Why do so many men expect to receive oral sex but then never give it in return?

At first, I just thought this was my experience. It’s been two years since I’ve had sex but I haven’t received oral since I was 21. But then I googled it out of curiosity, and apparently this is a trend a lot of women seem to be dealing with.

A lot of men want (and to some degree EXPECT) oral sex or ‘head’ from their partner but never return the favor, even if she wants it. People, including comedians like Katt Williams, joke about women not wanting to give head looks bad and is a negative but what about guys who don’t give oral in return?

Personally, I’ve decided you aren’t getting oral if you’re not going to do it to me. I remember liking it, and I don’t think it’s fair to have me do it but refuse to do it to me.

Is there a reason why this is a trend? I’m sure some women do it, too, but this seems to be more relevant to men from what I’ve read. Is this fair?
Why do so many men expect to receive oral sex but then never give it in return?
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  • Odd, I love eating her out.

  • I don't mind if they don't go down on me, I'll still go down on them.
    My pleasure comes from giving my guy pleasure.

    • Totally agree but I do still love it when a guy feels the same way

    • @AilsaGourly Well for sure! I wouldn't say no either :)

    • I love it, so intimate especially 69

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  • With my ex. I was willing and able to do oral of her. She however was a bit hesitant. Due to the boyfriend she had before me. Not being able to do that good of a job of it.

    So it took a while to get her ok with the idea of having me do it on her. But once she noticed that it could be a good thing if done by someone who cured to do it. That she could enjoy it herself.

    There was even days I would just go down on her because she had a strudel day. Not expecting to get anything back from it besides maybe a thank you.

    However when she would give me oral I also enjoyed it. But never expected her to out right just do it.

    Was even a few times we just did a 69 on each other without having sex.

    But the sex was good when we did get around to it.

  • I believe it’s truly because... some men don’t have interest beyond a typical f*** when involved with certain females. Whether it’s due to her sexual activity past, or the way she carries herself. Some women give head just to let the man know she wants it if they’re showcasing other feelings more platonic then that.

  • if men don't go down on you it's probably because your pussy ain't pretty

    • No, they make that declaration before they even see it. I have the conversation with them before clothes ever come off. They say they just don’t like doing it.

    • Here's the thing there are some women you look and you want to bury your face between her legs just by looking at her face and there are some you wouldn't do that to. It depends how attractive you are to them, if you're attractive enough they'll do everything to please you.

  • I personally enjoy giving it, but not receiving it. I tried it and didn't like it very much. I'll just stick to giving 😉

    • ILY...🥰😘😍

    • Are those melons real

    • I enjoy giving and generally do so first while giving is awesome it's also great recieving especially while giving

  • Love giving that sloppy head! Just be cautious that we have noses too.. There has been a few times where baby girls be looking delicious, once I get down there its like wtf!! It goes both ways.. I love that females come back wanting second because they were satisfied.. I guess Its just a few of us chosen ones lol

  • Personally, this fact breaks my heart! How can this be? I'd DIE to go down on a Girl!

  • Most guys love eating girls. I know I do. You need to look in a completely different place for men, than the place you have been looking.

  • You just need to pick the right kind of men 😊 there are some guys who just take, but dont give. The majority likes to recieve and give. Abd some men only give oral and dont want to get it.

    The problem is, that we tend to search for the same kind of partner over and over again.

    For example: i always find women who never give oral and only want to receive. And i love that 😋

    Im sure you will get many replies here of guys who love giving oral, much much more then guys who dont give

    • No, it’s not me. Statistically it’s over twice as likely to happen to women than it is to men. It has nothing to do with who I pick.

    • It is true that there are more woman giving oral then man. But there are still many many men who loves to give. I dont really understand it, because im a pussy eating fetishist. I can't go without. But im always suprised by how many other men are like me, while everyone says that most men dont like to give oral. I rarly see guys who dont like it.

  • I personally dislike getting a blowjob but i like to lick her a lot 🤔

  • I'm just the opposite, I don't care if I ever get it but love to give it! Want some?

  • Omg same. I feel like I haven't gotten oral in a millenia lol

    • Start demanding it or find a guy who loves it.

  • I wish there was a female equivalent of blue balls so we could use it as an excuse to get our pussies eaten out

    • Usually saying "I'm wet", is enough for most of us to dive between your legs and taste you there. The guys who refuse to do it are missing out badly.

    • Well I guess three guys have been missing out then

    • They are just silly. Maybe it is more prevalent among young men in certain countries? I am curious.

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  • What? I used to love eating my girlfriend out 😂
    I actually miss it tbh

    I don't expect it, i understand a lot of girls don't like giving oral. So I am ok without it

  • That's utterly shit and its wankers like them lads that give us all a bad name if your open to it I'm more then willing to bury my tounge and fingers down there untill I'm covered in your cum just to apologise for other shit parts on the Male sex

  • Maybe you should ask yourself then why you keep picking those men who treat you like that. You know, self-responsibility.

  • I give it. Love it.

  • Uniquely black girl problem...

  • Becouse they are not gay

    • Did you just say becouse

    • And are you retarded?

    • Oh yes my dear, I am infact a enormous retard, the biggest you will ever find in this rather disappointing and lacking community

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