Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So I was recently having sex with a doctor I have been seeing and he asked me if I was on BC and I said no and let's use a condom. Here's the thing I don't just "hookup" and I still religiously use condoms bc I'm terrified of getting an STD. I lectured him and said "what about diseases...: also what if I was a lying women trying to "trap u" you are just going to take someone's word that they are on the pill?"
His reply was that he still pulls out and that he thinks the only disease that is a big deal anyways is AIDS.
I think this is a TERRIBLE PHILOSOPHY what's your take?
Why do people have sex without a condom?
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I should also mention which is really going to trigger people, is he feels you can dodge most of them by not having sex with blacks bc of the statistics. But that still leaves a lot of margin for error, plus I don't know it kinda sounds racist. I'm not into black guys but I don't see something wrong with it. (I should mention he's not black but he is not white either). Also for people commenting I'm not sleeping with anyone else although I am dating
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What Girls & Guys Said
17 44On the one hand I agree with him, because I HATE condoms. On the other hand, that sounds like risky foolish behavior, until such time as you can trust the other person.
all these point are true
they want a baby
Wow yea some people might be riddled with it even a doc, women one int like that really lol
I don't understand the last part? the type, "women on int"
Women ones are clean.
You need to up your standards I'd never think of even siting near a person like this or who's been with lol
people are more considered with their own pleasure int he moment to worry about the consequences later
We all die, life is pointless, no need for condoms, i never wear em.
Very smart and a good example for everyone lol.
Because they enjoy their fertility and procreative ability and don't want to shame or mock it.
No this guy was definitely not trying to get me pregnant.
It's fun to Cum in girls & it feels better
It feels a lot better.
I no way agree with him
wait are u saying u agree or not the double negative is confusing?
I don't agree
I think his philosophy is so wrong and he's meant to be a doctor.
Cause it feels a thousand times more intimate and I trust my partner
Trust in what?
Trust that he isn't sleeping around and has gotten an STD.
Oh, I see, What I thought is you trust him in pulling out
It feels better
I wouldn't fuck a girl who's had a black dick inside her, especially if he went condomless
I'm on oral contraception, and never use condoms. It takes away a lot of the feeling for both parties involved. My guy had a period where he always pulled out, maybe out of fear of an unwanted pregnancy, but he soon overcame that fear.
It's more than "terrible", it's "dangerous". What kind of doctor is that lol?
Geeschhh... What kind of DOCTOR is THIS guy? This doesn't sound like something that a doctor would do or say.
I see your update. I'm still wondering what kind of "doctor" this guy is...
1st year resident anesthesiologist
He sounds like an idiot. You have to be pretty smart to go through medical school. Something is missing in his brain. Sorry to be so abrupt about this.
no no you are fine the thing is you can be educated and still make bad choices, in his mind if he gets chlymadia no big deal I guess
LOL Not something I want regardless of the level of seriousness... 😎
He ain't doctor if he has sex without condoms haha
Joking
Because it feels 10,000 times better.
The feeling is so much better without that some guys will risk it even though you just pointed out all the things that can happen, but that’s kind of shocking he said that if he is a doctor
Yea it is shocking to hear from medical professionals. I have also had friends who were N. P. s have unprotected sex outside a relationship.
They must be gamblers