOT be resolved, as RIGHT OR WRONG!!! It is, what it is, and for religious, or social reasons, it will be! DEAL WITH IT!!

[TonyV]

Well they are mutilated so why is it a problem to say it? It effects a lot, the penis loses a lot of sensation when its cut.

Its awkward to ask cause its personal and not really any of your business unless your having sex.

It's what a natural penis is suppose to look like so your probably never gonna hear a guy worn you in advance. It's not like a sex change or something, it's a natural penis and frankly should be expected. I have no idea why my parents cut mine, kind of thought that was mostly a Jewish thing and I'm not jewish🤷‍♂️

Do you want guys asking you for details about your vagina early and well before sex to see if it's good enough for them?

How about right here and now, do you want to describe your vagina too me?, probably not cause its personal and awkward to ask.

[Asker]

I get that it's " the natural one" but I literally know nothing about it. Like that's not the one they showed in health class. I just wanna go in knowing what to expect yk. And also I don't know you...

[TonyV]

I'm sorry you got jipped on sex ed, they us where I live. Indont really want to tell you cause your already against them enough as is but you should probably know. Aside from religions reasons it's done to make male hygiene more convenient. Guys with uncercumsized penises have to take more care cleaning it. A build up of smegma can build up in there if they dont keep it clean enough. So if you ever see that he isn't keeping his tool clean enough, it's not literally a uncut thing, it's a poor hygiene thing. Also you do realize you slide it back, like you slide the skin down the shaft to reveal the head right?

[TonyV]

Tou could maybe expect uncut to cum easier or earlier. That sort of thing differs for all people of course but uncut penises are much more sensitive, us cut guys loose a lot of feeling

[Asker]

But if the guy cums too quickly it's no fun

[TonyV]

I know it's not, I'm just saying something to maybe expect. That and the possibility of smegma if the guy doesn't practice good hygiene.

[Kurαȷ]

And if you have a daughter, are you going to wait to ask her if she wants to get labiaplasty for her "kinda ugly" skin folds?
How about boob implants?

You know, neat vulvas and bigger boobs look better, and they are the sexual preference of most men.

[Asker]

It's cause I don't know how hell feel about it if most if the guys his age have it done... Also not ask him per session but if he brought it up when he was a little older

[Asker]

And yea, I've actually heard guys say they won't go down on a girl with a large labia. Sexual preferences exist, it'd be a problem if guys said their daughters had to get plastic surgery for it, but I already explained how I'm not gonna fo it to my son. What am I supposed to do force myself to be attracted to it?

[Kaneki05]

No one with a brain cares really what your preference is too it. it's totally ok. Just strange to me i suppose never heard a women have a preference. My bestfriend is kinda the same tho she kinda forgets forskin is even a thing cause she's only seen cut.

[_SOARER]

As an uncut guy, I think the preference thing is legitimate. Especially since peoples sexual appetites are formed by pornography now and most porn stars are circumcised. it would make sense that people watch that and want it.

Men get mad, because they are insecure about their sexuality. They identify too much with their sexuality so when a woman has a preference which eliminates them as a suitor, they see it as an attack on their identity.

I hope this explains it :)

[Asker]

Yea I think that makes sense, I personally don't agree with the process , but I can't help my sexual preferences

[AmeerX]

I think they should not have a problem with that

[dac91]

Look I dont know about getting mad

If they are maybe they aren't an adult enough to realize that you have your own preferences and opinions and are aloud to have them and are able to disagree about things and still be cool

Now I'm circumcised but from a doctor they say it does and can make the size smaller
I have no issues with mine

I have had an ex that says that they liked uncircumcised better and they have a different feel I don't know but everyone had a preference

[OfDeath]

Because you are favouring the continuation of an unethical practice.

[Asker]

I said I wouldn't force my son into it, but my sexual preference is circumcised guys I don't see anything wrong that

[OfDeath]

You're favouring mutilation over normalcy. And by saying you prefer one over the other, you are body shaming normalcy too.

[Asker]

That's not body shaming at all, and it's the norm in America lol. Guys say they black short girls m9re than talk girls all the time is that body shaming? I'm not telling grown men to go get circumcised I just prefer men who are already cut. Am I supposed to force myself to find it attractive?

[OfDeath]

You literally wrote you thought the guy "had an extra growth on his penis". You have been caught body shaming red handed. Cutting off part of someone's dick without their consent is not a normal thing to do.

[Asker]

Lmao, I said I looked that up before I knew what foreskin was. I'd never seen a penis look like that. Not body shaming just ignorance

[OfDeath]

You are ignorant and that ignorance lead you to body shame.

[Asker]

Lmao what? I don't just shame people with deformities I just thought I t was one

[OfDeath]

Every time you answer, you say something even worse

[Asker]

You can't get mad at someone for a preference. Not like I can change it

[OfDeath]

Yes I can. Especially when it's a preference for someone who has been unethically mutilated.

[Asker]

It's a preference for 70% to 80% of the guys in my age group. You wouldn't have a problem if my preference was the other way around be honest.

