Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health First off please don't judge me too much. I have had a rough time, lost my job and my boyfriend and now I'm working as a waitress to get by and I decided to simply enjoy myself and this way of life for a while to get over the shit and before can really pick myself up again.
So yeah, I drink and party a lot right now and when I work, I'm in that same scene. I've had quite some drunk hookups. I'm having the way too much fun for my own good, but honestly, the attitude of some guys worries me. Last week I had three hookups and yes, all three times I was really drunk. I do realise that it's normal that the sex in these situations is rough and emotionless, but all three of them at a certain point just started fucking me in the ass without asking or even warning me. Luckily I can take it and at the moment enjoyed it. But afterwards I felt really bad about the fact that they just assumed they can do that and didn't need to ask for my consent. I honestly feel a little used and disrespected right now. When a drunk girl let's you come home with her to have sex, you can't just do whatever you want. If they asked, I'd let them anyway, but it just seems a little fucked up all three of them just went for it.
Why do guys do this? Am I overreacting? Is it maybe so common that anal is on the menu during a one night stand? I haven't known the "single life" for a long time, so I'm pretty new to this.
Why do so many guys try to stick it up my butt without asking?
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 35Are u srsly asking this? Next u will complain whh did he cum on u without asking, why did he just stick hia dick in ur mouth without asking. Why did he just get me naked without asking... dude.. if u invited him for sex then he doesn't have to ask for every other step.. if u r not ok with smth u shud tell him beforehand.. otherwise all goes.
The fart box is tighter and can't get you pregnant, a perfect spot for cumming when a condom isn't present.
But I'm on birth control, like most girls, so it doesn't really matter.
Birth control isn't 100% effective, also I've had a girl tell me she can't ever get pregnant due to her medical condition yet somehow now she has three daughters. The point I'm trying to make here is that people lie and the fart box the best choice for a guy who doen't want kids yet to orgasim in.
Look at this rubyrose chick who commented here, she's being judgmental as fuck, abd didn't have the guts to hear my reply n blocked me. she's more of an asshole than the asker and the guys who she fucked
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I don’t do anything anal and never will.
they probably can't see the difference between your butthole and vagina. if a woman is fat this can happen because the vagina and butt crack become one single skin fold.
Sounds like you need to stop while you are trying to pull yourself together and if you need someone to vent to or talk follow and pm me
Perhaps they are also drunk. I think they should ask at least
and will continue until you clean your life up.
Do you stop them
I agree with you. Even if you agreed to have sex they can’t just do whatever they want with you. Since you said that it’s “drunk sex” please just be careful. Some guys may not respect you enough to stop whenever you don’t want them to do something to you. :/
Most guys assume that a girl who will get drunk and fuck a stranger has had it in her ass many times previously and it's as normal as fucking you in the pussy.
By your actions, you are attracting guys who don't have much respect for girls. That is why you find guys trying to fuck you in your ass without asking. They don't respect you.
Cuz men are more or less gay.
If you have a nice ass guys will try anal. And you can always say no lol.
No you are not overreacting it is normal to ask first especially that the girl may not be prepared for it. I do not think anal is very common but it is surely a turn on for most of the guys, me included. It just feels so sexy to take a girl like that and even explode inside her butt.
Sort your life out there, mate.
If you act like a whore, you get treated like a whore. Those guys didn't give a fuck because you invited that attitude. Oh and you liked it.
Have some standards.
You're not really overreacting, and it's definitely not right they would do that without asking if you're ok with it...
... BUT... you are being disrespected because they see you as a hoe, an easy lay who is letting any guy at fu*k her
I'm not saying you deserve it but seriously, do you really expect to meet nice guys when you eagerly open your legs and invite any & all random cocks to penetrate you?