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"vaginal." And is it *better* than vaginal? Well no, but it's not worse either, it's just *different.* It's really really good. And so is pussy, but just in different ways. One of the main draws about anal is that there's basically no risk of pregnancy, and the guy doesn't have to be careful and can cum in her ass which feels absolutely amazing and it's hot as hell. But anal also usually requires more preparation because you need lube to do it unless you're a pro (some people say the rectum has *no* lube in and of itself which isn't true, but it does not have enough to have sex with usually). It is also easier to transmit STD infection in anal, *IF* one of you has an STD obviously (if you don't then it doesn't matter of course). And anal feels really good for the girl too, if she relaxes and gets used to it, but a lot of girls don't (or refuse to for some reason) get to that point.
Also of course with anal, she's gotta be clean in there, or else gross stuff can happen, so unless she's sure that she's clean and/or has used an enema to clean herself out, then it's not a good idea. Long story short, anal is awesome and if you are curious you should absolutely do it; the guy will probably be pretty happy at the suggestion. Use *WATER BASED* lube first (nothing other than water based ever), try a finger or two first gently to lube her up, then have him go slowly. It'll hurt a bit at first but just wait and after a few minutes she should get used to it and it'll start feeling good. What do you guys think? Good luck.
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15 14Have you heard about hemmorhoids?
Yep. What about them
Anal sex can cause them. Trust me, you dont want your girl to have them
It's worth mentioning that like ten things cause hemorrhoids, and anal sex is just one of them; it's also worth mentioning that anal sex isn't a cause of them for most people, just some. If you can find anything even close to a conclusive study, peer-reviewed preferably, that shows a clear correlation and shows it for the majority of the anal-sex-having population, I'd love to see it.
www.hemorrhoidshemroids.com/...ds-hemorrhoids.html I don't know if that site is credible enough for you or not, but you said yourself that it is possible for anal sex to cause hemorrhoids. Like with everything, a lot depend on genes, and you can't know if she has predispositions for that. I have extarnal hemorrhoids since a little kid and let me tell you smth: I wouldn't wish it to my worst enemy. Men are all so disgusted by me
For sure. I'm sorry to hear that. You said you've had them since you were a little kid though?
Yes, they are gentic ones. It means that they don't cause me any bleeding, itching or other problems, but they just are there and look horrible. Operation is too expensive for me and doctor even said that in case where they aren't doing harm to my health operation is not needed and it could only cause unnecessary complications
Ouch that sucks. I hope that gets better for you.
just because some people do it does not mean it's "normal" or natural. If it was natural, girls would be able to reproduce from having anal. They cannot. Therefore, it's not natural.
Don't ever go down on a girl then dude; it's not normal or natural, judging by your logic. Mouth isn't made for sexual stuff-- it's made for eating. Good luck keeping a girlfriend with the way you think.
This is a topic/situation where you can’t assume. I’ve been told by girls that all girls love anal if done right, yet you can read the responses from girls. I know for a fact many girls love it but it’s naive and stupid to think it happened overnight, no, they learned to like it. Not all girls have either learned to want anal or interested obviously, so you need to describe what you want, and ask if that is also what she wants before; otherwise, you are just going to be a shitty lover, no pun intended
Agreed. It's not a matter of assumption, I'm just saying people should be more open to it; millions of people already are.
I don't know. I don't really do anal much. I don't like how people blame porn for it's popularity or the spread of disease.
I don't remember porn existing in ancient Greece when anal was at the pique of its popularity.
I think anal is popular because it's less of a thing to do with how it feels and more because of how it looks to people subconsciously.
Imagine one of those children's geometry shape/block things. Anal is like putting a cylinder into a circular hole. It just looks right. You could put the cylinder into a rectangle hole, and whilst it would fit if the cylinder was small enough, it wouldn't look correct. Just a theory.
I don’t know what you’re talking about, there is a massive MASSIVE amount of porn/erotic art from Ancient Greece...
Paintings aren't porn. You think Botticelli jacked off to Venus?
Some are pornographic in nature but were exclusive due to segregation of the rich and the poor and the fact that there was no internet.
Google porn in Ancient Greece, look at the pictures and tell me it’s not porn. Even all over places like Pompeii (Ancient Rome) there’s carved penises on the streets pointing towards brothels and there’s lots of explicit wall paintings of sex acts everywhere. And they’re not boticelli art of just naked people standing around, it’s down right fucking. Super explicit. Get your history right.
Ancient romans*
Still not on par with internet porn. It didn't play with people's minds back then. Nobody cared about it. Today everyone sees it or is affected by it in some way. Porn today is available in and from all countries that caters to all fetishes unless there are no devices to see it on. Erotic art is what you called it. Porn isn't an art. Nobody made murals or penis arrows expecting millions of people to masturbate to them everyday.
I'm obviously exaggerating, but still.
I dunno man I think @Rainie_ is making a good point here.
@Rainie_ Exactly. Was just thinking that. Obviously not in video form but certainly enough to suggest this activity