Why do people think that something is wrong with me just because I enjoy being humiliated, degraded during sex?

Is it necessary to think that i must have went through something horrible in my life and that's why i enjoying being treated like a slut in bed?

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  • If you know that everything is alright, that you enjoy being treated like that in bed, then there's nothing wrong with that.

    It actually takes a lot of confidence for you to be open about what you want in intimacy and this is a sign of healthy preferences and needs.

    People nowadays judge everything and everyone - it doesn't matter if you are submissive or like to be dominant, there will always be someone who will think that's "unhealthy" and blast you think.

    In the end all it matters is that you are happy and with a partner that hopefully is a good fit for you and understands your needs like you understand theirs.

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  • People typically associate humilation and degredation with emotional pain. Some people may not understand that when it comes to sex, it's not necessarily the same thing. A lot of women enjoy being submissive, and I would think the majority of men prefer to be dominant.

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  • I would tend to think that you have a low opinion of yourself and feel that you needed to be treated this way and want to be treated like a piece of trash. Half the people here on G@G complain about how they get treated and yet you relish it. My question is, if you don't think anything is wrong with it, why would you even bring it up to a bunch of strangers? Are you subconsciously seeking help or what? The "what" would be trolling.

  • We shouldn’t be called sluts because we enjoy having sex. There are men who make getting your hair pulled and slapped very arousing. I had a guys spit in mouth and cum on my face. But I somehow enjoyed pleasing him: what’s wrong with that?

    • nothing wrong with that at all. if both are enjoying it then it is extremely erotic :)

    • The thought of that makes me wet as fuck girl

    • You are trolling, aren't you.

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  • It's a paraphilia, but at the same time being submissive is normal behavior for a woman.

    Why do people think that something is wrong with me just because I enjoy being humiliated, degraded during sex?
  • I can't tell you why... some people get in their head what they think is okay and judge the rest.

    If you're happy just go with it!

    I don't think there's anything wrong with you.

  • Because many people assume that whatever sexual activities they don't like must be wrong somehow. But why would you care what they think? Why do they even know what you like? It sounds like you need to meet some more sophisticated people.

  • You are only considered a slut if you are screwing multiple people , just spreading your legs for anybody you find attractive or if you are asking for money , that makes you a slut , but being slutty in bed and allowing your partner to dominate you in bed and degrade you doesn’t make you a slut at all , it just means you love being submissive to your man , most guys love a girl that is submissive to him , so noting wrong with you , what so ever unless you are having sex with multiple guys

  • So long as you do not want blood or pain it's ok. I've been asked to do a few things.

  • I'd guess that the majority of people who're confused with your kink don't understand that it's just a kink.
    Some people's argument is probably connected to the contemporary feminist thought that women better than men, and your kink goes against it.

    For me personally, I don't know if I'd be able to be your kind of guy. I haven't tried yet so there's that.

  • What kind of things do you like in bed that make you feel like a true slut?

    • Dominated, fucked roughly without any mercy, talking extremely dirty to me, spanked, making me walk on all fours and letting him pee on me in my mouth.

    • How about being throat fucked while laying on you back?

    • Yeah I love that too

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  • Fucking same! I love that shit and don’t think I’ve gone through anything horrible.

  • There nothing wrong in that every one have their own fantasies and i do have same kind of fantasy to be controlled by mistress in bed and like to take pain.

  • I don't think anything is wrong. A lot of women like it when their inner slut can come out and play. Is there something in particular that has the guys concerned about you?

  • There is nothing wrong with that. Assholes should just keep their fucking mouths closed and leave you alone. You go girl!

  • No. Most females enjoy this kind of sex. Who am I to judge, I aim to please

  • Nothing wrong with you at all! We need to normalize sexual desires not shame them

  • It is what turns you on many people have different things that are turn on most guys like sluts in bed.

  • Probably would try to make sense of it for them selves

  • Because they probably cannot accept that you're overtly kinky

  • I know some like it..
    Thats normal..
    Thats what turns u on

  • Sexual masochism refers to engaging in, or frequently fantasizing about, being beaten, bound, humiliated, or otherwise made to suffer, resulting in sexual satisfaction. If people with this sexual preference report psychological or social problems as a result, they may be diagnosed with sexual masochism disorder.

  • I love a girl like you!!!