[OfDeath]

Well if your preference was the other way, it wouldn't be unethical.

[Asker]

Oh so then it'd be ok. For the record guys don't get to choose to be circumcised, so disliking their genitals for a procedure they didn't choose to get done us even more unethical. at least uncircumcised guys chose to be that way

[MountAverage]

Well, you're entitled to your preferences. But it's also important to understand that circumcision is an archaic, barbaric, unenecessary procedure that is forced on boys before they can consent to it, and alter their sexual organ and its sensitivity for their whole lives. Circumcised penises are often significantly less sensitive (that negative when it comes to sex) than intact ones. So while there's nothing wrong with you prefering the look of circumcised penises, please try to understand these things first. The US is one of the very few western, "developed" countries in the world in which circumcision is still the norm. If you grew up in any European country for instance, I can assure you you wouldn't have this preference, because you'd not be used to circumcised penises.

[Asker]

Yea I totally agree with you. I'd never have my son get it unless he asked, also I gurantee my preference would be different if I was born in Europe

[Quidthonian]

It is all to do with the culture you grow up in. In your experience, you only knew circumcised. Your culture circumcises, mine doesn't. That is OK.

People get mad because you are different from them. According to them, your upbringing is "wrong", "immoral", whatever. They are trying to force their beliefs, their values down your throat. Those people think that their way of life, thinking, ideology, whatever is the only way to live.
Those people have closed minds. They are too blind, to see that other ways of living exist. I don't know if their authorities have manipulated them to such an effect.

[dudeinohio]

You have a right to your preferences, no matter what anyone else says.

[jahaims]

Because a circumcised penis is mutilated genitals. What if dudes wouldn't have sex with you because you wouldn't cut part of your clitoris and cause it nerve damage just because it is a old bullshit religious ceremony and practice.

[Asker]

I mean ig that's his preference. He'd have a hard time finding it though. And I'm sure somebody wouldn't want me to have to " get over" their penis. Guys are very sensitive about it so most guys want you to actually like it. Some guys feelibgs will get hurt if you spit instead if swallow. They are very sensitive in bed and I feel like a guy would notice I'm avoiding it a bit yk

[jahaims]

Maybe just the batch of dudes you have been with. If a guy is that sensitive that his feelings are hurt because you don't swallow he is going to have a lot of problems in life. And if you are willing to mutilate and desensitize your sex organs for a man you need to gain some confidence and perspective on life. Best of luck to you.

[Asker]

The thing is , grown men have already had it done it not had it done. I'd never ask a guy I was seeing yo get circumcised, I'd just prefer it if they already were

[Trooper205]

I get PRECISELY what you're saying! I always thought Circumcised penises were the default look! I had to do research to see anything otherwise.

[coffeewithcream]

How would this come up?
Who would care?

[Asker]

Someone your having sex with...

[coffeewithcream]

Well, by that time it's a little late for details unless you said, "Halt! Is that penis circumcised? Let me inspect!"

[COMMODOREII]

I myself am circumcised and don't agree with the mutilation idea. You have a right to your preferences dont let anyone try to persuade you or humiliate you for your preferences.

[RickPen]

Mutilation is the removal of healthy tissue. Unless performed on dying/rotting/cancerous/incurably infected skin, it falls under medical textbook definition of mutilation. You don't have to like that fact, but that is literally what it is. Any attempt to negate that is a sign of cognitive dissonance. You can be happy with what you were allowed to have: most men are. Many men are also furious with damage from, or the hypocritical human rights violation of needless genital cutting, especially on nonconsenting infants.

[COMMODOREII]

@RickPen awww poor baby. Did mommy slap you when you were young?

[RickPen]

That's a poor attempt at deflection. I stand by my statement. If you can't act an adult at debate it without the ad hominems, then you need to figure it out. I'm sorry you were cut and feel so helpless as a man that you have to attack another man because he pointed our your flawed logic.

[COMMODOREII]

@RickPen im not sorry im cut. Its in my religion as a respect to God. Lol

[RickPen]

Are you Jewish?

[COMMODOREII]

@RickPen you have a problem with that?

[RickPen]

Do you have a problem with being asked?

[COMMODOREII]

@RickPen i have a problem with your attitude.

[RickPen]

What attitude? How can you possibly infer any attitude over text? You're projecting.

[robertKugler]

It's a silly hang up... but what ever floats your boat... your r entitled to be as ridiculous as you see fit...
To each there own... I can respect that.. fair is fair... I probably who get to the bottom of info like that sooner... Than later... To avoid... Letting your self down... wouldn't want prince charming to hand you back over to the dragon he rescued u from.

[Twalli]

It's only natrual to have sexual preferences

[Paul09]

Have you curcumsised yourself? Why not? I just find it weird to cut a piece of your body that you are born with. There's a reason that we are born with it. Religion started that b. s. But you are allowed to like what you like.

[asshole_]

Confirmation bias

People who have uncut, will want you to say uncut, while cut people will want you to say cut